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Posted 6/4/12

tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:

What if somebody have a crush on you but u like someone else...?
if it was me, i had to know that person more...but i think i cant replace the other one without real conviction

I'm a very straightforward guy. I would tell that person that I'm interested in someone else already, so she/he should find someone else to have a crush on because it's not going to work out with me. Why so? It's better to tell them before they take things too far; before they get way more hurt (due to their attachment to whomever they have a crush on).
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Posted 6/4/12
oh to be young again :o

this already happened to me during my high school days. so i'll just say what i did. i was immature back then so all i did was accept their feelings but never gave them answers. i entertained them whenever they come to me. i never took advantage of them physically but i still left them hanging.
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Posted 6/4/12

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tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:

What if somebody have a crush on you but u like someone else...?
if it was me, i had to know that person more...but i think i cant replace the other one without real conviction

I'm a very straightforward guy. I would tell that person that I'm interested in someone else already, so she/he should find someone else to have a crush on because it's not going to work out with me. Why so? It's better to tell them before they take things too far; before they get way more hurt (due to their attachment to whomever they have a crush on).


hmm it could be that the person you like also like somebody else xD
How are you going to tell it?
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Posted 6/5/12

underlock wrote:


tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:


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I feel like a lot of females would reject the guy, but a lot of males would give up on their crush.


i dont think so... :S Guys have the chance to choose among the girls but girls cant propose to the guy. :S
it feels indecent if the girl starts it.


What a 1950 mindset.


aww im a wallflower and a very timid girl :S I cant even start a conversation with a guy that I'm not close to D:
Posted 6/5/12

tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:


SilentSinnerInBlue wrote:


tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:

What if somebody have a crush on you but u like someone else...?
if it was me, i had to know that person more...but i think i cant replace the other one without real conviction

I'm a very straightforward guy. I would tell that person that I'm interested in someone else already, so she/he should find someone else to have a crush on because it's not going to work out with me. Why so? It's better to tell them before they take things too far; before they get way more hurt (due to their attachment to whomever they have a crush on).


hmm it could be that the person you like also like somebody else xD
How are you going to tell it?

By being simple: "I understand that you have a crush on me, but I'm interested in someone else at the moment. Do understand that I am not obligated to accept you just because you have a crush on me."

If the one I'm "crushing" on likes someone else, then I must understand and just move on because I'm a very impatient man and I won't wait.
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Posted 6/5/12
i've never been confessed to :> though my friends have. one of my friend keeps getting stalked by this creepy guy, she's been trying to tolerate him, but after a while she got pretty annoyed of it. not sure if i feel sorry for my friend or the guy o.O
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i've never been confessed to :> though my friends have. one of my friend keeps getting stalked by this creepy guy, she's been trying to tolerate him, but after a while she got pretty annoyed of it. not sure if i feel sorry for my friend or the guy o.O


lol if he's a stalker, it's really annoying and creepy. At one time, a guy calls me on my phone and I dont even know much about him but he keeps calling and asking things about me but I dont know that person much it's just a nuisance that' he's calling for something unimportant
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Posted 6/5/12
well. crushes are ment to crush your heart lol. so if that person only likes you enough to have a crush on you. then your bound to crush this persons heart... lol. but if things get more serious like. the person starts to come at you more aggressivly. then maybe this person may like you more than a crush so they cant really be considered a crush idk. what if someone have a crush on you? it doesnt matter till that person gets obsessive and agrressive.
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Posted 6/12/12

tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:


eggy_roll_1 wrote:

i've never been confessed to :> though my friends have. one of my friend keeps getting stalked by this creepy guy, she's been trying to tolerate him, but after a while she got pretty annoyed of it. not sure if i feel sorry for my friend or the guy o.O


lol if he's a stalker, it's really annoying and creepy. At one time, a guy calls me on my phone and I dont even know much about him but he keeps calling and asking things about me but I dont know that person much it's just a nuisance that' he's calling for something unimportant


that is weird...if u haven't seen that person before at all xD i wouldn't mind if it was a nice guy that wasn't weird...but it wouldn't really be considered stalking at that point..
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Posted 6/12/12
'I'm sorry, but there's someone else'
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Posted 6/13/12
I don't know what's worse being "friend zoned" or "big-brother zoned"....
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Posted 6/13/12
Play with their emotions... I'm evil like that...
jk.. I just don't know how to say no, so I usually end up hurting them...
i feel bad, but i really hate saying it right away... I mean, they are usually my friends and all...
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Posted 6/13/12

tsukushi_ryuechiz wrote:

What if somebody have a crush on you but u like someone else...?
if it was me, i had to know that person more...but i think i cant replace the other one without real conviction


agree with you :)

think it will be so unfair for the other person.

know a story about my friend of friend that "loved" someone and was together with another person. Obvious that guy were nothing but a totally disrespecting trash -.-, i pity that girl that had a crush for that guy, and they even live together -.- now after they broke up everything so awkward, sad part the girl forn't even have the cash to move out -.- and they became fuck buddies...
i'm like.... zzzzzzzz (crazy that people like them excist)
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Posted 6/13/12
Reject him politely but if im happy being with him and I may have some special feeling toward him. Then, I will go ahead and try to accept his feeling.
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Posted 6/13/12 , edited 6/13/12
I think this topic is getting old. It's only a crush anyways. Unless he wishes to get serious with you. We shouldn't assume a simple action or word immediately. If he's really into you but it's different from what you feel towards him, then you should tell it to him. Don't give him more hope when you know to yourself that it's impossible.
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