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Girls what to you think of your bf adding random girls on facebook?
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Posted 6/1/12
Hate FB. GG.
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Posted 6/2/12

lifeincircuit wrote:

Adding random girls(assuming they're not also adding a bunch of other random people) is really only for the purpose of hitting on them


Truth.
Posted 6/2/12

FlyinDumpling wrote:


underlock wrote:


lifeincircuit wrote:

We have many biologically programmed desires which we've learned to ignore or suppress. It's simply because we live in a patriarchal society that the idea that men should be given a pass is still treated as valid.


What exactly in entirely true when it comes to our human knowledge? Agreed, male or not, there's no excuse to forgive either side, since a relationship should always mean 50/50 in a general sense.

However, you underestimate the meaning of trust. Or to be more specific, expand it over unknown territories. Trust isn't some god blessed state of mind that forgives everything. I would like to be specific, but there are too many things that come to mind. Although I'll just ask you if you always know if the other person is really trustful or just ignorant of the results.
aww underlock has emotions



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Posted 6/2/12
Have you talked to him about it? if it was me, I would talk to him and tell him that "I am worried, even though I shouldn't be, but I love you too much to watch you slip away, please tell me you feel the same..." <------gyaaaa so corny, I'm sorry, I watch too many soppy Korean Dramas....
but seriously, I think it will be good to talk to him, but it all depends on his personality though....
Posted 6/2/12
Depends on how he acts toward him...if he starts commenting on her photos things like, "lookin good " ....then we might have a problem.
Posted 6/2/12

Winterfells wrote:

Jealousy is poison in a relationship.

Just because a guy is adding random chicks on facebook doesn't mean he wants to cheat on you with them. And even if he IS attracted to them, better that he does it on a stupid social networking site, in your plain sight, than sneaking out of the house and hooking up with chicks at a bar.


I concur with this post.
Posted 6/2/12
Women are better off without men.
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Posted 6/2/12

D01BCDN3 wrote:

Women are better off without men.


You mean in general?
Posted 6/2/12

i_love_u_jesus wrote:


D01BCDN3 wrote:

Women are better off without men.


You mean in general?


Nah, just for me.
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I don't have a boyfriend.

... xD

But, I wouldn't mind. Unless they appeared attractive or around the same age limit as him, I'd probably get defensive. I wouldn't assume anything.

... I'd monitor his facebook. Just to be safe. Maybe hack it && check his messages... Just kidding.
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Posted 6/2/12 , edited 6/2/12
No joke. Im in a relationship now, and I got a friend request from a girl who rewrote my entire manual on what Beautiful is.. lol.
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Posted 6/2/12
adding random anybodies is just weird
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Posted 6/4/12
I have trust issues. I would never forgive him and make him delete them. And since the guy I like wouldn't add random girls, it just enrages me more. They would've added him.
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Posted 6/4/12
If there is that much distrust and jealousy, you should probably reevaluate the relationship. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship if he wants to add a bunch of random females to his FB, nor does it sound healthy to be so jealous. But you can't expect him to never talk to other females, just like he should never expect you to never talk to other males. It all boils down to trust.
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