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Which would you choose?
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I'll say, BOTH. Love and Friendship is very important to me. I can't give up on that, since it's one of those which makes me happy. and I can't give up on Happiness.
Posted 7/11/12

Morbidhanson wrote:

Friendship is love. But if I had to choose between romantic love and friendship, I'd choose friendship.

There's no rule saying you can't do romantic things with your friends.


That is so slick....i bow down to your intelligence...

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Love, duh. Friendship is love.
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-PureOfHeart wrote:

Title: WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE?


P.S. Sorry for the incorrect grammar for the title it seems i couldn't edit the title for some reason...Gomen


I recently watched Boys over Flowers here on CR and they held a truth or dare game...one particular question i found intriguing.....how would you answer if that particular character asked you this question....
"If you were to choose between Love and Friendship? Who would you choose? And Why?





I'll say, BOTH. Love and Friendship is very important to me. I can't give up on that, since it's one of those which makes me happy. and I can't give up on Happiness.
Posted 7/11/12

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-PureOfHeart wrote:

Title: WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE?


P.S. Sorry for the incorrect grammar for the title it seems i couldn't edit the title for some reason...Gomen


I recently watched Boys over Flowers here on CR and they held a truth or dare game...one particular question i found intriguing.....how would you answer if that particular character asked you this question....
"If you were to choose between Love and Friendship? Who would you choose? And Why?





I'll say, BOTH. Love and Friendship is very important to me. I can't give up on that, since it's one of those which makes me happy. and I can't give up on Happiness.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....................i guess we are friends...we think alike
Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
In a general sense, it would be like asking between bread and water.


Being more specific, would you rather risk a romantic relationship, or stay friends?

I'd take the risk. I know a lot of old people who missed the chance and had their loved ones taken by someone else, and they usually really regret it. How people see the end of a relationship varies. I'd tell myself to be grateful for the happy times. Even in love, don't let people take advantage of you, because if they do, then there's opportunity for regret. A person who really loves you wouldn't do things like that. For example: giving up a dream job, or education.


Friendships go away just as much as romantic love, and can bring just as much misery. Don't fool yourself.
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-PureOfHeart wrote:


nicole8angel8 wrote:


-PureOfHeart wrote:

Title: WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE?


P.S. Sorry for the incorrect grammar for the title it seems i couldn't edit the title for some reason...Gomen


I recently watched Boys over Flowers here on CR and they held a truth or dare game...one particular question i found intriguing.....how would you answer if that particular character asked you this question....
"If you were to choose between Love and Friendship? Who would you choose? And Why?





I'll say, BOTH. Love and Friendship is very important to me. I can't give up on that, since it's one of those which makes me happy. and I can't give up on Happiness.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....................i guess we are friends...we think alike


of course! ur my sis and mama... all in one =D
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allierose wrote:

thats an impossible decision

you should love your friends and your loved ones should be your friends too


hmm nice statement you gave
but what if...a person fails to maintain this balance of love and friends?
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So, you don't love your friends, and aren't friends with your loved ones?
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i would chose friendship greatest relathionship start by just being friends even if the love part ends i still remain friends with the other person but if the friendship grows more into the love part its a win win
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Of the stable married relationships I've seen over the years most of the people in them regarded their significant other as their best friend. Although I wouldn't generalize this to be 100% accurate best friends have a tendency to confide and trust each other more implicitly than mere lovers.

I was always amazed in group therapy (yes, get a good mid-life crisis started and you'll willingly participate in a lot of these for answers) how certain couples would reveal that they never explored the unsaid in intimacy issues between each other in all their years of wedded bliss. Their counselor or therapist of choice knew more about them individually than their spouse. If a client can intuit that the counselor or therapist is sincere, a listener worthy of trust who can convey that sense of unconditional love then the client seeking answers or advice to get their lives "unstuck" will open up and reveal their deepest feelings. Not all spouses are equipped to handle this level of intimacy or are even aware of the other's real needs.

I choose friendship. If you have the good fortune to cultivate a few in your lifetime you'll discover them as rewarding as love and with far less conditions or expectations to honor.

Posted 7/11/12

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dchurva wrote:


xXFallen-AngelXx wrote:

Btw love is very much real, its just hard as heck to find the real thing. most of the time, yes it is lies. but with experience from failed relationships will make u wiser and easier for u to find the right person because u know what to look for. like me, i learned to look for woman that hav kids, because females that hav kids tend to grow up faster, so they're more mature. And they're sweeter, kinder and more caring. They're less likely to be a b#$#%. Plus a female with kids who is single doesnt want to be single, so they probly wont cheat or play with your heart.


*applause* VERY WELL SAID!!!


hahahahahahahaha....did somebody else answered for you????...apparently .....tch....you need to choose...you're cheating friendship


HAHAHAHAHHA no girlfriend!! i just really like what he did said. :D
Posted 7/11/12

Hellhunter22 wrote:

Too many factors to take into account lol. I want to say both but.....I feel like that would be cheating the question. A lot of people think you have to be friends first to have love. However, there have been some cases where love at first sight can happen. So to go with this question lets just say I choose love. Since I choose love that means I have no friends. I then in some amazing way meet a girl who I fall in love with as soon as I set eyes on her and she feels the same about me. Well....I guess that would mean that I would consider her my savior and just cling to her. I guess as long as we could continue to be happy then it would be fine but.... I don't have a gf at this current moment in time so if I choose friendship it would pretty much mean that I would basically be living life the same way I am now......I guess it wouldn't be the end of the world. However, I believe the feeling of love can overpower the feeling of friendship which is why many take the risk to ask a female friend out in the first place.It could go wrong and you 2 could never be friends again but yet people still try and go for something better. So in that idea I believe I would choose love if I couldn't choose both.



well said........Luke..........well said

Posted 7/11/12
Honestly.. I can't properly answer the question coz' if i were to ask, it depends on the situation we are talking to.. But oh well here my answer goes and i think it will be confusing but this is my honest thought ....

I haven't really get into a successful relationship for long. But if it's totally possible i'd choose love because i'm so inlove with this person and i want to be loved by him and be with him all the time! But since this is real life i choose friendship over love because you can't break up and never see them ever again and thru friendship i still have a big chance to be close to the person, hangout, and get to know them more. and before love came friends come in first to your freaking life and add colors to it.. But still i i am not saying that love is NOTHING coz if someone really loves you or you truly love someone, you will or they will accept who your/their friends are and love them/theirs and care like you do or they do.

does my last sentences confuse you?? hahahahaha i hope you do understand it... tell me if it kinda confuse you! lol
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it depends if this person i love i would really love and she would really love me. if it was real love that didn't fade, i would choose love.
otherwise i would choose friendship.
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told you -PureOfHeart i would write it down first HAHAHAHHAHAHA

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nevermind my writing i know it hella crazy! LOLOLOLOLOL xD
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