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How to convert a lesbian back into a..what ever a straight female is called.
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Posted 6/24/12

Syndicaidramon wrote:

You can't. You're simply gonna have to settle with being friends.
Unless you're lucky and she developes feelings for you, realizing that she's bi and not lesbian... But that isn't something you can do anything about.

I must say I am somewhat annoyed by your ignorance in this matter.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Chances are, she was born that way.


Doubt it man. When I was talking to her on the phone awhile ago she said she had a few guy exes, infact she was ranting about one being a massive dick head for stealing from her during that convo. So, that rules being born gay out of the question.
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Posted 6/24/12 , edited 6/24/12

mystic17 wrote:

If her preference is only females, then you should just go find another young lady that has the same qualities that made you like her. You can't automatically become heterosexual.


Same qualities? Ha. Rare. Im gonna atleast try. I don't care anymore.
Posted 6/24/12

ChaseTheCase wrote:


Syndicaidramon wrote:

You can't. You're simply gonna have to settle with being friends.
Unless you're lucky and she developes feelings for you, realizing that she's bi and not lesbian... But that isn't something you can do anything about.

I must say I am somewhat annoyed by your ignorance in this matter.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Chances are, she was born that way.


Doubt it man. When I was talking to her on the phone awhile ago she said she had a few guy exes, infact she was ranting about one being a massive dick head for stealing from her during that convo. So, that rules being born gay out of the question.


You obviously don't really know how the world works. There are plenty of women and men who date the opposite sex only to realize later on that they have always been gay and were just in denial about it.
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Posted 6/24/12 , edited 6/24/12

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


ChaseTheCase wrote:


Syndicaidramon wrote:

You can't. You're simply gonna have to settle with being friends.
Unless you're lucky and she developes feelings for you, realizing that she's bi and not lesbian... But that isn't something you can do anything about.

I must say I am somewhat annoyed by your ignorance in this matter.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Chances are, she was born that way.


Doubt it man. When I was talking to her on the phone awhile ago she said she had a few guy exes, infact she was ranting about one being a massive dick head for stealing from her during that convo. So, that rules being born gay out of the question.


You obviously don't really know how the world works. There are plenty of women and men who date the opposite sex only to realize later on that they have always been gay and were just in denial about it.


Oh well. She obviously dated men before. Thats all I care about. Shes single, and I'm pursuing this cause.
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Posted 6/24/12 , edited 6/24/12

ChaseTheCase wrote:


mystic17 wrote:

If her preference is only females, then you should just go find another young lady that has the same qualities that made you like her. You can't automatically become heterosexual.


Same qualities? Ha. Rare. Im gonna atleast try. I don't care anymore.


That's the spirit! The only question is will you crash and burn or not.
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And a new creepy stalker is born. Awesome.
Posted 6/24/12

Shrapnel893 wrote:


ChaseTheCase wrote:


mystic17 wrote:

If her preference is only females, then you should just go find another young lady that has the same qualities that made you like her. You can't automatically become heterosexual.


Same qualities? Ha. Rare. Im gonna atleast try. I don't care anymore.


That's the spirit! The only question is will you crash and burn or not.


I am pretty sure almost everyone in this thread knows the answer to that question already.
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Posted 6/24/12

Shrapnel893 wrote:


ChaseTheCase wrote:


mystic17 wrote:

If her preference is only females, then you should just go find another young lady that has the same qualities that made you like her. You can't automatically become heterosexual.


Same qualities? Ha. Rare. Im gonna atleast try. I don't care anymore.


That's the spirit! The only question is will you crash and burn or not.


Well, atleast one person agrees with me here.
Honestly, I don't even know, but regardless if shes gay or not.. Im gonna try. If I crash and burn, then well..shit.. I crash and burn. But im hoping, and praying (something I rarely ever do lmao) for a safe landin.
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Posted 6/24/12 , edited 6/24/12

KrimsonGray wrote:

And a new creepy stalker is born. Awesome.


Yeah. Im a creepy stalker, yet she gave me HER CELL AND additionally her FACEBOOK willingly.. Without ME asking (I only asked for her cell). Get outa here with that huff shit.
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Posted 6/24/12 , edited 6/24/12

ChaseTheCase wrote:


Syndicaidramon wrote:

You can't. You're simply gonna have to settle with being friends.
Unless you're lucky and she developes feelings for you, realizing that she's bi and not lesbian... But that isn't something you can do anything about.

I must say I am somewhat annoyed by your ignorance in this matter.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Chances are, she was born that way.


Doubt it man. When I was talking to her on the phone awhile ago she said she had a few guy exes, infact she was ranting about one being a massive dick head for stealing from her during that convo. So, that rules being born gay out of the question.


You really need to specify that stuff in your OP. That's crucial information right there.
Anyways, if that is the case, then the possibility of being attracted to males is indeed in there somewhere.
Not necessarily, but maybe.
If she has proclaimed herself a lesbian, then it is indeed possible that it was because she have lost faith in men.
In which case it should be fairly obvious what you have to do in order to restore that faith.

Still, many date people of the opposite sex before they realize later that they are actually gay, so... Don't get your hopes up.
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Posted 6/24/12

Syndicaidramon wrote:


ChaseTheCase wrote:


Syndicaidramon wrote:

You can't. You're simply gonna have to settle with being friends.
Unless you're lucky and she developes feelings for you, realizing that she's bi and not lesbian... But that isn't something you can do anything about.

I must say I am somewhat annoyed by your ignorance in this matter.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Chances are, she was born that way.


Doubt it man. When I was talking to her on the phone awhile ago she said she had a few guy exes, infact she was ranting about one being a massive dick head for stealing from her during that convo. So, that rules being born gay out of the question.


You really need to specify that stuff in your OP. That's crucial information right there.
Anyways, if that is the case, then the possibility of being attracted to males is indeed in there somewhere.
If she has proclaimed herself a lesbian, then it is indeed probably because she have lost faith in men.
In which case it should be fairly obvious what you have to do in order to restore that faith.


See! Now im getting some good advice. Thats the last push I needed.
Mods, lock this shit!
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You have 3 options:
1. Get a sex change and become a beautiful woman.
2. Try to spend time with and talk to her on a daily basis and eventually ask her out and hope for the best.
3. LEAVE HER ALONE.
Posted 6/24/12
No, you don't need her in your life. You just met her. You cannot force someone to change their sexuality.

This form of "love", admiration is what it truly is, has blinded you.
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Posted 6/24/12

Xmas_Hat wrote:

You have 3 options:
1. Get a sex change and become a beautiful woman.
2. Try to spend time with and talk to her on a daily basis and eventually ask her out and hope for the best.
3. LEAVE HER ALONE.


Option 1 is a no go.
Option 2 is what im actually doing.
Option 3 will only be done after option 2 fails. I ain't that thirsty for women. Its just this girl is truly different than anyone ive been with.. and trust me.. my relationship list is longer than Lil Boosie's criminal record.

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AsuraCryin wrote:

No, you don't need her in your life. You just met her. You cannot force someone to change their sexuality.

This form of "love", admiration is what it truly is, has blinded you.


Forcing per-say is a bad word. Lets just say.. im going to persuade. if she is truly die hard gay, then shit.. Im just outa luck. lol.
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