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(FOR BOTH GENDERS) Does "fat" turn you off when looking for a mate?
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Posted 6/14/12

Ganymede wrote:


Winterfells wrote:


AmaraEveinson wrote:

I'm mostly just curious since I haven't found any forums that talked about this. Also because I'm kind "chubby" myself.


... Also chubbiness is not a permanent condition. You can always lose some of that weight later on if you so desire.


Not necessarily, I've known people who have had massive issues with their thyroid that refused to let them lose weight. On the other hand, I myself am in a situation where I cannot GAIN weight though I've been trying for years, seriously if I lose any more I will be considered underweight.

As for the question at hand ... a little fat on a woman is a good thing (to me), though excess amounts can turn me right around. I think my body naturally attunes itself to women with desirable genetics or something. Skinny as a rail could mean an eating disorder or health issues, and the same goes for too much.


Yeah I have the same problems with gaining weight and maintaining a healthy weight is hard. As for the fat question, no it doesn't really bother me if they're a little chubby. Now something like 400 pounds or over is a no.
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well i love curvy women, so as long as the fats in the right places i have no problems at all. so long as its not 400 or more.
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masamunepulse wrote:

well i love curvy women, so as long as the fats in the right places i have no problems at all. so long as its not 400 or more.



We can just say it more blatantly, "Please, no Sumo Wrestlers" ~~
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Posted 6/14/12
I don't care.
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Posted 6/14/12

Rei4Shinji wrote:


masamunepulse wrote:

well i love curvy women, so as long as the fats in the right places i have no problems at all. so long as its not 400 or more.



We can just say it more blatantly, "Please, no Sumo Wrestlers" ~~


yeah pretty much
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I am more concerned about how healthy they look. They can be quite big, but as long as they are healthy looking I am totally fine with it. I exercise regularly to maintain my fitness though, so I wonder if that would be an instant turn off for someone who considers themselves 'fat'
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I guess the non-vain thing to say is that no, appearances are only skin deep, but appearances matter a lot. If you are deciding on who you want to spend the rest of your life with, you better like what they look like. And personally, I like my girls curvy, but not fat haha
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I have had a great metabolism all my life so I don't know what it's like to struggle with weight.
Anyway I'm not gunna take the effort to make this sound nice.
Anything other skinny is a turn off for me. And in most cases that people would consider a girl curvy I wouldn't even like it.
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Nerdy, dirty, and curvy for me.
If not 400+ pounds, is 399 okay? XD

Hygiene, plus personality, plus some commonalities, plus being able to have self-control, and being able to hold a conversation. I think that's a good recipe. I don't like liars or cheaters.

I have such a high metabolism it is hard for me to gain weight.

I have had relationships with different types of girls (body sizes). What turns me off is visible fat, when it hangs off the body because of sedentary lifestyle. When one doesn't have much activity, the fat tends to collect in different areas and hang; it's gross.

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Yes. well i dont mind that much but i would rather and prob would be attracted to a person without alot of fat compared to a person with alot of fat. -_-
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...not a turn off but it depends on personality,thats where a turn on or off would be...at least to me
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Posted 6/14/12

Ganymede wrote:

Not necessarily, I've known people who have had massive issues with their thyroid that refused to let them lose weight. On the other hand, I myself am in a situation where I cannot GAIN weight though I've been trying for years, seriously if I lose any more I will be considered underweight.


That is definitely true. It would suck to have to struggle with your weight, even if you put in the necessary diet and exercise to lose/gain weight.


Also for, the guys and gals who wonder what I mean by "curvy women" here is an example.


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Posted 6/14/12
Not at all. I like guys that are chubby...
Posted 6/15/12
Definitely, unless the fat is in the right places.
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Posted 6/15/12 , edited 6/15/12

Rajyrr wrote:

For me specifically .. It used to a lot more than it does now. It still does. Overcoming vanity entirely is quite difficult, as it turns out.

Chubby is attractive in its own right, I'd say. Obese makes me stand in silence. Leviathan class 400+ pound women scare the ever merciful living hell out of me, and so do the men. Anything past that and I'll make the argument they clearly need to do some cardio.

I mean, a person can't starve themselves. But god damn. Some people need to think of their health ..


I lol'd at the 'Leviathan Class' because it sounds like some sort of starship typing...it was funnier than it should be
"Carrier has arrived."

Some fat is necessarily. Too much is bad.
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