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Signs He Is/Isn't Into You
Posted 6/8/12
I put together a list of signs that a guy might like you, and then I added the list of signs by eric charles on signs that he doesn't.


Reply with signs that a guy OR girl might not be into someome.
and reply with signs that you think means that they might :p

or talk about someone you think might like you




Let’s go through the checklist of ways to tell a guy is not into you:


1. He’s not around you.
This is the biggest sign of whether or not a guy is into you. If he’s not into you, he won’t be “around”.
It’s funny – guys will act 100 different ways around the girl they like… they’ll even completely ignore her! Or tease her. Or be annoying.

2. Talks to you about other girls comfortably.
So maybe you and him talk on a regular basis. If he talks to you about other girls or a relationship with a girl casually and comfortably, that’s a sure sign he’s not into you (in a romantic sense at least).


3. He has no interest in talking to you.
This is plain enough. If he doesn’t have interest in talking to you, it’s pretty much a given he’s not interested.


4. Body language / general behavior: Avoids eye contact, positions body away, doesn’t encourage conversation or volunteer anything about self. Maintains distance from you.
If does any of the things listed in #4, those are pretty sure signs he’s not into you. There’s enough dating advice / flirting tips stuff out their that beats those points into the ground, so I’m not going to spend time on body language stuff.


5. Always busy. No rain check.
So you set up a date and he’s flakey. He flakes constantly on you. He’s not that into you (as they say) – missing a date or two is one thing, but a guy will make the time for a girl he’s interested in. Period.


6. No difference between how he talks to you vs other friends. Casual tone of voice.
When a guy is interested in a girl, there’s always a slight difference in how he interacts with her. It may be subtle, but you’ll notice it. He’ll have some special way of talking to her or extend some special kind of attention to her that he doesn’t generally extend.


7. He flirts with you… but he flirts with everyone else, too.



8. He’s a friendly, outgoing guy in general.
Similar to above. Pay attention to how he interacts with others.


9. Doesn’t talk about feelings, doesn’t say love you, says he’s “not sure what he feels”

10. Ignores you, shows you disrespect (putting down your values, thoughts, ideas)
Some guys have their own issues to work out… and unfortunately, some girls get caught up in being the medium through which the guy works them out.

-by Eric Charles
edited by: Nyuboom


Checklist of signs that a guy IS into you

1.He’ll find reasons to be close to you.
He’ll always just seem to end up in the same parts of the room as you.
You may not have noticed it before, but once you start paying attention to it you’ll completely notice it.

2. He will act shyer around you
I notice some guys will start getting rather fidgety and a sense that they feel out of place or awkward when around their own crush.

3. He will try and get your number.
Sometimes even through YOUR friends. Its one tactic a guy uses without having to ask directly

4. He will talk about you to his friends

5. He will maybe joke around with you calling you by a nickname or pet name.

6.Acts of chivalry - pulling out chairs, opening doors, ect.

7. Stares at you.

8.When he cracks a joke you'll be the first person he looks at.

9.He'll ask you what you think about other guys

10. He'll notice and remember certain things about you.



anddddd thats the end of my list! hope you enjoyed it lol

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Hey, we happen to end up in the same thread.

I definitely need to tell my friends about this thread, the advice is quite good. Maybe we can exchange numbers and share our philosophies on this subject?

amidointhisrite?

Posted 6/8/12

Winterfells wrote:

Hey, we happen to end up in the same thread.

I definitely need to tell my friends about this thread, the advice is quite good. Maybe we can exchange numbers and share our philosophies on this subject?

amidointhisrite?



lmao you almost had me going there.
Posted 6/8/12
Hey Nyu the love guru,

I happen to really like this elephant in a nearby circus. But it's always ignoring me unless I give it peanuts. Do you think it's interested?

I have yet to confirm its gender. Could that be the reason? Should I try bringing the elephant for a romantic dinner? Or is it better if I play the cold type?

Many thanks.
Posted 6/8/12
Close enough.

Now do one about women.
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Guy isn't into a girl:

He is capable of talking to you like an ordinary human being the first time he meets and converses with you. (no shyness, stuttering, awkward silences, etc .. )

Guy is into a girl:

Assuming you're not holding food, he's being nice to you.

Girl isn't into a guy:

Looking away from the guy in question with a look of disinterest or boredom.

Girl is into a guy:

Blushes if she looks at you and/or screams that she wants your babies.

DISCLAIMER: Rajyrr will not be held responsible if his advice happens to result in unwanted hurt feelings, bodily mutilation, or death by ball stomping.
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He's not into you if he doesn't take the time to call or text you. Booty calls do not count!
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I'll book mark this page for reference.
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Guy isn't into a girl:

It's been mentioned how if a guy talks to you about a different girl they wouldn't have any romantic feelings for you. Another thing to note is that if the guy is also comfortable speaking to you like a guy or using the words "dude" or "man" around you, he's pretty much friend zoned you.

Guy is into a girl:

I've done this plenty of times: If a guy is looking for a potential relationship, the girl will be brought around the family more often. Assuming of course that the guy is close with his family. If he goes out of his way to introduce you to his grandma/grandpa mom/dad then he obviously has a bigger attachment if not long term plans.

