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Strangers again?
ItsMev 
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Posted 6/20/12

Catz1297 wrote:

Scenario:

So if you had been getting really close your crush, but only talked online (but you see that person everyday in school/work, but you don't talk to them) ... and suddenly the person is transferred to another section, or has no classes with you, and you guys stop talking all together- when you see each other the rare time, you aren't able to make eye contact, and he/she deliberately walks in a circle around you/ as though he/she wanted to avoid you ...

So you essentially become strangers again.

Imagine you were crazy in love with this person and that you couldn't spend a day not thinking about him/her... but you never confessed to that person...

What would you do?

I just want to know because I only have one more year of school with him. I don't want to lose him, but I can't really find the courage to confess...

*edit* I do not want to just talk about me~ tell me your stories!!




If this post isn't appropriate for this forum, feel free to delete. And yea, I know I sound like the typical teenage girl Problem?


You have to put your heart out there with the chance of it being broken, there is no other way, especially in the situation you described.

Approach him when you can, tell him how you feel and how long you have felt that way, and WHY you feel that way about him, you could have your heart broken but unless you put your heart on the line and risk it, you will never know if he was the man that would fulfill you for the rest of your life.

What's more scary, confessing your feelings, or potentially not being able to find your love and spending the rest of your life alone and unhappy.
Posted 6/20/12
For what reason do you desire him (or her)?
Let him (or her) know
Other than that it's stupid
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Posted 6/20/12
People have two options, in this scenario.

1.) Be upfront with them, no matter how much you're stuttering or blushing. If they're worth your time, they aren't simply going to turn you down without some kindness in mind. You'll also learn if they're already taken!

2.) Do what I do and become an expert at avoiding people in a crowd.
Posted 6/20/12
If you're already pretty much strangers with them, you've got nothing to lose by talking to them. Kinda annoying how people just don't do anything about it.
Posted 6/20/12

Shrapnel893 wrote:

Gotta catch em all.


Gotta go fast.
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Posted 6/22/12
Already went through this before... I'd play video games all day and forget and them, its not that hard for me since I've become cynical when it comes to relationships
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Posted 6/22/12
HAHAHA I can't help you man. Least he doesn't know your feelings. Imagining walking by someone who is aware of your feelings it makes you want to crawl up a burning rubbish chute and die from heat and extreme pressure in the most painful way possible.

Confess to him on the last day of school and pray he doesn't get a girlfriend before then.
Posted 6/22/12
ah you just reminded me of a story that happened to me 2 years ago, i liked this girl a lot, we talked a lot in art class since it was the only class that we were with each other. She was the only reason why school is worth it lol, but one day she just randomly stopped talking to me and only replied with short answers. after couple days, we just completely stopped talking. Today i know what my mistake was, but now i have moved on.

I also DO NOT think you should confess. A lot of people might disagree with me but if he doesn't want to talk to you and avoids you confessing to him wont change his feelings. You should try to interact with him more BUT do NOT become too sticky, that will just make you annoying
Posted 6/22/12
At least you have a chance
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Posted 6/22/12 , edited 6/22/12
Its worth a try when it comes to love. <3
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Posted 6/23/12
Just confess.
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Posted 6/23/12
Your story looks complicated, while even this situation is simple. When I had a crush on somebody, I just analyzed if I had a chance. It's not that hard, trust me.

Even if this case is a failure, so what? I mean there are so many people on this planet and you're just 16...
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Posted 6/23/12
THis happened to me all the time as I have difficulty putting up with the same person for periods of time extending beyond a week. I just let them be strangers and went on about my day.
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Posted 6/24/12
I was in LA and met a new hobo, gave him change, he complimented my headphones and said I was sweet. Strangers can be nice :).
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Posted 6/24/12
I like Strangers.
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