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Post Reply Can men and women be "just friends"?
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men and women can't be friends as 1 of them will always want a taste.
and resisting hurts a lot.

i 've been preventing myself for years. its hell, trying not to break touch barrier.

hot female friends too pain-fall. can't touch her

their are people which you don't feel anything for, but they may get trapped in that hell instead of you.

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of course...but it will be complicated once one of them gets a gf or bf..because their bf/gf might not understand that they are only friends
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I personally believe it's possible, but rare. It seems to me that if a man and a woman like each other enough to repeatedly spend time with one another, there is enough mutual attraction to support a level of sexual tension that is impossible to deny, whether acted upon or not. Once acted upon, well, you just can't unring that bell.

You, scottRabara, have a decision to make. It seems she has made hers; the reasons for which, although seemingly important, have little bearing on what you must do for yourself at this stage of the game. You can walk off the field left feeling bitter at the loss in such a way that it colors all of your future relationships with the opposite sex. That's pretty typical, actually. Another option is to take your leave with a hard–won life lesson in tow... In the long run, it's easier to live with sexual tension than with regret.
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Well the last good female friend I made I started having feelings for her and we starting dating but things were kinda awkward so it didn't last very long and now we never talk.
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one side has probably had feelings for the other at one point but then got past it
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Posted 6/8/12 , edited 6/8/12
I have to disagree with pretty much everyone on this one...

My best friend is a guy. Been best friends for 11 years, since I was 18. Pretty long term, to say the least.

We are not, nor have we been, nor will we ever be in any sort of physical relationship. I've had boyfriends, gotten married, he's had girlfriends, none of it ever made a difference. We do the same thing we've always done which is bullshit and chill. Not every man and woman stuck together in a room are attracted to each other. We are not. We're just 2 whackos who enjoy each other's blah.

OP, your case is different from mine. Personally, I say damn the boyfriend and damn friendship, go for it!
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Physical attraction is just that, physical. Just because you want to sleep with an attractive friend doesn't automatically equate to you having strong feelings for them. And even on that, strong emotional feelings towards someone isn't an automatic push to want to "be" with them. Women and men can easily be friends, just because someone has run into the situation themselves a couple times doesn't mean that's how all relationships are doomed to be.

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ofc they can, i personally have more girly friends than male. there's a huge diffrence in, a girl you're interested in that you want more than just friendship, and a girl you're comfy with just chatting about everything
Posted 6/9/12
I would like a male friend who doesn't have fantasies about making out with my boobs all the time... even the gay ones fail.
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I think so o.0 What would they be other wise?
Posted 6/9/12 , edited 6/9/12
That kind of thinking never made any sense to me.
I mean you really think that there is absolutely no pair of good looking people on earth that have no sorts of attraction towards each other?
Attraction and beauty don't necessarily go hand in hand.You can admire someone and be mutually admired by someone, be it from both a physical and psychological point and simply not be attracted to them.
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pinkrusse wrote:

I would like a male friend who doesn't have fantasies about making out with my boobs all the time... even the gay ones fail.


Can you really blame them?

Tits are magnificent!
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"You are just a puppet. You have no heart and cannot feel any pain."
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Yes.
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