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Why Are all The Good Guys Either Taken Or Gay??
Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
Umm...<------- good guy here not taken nor gay...you just have to look harder. Oh and by the time some women realize that bad boys are a waste of time the good guys are already snatched up, so kinda the woman's fault :/
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Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
How can you say all the good guys are taken... :xP

How can you know whether a guy is good or bad if you don't know them well?

And instead of *dating* try just making friends and getting to know the person.



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Posted 7/11/12
some times it takes a bit of looking to find us

we are few and far between
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Posted 7/11/12

lippedlove wrote:

there are a lot of great guys and girls out there, but a lot of people don't see it. everyone is always setting these leo dicaprio/bar refaeli standards (that their ass is nowhere near) and then friend zoning everyone who doesn't meet them no matter how kind or caring or wonderful they are. i used to be the exact same way and it's dumb



This pretty much sums it up.
Posted 7/11/12

optimistic-pessimistic-girl wrote:

it's a good question.how come all the good guys are either taken or gay.its just not fair.at all!!


I need to get a say in this...

Not really true, if you're talking about relationship-wise, most nice guys out there are shy to ask a girl out face to face, they lack confidence. Also they are too nice to an extent when they completely stay away from them. Nice guys tend to talk to a girl without flirting cause they think it's just a way of mannerism and respect, and girls are not intuitive enough to sense our emotion; so a guy needs to do a little, but not much to make the spark work. So to sum up, are all shy guys nice? Most of the time, yes, but some shy guys are also misconshrewed for their niceness and are actually ill-behaved in the long-run.

This may be off topic slightly but I gotta say, I'm normally a shy guy yet I try very hard to go out there and not let it be a problem because I just can't stay in the house all the time hidden from society just because I'm shy.

To contradict your question, why am I not taken? I am a nice guy, I'm average looking, average built, and I can go on for about a couple more...

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Posted 7/11/12
Thats not truee ;
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Posted 7/11/12
This statement is a LIE!! haha!
I'm a good guy... single.................................. </3
It's even to the point where i can't ask a girl out lol... i'm lame...
What can i say i grew up bein the fat kid...
All my relationships... i've only been in 2 serious ones. lol we was friends first then got close.
ended because moving around for college and my last one because I'm leave for the military.
Theres alot of good guys most chicks just look for assholes till they grow up, get tired of the partygirl life and
see what they really want. Then again good guys are out getting their lives set up and arn't really looking.
It just takes time. Theres no need to rush into having a relationship.
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Posted 7/11/12
Don't you just hate it when you see a mismatched couple?
One of them is not the best looking and the other is SUPAH good looking!!!
Then you think to yourself: "How did that happen? All the good ppl are taken."

Thing is, you let yourself think they're the good ppl. How do you know a particular guy is good basing only on what you hear? He can tell you all the things he has done and they sound really sweet and what not, but ALL guys and EVERYBODY has something bad about them that they can't tell you entirely.

Just don't think too hard. Any guy can be the good guy or Mr. right if you let them be.
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Posted 7/11/12
I really don't know how you define "good guys," but if you go by personality, I've always found that my nicest friends were usually single, but they guys I knew who tended to be an ass always had a girlfriend. Maybe that's just a high school thing though.
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Posted 7/11/12
You sure you haven't met that nice guy but turned him down?
Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12

negan wrote:

The smart ones become bad after getting dumped once. The dumb ones continue being dumb and nice, but go unnoticed by girls like you because they're dumb.


This unfortunately is so very true. I started out a smart guy, got my heart broke not once but twice then dulled the pain with a nice warm mug of dumbass and have been oblivious ever since. My best friend that's a chick always scolds me when I miss opportunities now. Oh well...
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Posted 7/11/12
stop looking in the wrong places.

stop looking for your "ideal" companion.

stop looking. live in the moment.
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Posted 7/11/12
If that's the way he treats you when he's with his friends, then he isn't a "good" guy at all! Or at least not man enough to know how to treat a lady like a lady at all times, with friends on not!
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Posted 7/11/12
From my experience; I find that most of the young ladies look for good guys but actually want bad boys who excite them. Sad truth is most people simply don't know what they want and end up unsatisfied then vent on an anime forum.

I would advise the OP to think carefully what they like in a person and ask out the first person that comes close. Seriously just do it, what is there to lose? Some pride maybe? Bugger that.

Oh me? I'm not good or bad really, I don't know if I can define myself that clearly! I come pretty close to that 'good guy who got hurt' stereotype that was mentioned previously, but I've dished out some hurting myself before. Life isn't really so clear cut.
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Posted 7/11/12

cookie338 wrote:

all the good guys are either taken, gay or left in the friend zone

Lets all take a few moments of silence for all the fallen comrades in the friend zone.
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