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Why Are all The Good Guys Either Taken Or Gay??
Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/12/12
how come all the good guys are either taken or gay.its just not fair.at all!!

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is what my friend asked me.she hates the internet so i found out for her.she asked me this after her7 year bf broke up with her for some skank
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66 / M / Columbia, MO
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Posted 7/11/12
It's a matter of perception. They're out there. Sometimes it just takes longer than you would like to find the one right for you.
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Posted 7/11/12

bemused_Bohemian wrote:

It's a matter of perception. They're out there. Sometimes it just takes longer than you would like to find the one right for you.


This is very true. Sometimes you need to reexamine your own expectations and be honest with yourself. I know a lot of friends who overlook the obviously great guys in their life simply because their radars weren't wired correctly. Be open minded and be on the look-out, but don't be desperate.
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i agree with kitty. the good guys that are taken generaly get shit on at the end. trust me i know i was with my fiance for 4 years while she had stage 3 leukemia i took care of her and did everything she needed. then after being put into remission she left me for another guy. the crap part is that i still love her and all i want to do is be with her.

sorry for venting. but im sure you will find a good guy it just takes time. they do exists.
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there are a lot of great guys and girls out there, but a lot of people don't see it. everyone is always setting these leo dicaprio/bar refaeli standards (that their ass is nowhere near) and then friend zoning everyone who doesn't meet them no matter how kind or caring or wonderful they are. i used to be the exact same way and it's dumb
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Posted 7/11/12
But I'm not gay or taken?
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22 / F / ~ASIA~
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Posted 7/11/12
I think, not "ALL" the good guys are taken.. You can say "MOST" of them are.

Well, we cant really do anything if they are gay.. it's who they are..

And well, we girls have our own perception and opinion of "good guys".. what a good guy for me might not be a good guy for u... We just got to be patient and wait for that RIGHT person =)
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Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
They are all taken because you are looking in the wrong place.

Besides, lets face it. You probably want a boyfriend, not a girlfriend. So the ones you know that are nice, are too nice and automatically become your (girl) friends instead.


Read: Nice as in desperate, willing to suck up anything you say in the vain hope of getting something in return and generally without a spine.
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21 / M / Norway
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Posted 7/11/12
all the good guys are either taken, gay or left in the friend zone
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Posted 7/11/12

optimistic-pessimistic-girl wrote:

it's a good question.how come all the good guys are either taken or gay.its just not fair.at all!!



AHTL wrote:

They are all taken because you are looking in the wrong place.


Exactly. And yet here are guys like myself looking for a lady for the same reasons.

So unless, Miss optimistic-pessimistic-girl, you live here in the maryland area and are close or in Baltimore......we can't meet each other and solve both our problems with finding love.

You think I don't feel fustrated inside when I find out most of the good gals are taken or lesbian?

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Posted 7/11/12

optimistic-pessimistic-girl wrote:

no im anywhere near maryland.and ur probally too old for me(no offense)
plus my heart is taken anyways.what i hate even more is that you can tell a guy you like him he likes you back but when they are with their friends he is a total f-ing dick.


And the same can be said for a gal too when she's with her friends.

I hope you find the love of your life soon.

Posted 7/11/12
me too but with girls it's different way different girls can't be dicks only fucking bitches
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25 / M
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Posted 7/11/12
Personally, I cant give much on the subject as I would hardly describe myself as a good guy but from what I've seen this generally holds true. Most of them are busy, most "good" guys with there head on straight who aren't taken are putting there lives together until at least 25-30+ with such things as college and starting there careers.

However as some people have more or less stated it does help to ask yourself what do you think a "good guy" is and think carefully on your description.
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Posted 7/11/12
Tch, being a good guy sucks. Believe me, I'm one of them.
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Posted 7/11/12
Good Guys = White Knight = Harvey Dent

Bad Boys = Dark Knight = Batman
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