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What is the point of sex?
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Posted 7/9/12
I'm a romantic, and I'm quite sure of myself that sex is appropriate when it comes to not only give pleasure, but to be connected with that certain person. I mean, it's such a huge, general subject, but that's just me. I think that having sex would be the betterment of the one you love including you. It's to see how much you want to hold and touch the person you've always wanted to be with - and to cherish the moments of loving one another.

Sorry, that seemed cheesy.
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I don't know.

How long is a piece of string?

that's right.
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I have nothing useful to add, so I'll just say that it means others cant be mean to you for being a virgin anymore, other then that.... I guess its how you get amazing kids, unless you either pick them up off the street.... (not that anybody does that... >.> <.<) or adopt them (as I did).

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Posted 7/9/12

Is it the most satisfying experience in life? Is it the only happiness there is? Is the purpose of life just to have sex?

Why do people feel the need to have children? With natural resources dwindling, why would we want to have children, knowing that they may not have as good of a life as we do?


Eh.... these are some peculiar questions that's been over asked, but whatever. People have their own point of view of the purpose of sex as well as a reason for having children. I personally prefer sex for procreation only. Food is more satisfying than intercourse for me and of course not it's the main source of happiness. Can't really comment on why people continue to have children even with the resources plummeting, since as I mentioned people have children for different reasons.
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Pleasure and instincts is the purpose of sex. Our brains produce pleasure by the act of sex, and our instincts push us to do it in order to reproduce. Why do it at all? Because there is a deep needed necessity in our minds to pass on our genetics to the next generation, that's why.
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shiori-kun wrote:

The current economic issue has nothing to do with how good a life your child will have. Dwindling resources has always been an issue, the alount and number of resources has not changed since Christ walked the earth. The resources still get consumed and what is replenishable is allowed to grow. If your middle aged then you may remember virgin steel, never been recycled. your child will grow up in the age of recycling, that Toyota today will be a stop-light tomorrow and in the future it may become roofing material or Ford's latest car. The fact i the world is not that bad of place and never really has been, just as times change so does the way we live our lives and some people have trouble making that change.



Hopefully we will develop an alternative energy source before fossil fuels run out.
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lolz4554 wrote:

lol just a foreveralongeguy thread, here's some advice stop being a pussy and try stupid never know what might happen if you're here complaining about it. This is not a personal attack it's just the truth.


How exactly am I complaining? Do you consider a question that you find rediculous a complaint?
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Seriously, are you even asking these things?
Just a wee bit of reflection should make these things obvious.


lordseth23 wrote:

How does that make it fun? What is the point of it if it only lasts for a limited time?


So? That's the same as if any other fun activity. Are you gonna ask why we bother to do things that are fun in general?


lordseth23 wrote:

Why eat it at all? Won't it only cause misery if you are unable to eat it all the time?


Are you miserable for not being able to eat the food you love all the time?
No.
Because if you eat it all the time, you'll grow sick of it.


lordseth23 wrote:

Why do people feel the need to have children? With natural resources dwindling, why would we want to have children, knowing that they may not have as good of a life as we do?


Because many find joy in caring and loving other individuals. And the bond between a father/mother and their offspring is something unique that many people want to experience.



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Kittychi75 wrote:

Have you done ANYTHING sexual at all?? No offense, but I'm getting the impression you haven't. It feels great, I know that much. And though I have a kid of my own, like someone else mentioned in this thread, yes, kids DO cost alot of money, esp. in childcare. That's the reason why I myself am heisitant to have another. But if you're scared of making babies, use condoms, and you'll be fine.


No, I haven't due to the fact that I am not attractive at all and I will never find a gf.


You certainly won't with that attitude.
Many women don't care about looks at all. In the cases of those people, what could potentially turn them off is nothing but who you are as a person.
And if those people find you repulsive as well, then what's wrong is your personality.
If you can't change your looks to the better with excercise and training, you can at least change your personality to the better. Do that, and you will find someone eventually.

Seriously, most is just dependant on that. Your personality. And also on how you project yourself.
If you give off a weak, submissive and uncertain vibe, chicks will avoid you.
If you project confidence and strength, chicks will at the very least, respect you, even if you're physicly unattractive.


If you DON'T do any effort to better yourself, however, you will stay alone.
Nothing comes for free. You have to earn your happiness.
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Posted 7/9/12
you sound like u have some sorta mental disorder you should go to a therapist and talk things through...
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Posted 7/9/12
Did you really just ask this..?

My turn for questions for you!

Do you hate your life that much?

Are you that frustrated that you can't experience the thrills of hearing a girl scream the house down and know that you, the man with the thrusting pelvis are responsible for such noise to wake the neighbors?
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Trust me, I used to think exactly like you when I was in high school.
However, once you find someone you love and actually feel what it's like to have sex, you will know.
If you've watched enough anime, then you've come across romance titles, no doubt. When you feel for someone like the hero/heroine of a certain anime feels for their partner, then you will know.

The answer to all of this is love. If you love someone, you want to do more intimate things with them. And when you have children with them, they are the proof and byproduct of the love that you share.

Even though sex might seem a bit pointless right now, it will make sense once you progress through life.

At least, this is the answer I've come up with.




And for the people who have sex without love, the answer is: They have nothing better to do or their hobby is exactly that. Some people like exercising. Some people like cooking. Some people like watching anime. Some people like sex. And just like you can watch anime all day, some people have sex all day. Heck, some people make a living off of it (ex: porn stars, prostitutes).

The answer to this is all relative. But I like the first answer better
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lordseth23 wrote:


lippedlove wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

How does that make it fun? What is the point of it if it only lasts for a limited time?


what's the point of anything, then? nothing lasts forever. if that's the mentality you're going to hold then you might as well go sit in a big empty room until you die


What would be the point of that? I want to watch anime for the rest of my life, and that is my motivation for doing anything at all. Why doesn't everyone sit in a big empty room? They are going to die eventually, right?


~That's the point. We live short lives so it should be a must to have some fun. Plus, sex is great. Not just because it feels good but also because it's a great exercise for sexual partners. You burn 35 calories in 20 minutes of sex, vaginal bloodflow of women increases by 157%. Sex is a great workout when you wanna burn some fat but you don't wanna do some weightlifting. So stop moping around asking stupid questions and find yourself some chance to get laid, unless you wanna become a real 40 year old virgin.

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22 / F / 砂隠れの里
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Posted 7/9/12
To have more babies.
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WindsOfHate wrote:

you sound like u have some sorta mental disorder you should go to a therapist and talk things through...


I agree
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22 / F / mars
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Posted 7/9/12
for your genes to be passed on to the next generation.
for reproduction
for pleasure
for boredom
for all your horniness to be thrown into one massive action called sex
for leisure
for love
for your release
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