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What's worst, having no parents or having abusive parents?
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Posted 7/7/12
in A LOT of movies, manga, anime, books, etc the protagonists have either no parents or abusive parents. the ones with no parents always tell unappreciative kids that they r lucky to have parents. i think its sometimes not true since having abusive or just plain evil parents can be as bad or worst. what is ur opinion?
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It depends on the situation and the person herself.. For instance, you may not have parents because they were murdered when you were younger,or either you were put in an orphanage... Usually,having abusive parents is not any good.. I consider it the worst not only because it can be a very bad situation and have hurt physically and mentally,but also because I believe you can live happy without parents... Many orphans did great things in life,and maybe you won't be the next president of your country( however,there's a slight possibility it happens if you try to make it happen) but you can be proud of small things you do in life...Open a clothes wash business,that is you still put up a businness...Things often seem like nothing,while they're important to make the world go on..

At last,I think both situations are not fun to live with.. I wish people to whom things like this happens have a great time in their life and get to overcome some of these events that took place in their lives...
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having abusive parents is the same as having no parents
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Having abusive parents is obviously worse.
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i_love_u_jesus wrote:

Having abusive parents is obviously worse.


im just saying cz i hate it wen in the movies, the orphan kid is telling the other kid that having no parents is like the worst thing in the world. it's not. i can think of many other things. having bad parents is just one thing
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Well, from my viewpoint as a person with a nice, loving family, I'd say abusive parents is worse for the kid overall. But if I were actually in a situation with abusive parents or no parents, I don't know... When you don't have parents, all you want is a family, no matter how they treat you. And even if your parents are abusive, some kids in that kind of situation still love their parents and wouldn't want them to die or anything, so... I really just wouldn't know. Too many variables, too many different circumstances.
Posted 7/7/12
I think having abusive parents is much worse than having no parents.
How i see it..
If you're treated like shit and abused, verbally or physically by your parents, would you still call that family? I don't think just cause people are family by blood that it makes them an actual family. I'd say it's how you treat each other and love/show affection and actually care for each other is what makes a family.. Wouldn't you rather be alone than be abused by the people you love and expect to love you back?
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From my viewpoint as a person with no parents, and my associations with people with abusive parents, having abusive parents is far worse. But the manner in which the parents are no longer is also important. I never really had parents because I was taken away from my mom at 2 and never knew my dad, and my mom never really tried to reconnect afterwards, and she died a few years ago so she can't any more. I'm sure that a child who watched there parents brutally murdered would be much worse off than me. You also have to factor in the different types and levels of abuse, and their unique effects each type has on a child.

It would be wonderful if every child had loving, supportive parents that knew when punishment was necessary and when they were crossing the line.
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Abusive parents are worse.
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Nah, it toughens up the kid. I mean, sure, it's more likely to emotionally scar them, but hey, that toughens people up aswell. Well, it also creates insane white people who go on killing sprees in schools, but yeah.
Posted 7/7/12
If it worked out well for Tarzan, why don't they let gorillas become adoptive parents?
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Abusive parents are worse.

much worse
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Having abusive parents is worst. I rather have no parents than bad parents.
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If only the society have a standards in this issue it might be easy to answer or it is already considered a marginalize according to stats; At least there is a figurative comparison but not quite the case. There is always two side of the story and it also applies to this logical query. Surely one can state or site the positive and negative aspect of this subject.
Having NO PARENTS seems to be worst for you can feel the stigma within your self that your all alone in this world. You might start to ask if you deserve to have no parents. What was it like to be having a parent and one may start to have a selfishness versus the need to belong attitude. Selfishness for you need to depend solely by your self and consider that you must do it all by your self to accomplish something in life. Need to belong in a sense your doing all in your will just to feel not secluded and alone, hence; Your still be facing the truth that your still alone in life with no family to recognize you.
On the other hand, Having an ABUSIVE PARENTS is much worst for one must face and undergo the trauma everyday that society or the creator must have been forsaken them that they ended up living on Earth suffering not only physical, mental but emotional pain as well through the so called the one that brought them up to this world. The sensitive part of this is the victim of the abuse may likely feel to have a social prejudice and hatred toward his or her parents or any significant or non-significant figure that reminds or resembles their abuser profile or worst some of the victims will commit a crime or pass on suffering to others as a self act or redemption or vegeance. This type of individual after an abuse needs therapy and medication compare to those individual that have no parents.
Conclusion, ABUSIVE PARENTS is WORST than having NO PARENTS at all. For the pain that you undergo and given by the same flesh and blood that created you or the one's that gave birth to you in this life is much worst and unforgivable than the pain you suffer without knowing them completely

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abusive parents is 10x worse imo. i grew up without mi padre and i grew up living a happy life ^_^ i know its not the same as having noooo parents still. i hear about friends who hated their dads and i'd much rather not know mine then have him here ruining my life

so no parents ftw! lol
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