Girl isn't into a guy:

Can't make time to hang out with you. Actively tries to avoid hanging out one on one. i.e. - If you ask her out on a pseudo date (meaning like if you ask her to the movies, but don't imply that you want it to be just you and her) she'll immediately bring up the idea of having friends around.

Another one is if she doesn't accept acts of kindness. I know some girls just don't want to use a guy and what not, but if the girl constantly doesn't accept acts of kindness such as rides home or the occasional paying-for-the-bill she might be trying to send you a message. It all depends on the girl.

Girl is into a guy:

Conversations had with the girl "flow." There is never a dull moment and she actively mentions things she wants to do meaning things that hopefully you'll offer to do with her.

Takes interest in your music choices and takes note of your music recommendations. If you see her listening to those songs/music a lot more often, it's either because she genuinely likes it and/or they remind her of you.

She gravitates towards you. Every time you see out of the blue or in random she has a smile when she spots you. When walking, she constantly is next to you. At parties she'll go out and have her fun, but every now and then she'll go back to you drunk smiling and wanting to give you random hugs and hold you.

Likes to spend one on one time with you. And when this happens, she loses track of time. Anytime she speaks of "time going by too fast" or if she doesn't seem like she wants to go home, that's usually a sure fire sign.

But be careful if she has a boyfriend. Don't make the same mistake as me..

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scottRabara wrote:

Guy isn't into a girl:

It's been mentioned how if a guy talks to you about a different girl they wouldn't have any romantic feelings for you. Another thing to note is that if the guy is also comfortable speaking to you like a guy or using the words "dude" or "man" around you, he's pretty much friend zoned you.

Guy is into a girl:

I've done this plenty of times: If a guy is looking for a potential relationship, the girl will be brought around the family more often. Assuming of course that the guy is close with his family. If he goes out of his way to introduce you to his grandma/grandpa mom/dad then he obviously has a bigger attachment if not long term plans.

Girl isn't into a guy:

Can't make time to hang out with you. Actively tries to avoid hanging out one on one. i.e. - If you ask her out on a pseudo date (meaning like if you ask her to the movies, but don't imply that you want it to be just you and her) she'll immediately bring up the idea of having friends around.

Another one is if she doesn't accept acts of kindness. I know some girls just don't want to use a guy and what not, but if the girl constantly doesn't accept acts of kindness such as rides home or the occasional paying-for-the-bill she might be trying to send you a message. It all depends on the girl.

Girl is into a guy:

Conversations had with the girl "flow." There is never a dull moment and she actively mentions things she wants to do meaning things that hopefully you'll offer to do with her.

Takes interest in your music choices and takes note of your music recommendations. If you see her listening to those songs/music a lot more often, it's either because she genuinely likes it and/or they remind her of you.

She gravitates towards you. Every time you see out of the blue or in random she has a smile when she spots you. When walking, she constantly is next to you. At parties she'll go out and have her fun, but every now and then she'll go back to you drunk smiling and wanting to give you random hugs and hold you.

Likes to spend one on one time with you. And when this happens, she loses track of time. Anytime she speaks of "time going by too fast" or if she doesn't seem like she wants to go home, that's usually a sure fire sign.

But be careful if she has a boyfriend. Don't make the same mistake as me..

:(


woow. definitelly :)! im.. kind of exactly like the girl into guyy "stage" LOOL XD ima so show my bf this!

Posted 6/8/12 , edited 6/8/12
When a girl isn't interested, do this:

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Well. some signs a girl is into you are.
1. The creepy stare- she will constantly stare at you. and if you ever seem to stare back. and she just quickly looks away.
2.Eye Contact when talking- you can tell the difference of just staring because of courtesy, and staring because she really wants to hear what you have to say.
3.Smile- and every time your around her she just has a fat smile. for no apparent reason. like oh shes just looking at you and shes smileing. or when you kinda smile.. she has this turned away smile..because shes shy.
4. When shes trying to occupy herself- when a girl is trying to like play with her hair. or do something while your near her is probably because shes just shy.. and dont know how to react around you. shes just nervous.
5. Body Posture- you can definitely tell if a girl is into you or not just based on there body language.. like if a girl wasnt into you she wouldnt really pay attention to you, like shes just comes off ass someone slightly rude or mean. but if she is kinda into you. like you can see the way she smiles, how she wants to be near you, find a reason to sit next to you or talk to you. yeah some girls are shy but even the shy ones. would want to find a reason to be near you. xD

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NyuBoom wrote:


Winterfells wrote:

Hey, we happen to end up in the same thread.

I definitely need to tell my friends about this thread, the advice is quite good. Maybe we can exchange numbers and share our philosophies on this subject?

amidointhisrite?



lmao you almost had me going there. :D


Did it almost work?
Posted 6/8/12
Wish I found this sooner lol
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Guy is into girl-
Pretends to like the same stuff she does.
Disregards his friends when she is around.
Would be willing to give up meat if she is a vegetarian...

Guy is not into girl-
Ims and text message conversations are short, and uninteresting.
Hangs out with her, but hardly pays any attention to her...
Starts dating another girl...

Girl into guy-
Is the first to start a conversation.
Acts some what awkward around him than when she is with others.
Will do silly things [like steal his hat and hide it] just to get his attention and make him pay attention to her.

Girl is not into guy-
Seems rather dull to talk to.
Does some thing else, [plays with phone, or reads a book] when he is around.
Isn't awkward around him at all.
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