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What if somebody has a crush on u but ...
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Posted 6/14/12
Right so I was once on the opposite end of that. I like this girl and she didn't really reciprocate, but she didn't come out and say it and just strung me along giving me the impression I had a shot. Needless to say, it was all wasted effort. The best thing to do is to let them know you are not interested so they can move on instead of leading them on.
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Posted 6/21/12
This happens when I was in 7th grade. I liked this guy but he already had a girlfriend (then they broke up while I still liked him ) . This other guy in my class told me that he had a crush on me since a long time ago. I didn't tell him I liked another guy because I was afraid that I would hurt him but in the end , I did. Even now , he still has a crush on me but he doesn't talk to him. All he does is stare at me during class. I caught him more than 20 times since then. But eventually , I confessed to the guy I liked but he's going on the another school so ...
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Posted 6/24/12
I would do nothing and hope he would get the hint
or I would tell him I don't like him like that.
Posted 7/17/12
I never replied back to their answer or their actions on hitting on me because I was never interested in them in the first place. It was cold but still. If I'm going to go out with a girl, I have to man up myself and ask them out.
Posted 7/17/12

BatteryPlug wrote:

I never replied back to their answer or their actions on hitting on me because I was never interested in them in the first place. It was cold but still. If I'm going to go out with a girl, I have to man up myself and ask them out.


Not that I'm one to judge but personally that's kinda jack'd. Not saying it's wrong, a lot of people do it that way. But even a text to that person or a facebook PM to them saying: Look, I acknowledge how you feel but I just never thought of you that way. I'm sorry it's not what you wanted to hear." would be better than just giving someone the cold shoulder. If they are diehard crushing on you or worse: Oblivious of subtle signs your non-acknowledgement is sorta like stringing them along if not intentionally. If you feel you can man up to ask out a chick you like then you should likewise be man enough to tell someone you have no interest in your intentions as well. Letting someone down at least gives them the courtesy to process and move on rather than just leaving them carrying the torch for you.

Additionally, I have had to do this myself and though I've lost potentially good friends confronting them, I've also kept and made new ones by simply being open and honest. Again, not faulting you for your stated course of action but it seems in direct contradiction to what you're willing to undergo to tell a girl you DO like. Sensitivity begins with the feelings of others taking the forefront before our own.
Posted 7/17/12

Haha, no it's fine. I respect your opinion and maybe I should start to reply with kindness, you may have changed my mind. I thought I should before but after a while the hitting on and attention I got from the girls that liked me got really annoying. That's when I started to act cold. I've taken a person's feeling in other situations but I guess not this one because it's the one that has annoyed me the most.
Posted 7/17/12
LOL, well I hope you do consider it at least. Sounds like you're quite popular with the ladies and how you treat one travels really damn fast among the rest. It's both a curse and a blessing, so the best policy is honesty and kindness. People can't hate you if you're just too likeable and nice to boot. Well... maybe the guys since you're practically starring in your own harem anime.
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hey i just met you
and i think your crasy
because you gave me your number
and ask me to call you maybe
but i have a girlfriend already
Posted 7/17/12
I usually play the friend code on them, or treat them like a lamp.

Yes, a lamp.
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Posted 7/17/12
Is it just me, or this whole "asking for love advices" on an anime, albeit general section of the forums, a bit...idk.. Kind of a fruitless effort?
Posted 7/17/12
I would just let that person know i'm not interested in them that way. Knowing how they felt now would make it hard for me to be around them or even have a "friendship".
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Posted 7/17/12

RickyFromVegas wrote:

Is it just me, or this whole "asking for love advices" on an anime, albeit general section of the forums, a bit...idk.. Kind of a fruitless effort?


Some men just want to watch the world burn.
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