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How to talk to your crush?
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My apologies if this thread has already been posted - although this thread is quite specific

If you're a girl:
Imagine you're in a situation where you suddenly start noticing somebody you think is cute
say, in a school environment
and begin to crush on them as time goes on but you're really shy
what would you do in this situation assuming he doesn't even know your name?

If you're a guy:
All advice is accepted!
So feel free to leave any tips~
Posted 6/15/12
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I changed your title since it seems like it was a personal thread.

Here's my approach to a guy if I notice him. I either go up to him and just casually start a conversation, or just go near him and smile. They usually say hello first after you flash a smile. If it's a work or school environment, I see if he hangs around anyone I know. If he does, I'll get that mutual person to introduce me. If not, I'll go up to him and greet him. It's that simple. You should never be afraid to talk with anyone. Grow a back bone and speak.
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Posted 6/15/12

Kippu wrote:

I changed your title since it seems like it was a personal thread.

Here's my approach to a guy if I notice him. I either go up to him and just casually start a conversation, or just go near him and smile. They usually say hello first after you flash a smile. If it's a work or school environment, I see if he hangs around anyone I know. If he does, I'll get that mutual person to introduce me. If not, I'll go up to him and greet him. It's that simple. You should never be afraid to talk with anyone. Grow a back bone and speak.




Thank you for that!

That's a really sensible response that I've contemplated before. Of course, being the wimp I am, I've never been able to put thoughts into action. I recently found out one of my friends is also friends with him which could potentially be a subtle opening for a shy person like myself.

Thank you for the reply :)

Posted 6/15/12
I tend to avoid my crush.

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Posted 6/15/12
I would squeeze my heart in my hand until it either screamed or dropped the shy act. Then I would go talk to them.

Unlike what I did the last few times.

I'd like to think I've learned my lesson about shyness.
Posted 6/15/12
Go say hi If there's anything you can think of to talk about that won't come off as strange or too sudden.. Right?? And yeah! Get your friend to introduce him XD
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Posted 6/15/12
smile and ask for directions or something if you dont know them,
if you do know them then throw little complements in ever now and then :)
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Only thing to do is balls up, yes even females, lift your skirt, grab your balls, give them a squeeze and just go try to talk to them!

No stupid flirting attempts from afar, talking to your friends about it, just go bloody speak to the person, find things out about them; do you share any common interests?

If so, do it like they do on the discovery channel. If you catch my drift.

Film it too.
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Posted 6/15/12
What I would do.

Start with casual conversation, but don't make it too cliche(How is your day? , whether, etc)
- Everyone has a story to tell. I'd tell mine. If I can't open up, she prob wont either.
- Make sure she remembers the conversation.

I'd act nonchalant and wouldn't let her know how much I like her or come on too strong
- Thirst is unbecoming. Male or female.

I'd act confidant
- Maximize my strengths in the convo, minimize my weaknesses
- Eye contact, voice, and posture. Nonverbal accounts for over 60% of communication
- I'd act like an alpha-male. Even if I'm not, I'd act like I am. Most women don't like blatant weakness. ...if she shows interest in me, I'll let it be known that I'm not later. That way she might feel like I'm opening up to her something.
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Mmmm. I can't say what I would do now, because I am dating my crush I guess haha. But to get there, the most important thing is letting her know you are interested. Other than that, don't be nervous and be confident.
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be yourself and give her compliments and chat about things she's interested in ^^
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I'm in a delicate spot. I work in a store and this woman comes in eveyday around the same time and gets the same thing. We started off flirty and I learned some things about her. Problem is she has on/off again bf; can't be sure if her behavior says on or off rigt now. Also, this is work and I want to stay professional. Don't like hitting on every attractive woman that walks through the door. I don't want to be that guy. Everytime I build up the nerve I cave, just can't find the words. Lately, coversations are short I think she lost interest waiting for me to make a move.
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Finding the right words to say on your first impression and figuring what to converse about will probably be your biggest obstacle. I would give you tips on that if I could but I'm also struggling in this (finding the right words I mean).
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