jag0262 wrote:
I laughed when I saw this on the main page and cannot help myself.
What I have learned over the years. Some women fit one rule, some more than one, some none of them. This applies to mostly younger women (before you blast me, remember I am not talking all women) , a lot of them do not realize they are doing this.
1. "I want a nice guy" does not mean an actual nice guy, it means that really good looking jerk that I will pretend is a nice guy. Or the familiar I can change him.
2. Women will immediately put the real nice guys in the friendzone ( I feel for you guys, I know that place sucks) , this is partly the guys fault because nice guys do not always have the courage to get the girl.
3. Women want the jerk, because they have to fight for his approval. They want to win over the jerk, and feel really special when the jerk does do something that is somewhat nice.
Why does this happen, because a lot of women have been preset to want confident tall, dark, and handsome men. They do not know what they really want, and it is hormonal. This kinda thing can make any jerk look like prince charming, and unfortunately most of the confident guys are in that category.
Which brings up what many call the game. I hope you know what the game is guys, because I feel stupid explaining it. The game breeds this kinda thing, but unfortunately it is the only way to pick up most younger women.
So my tips for the guys:
Stop being so nice, I know your shy and I know you don't want to be rude, but you gotta break the ice. Once you have done that be all the nice you wanna be.
Women:
Those nice guys, their EVERYWHERE. You have at least one around you and your oblivious. If you have a male friend and he is single, he probably is that nice guy you are looking for (unless you know, he is gay). Give that guy a chance, because he is probably waiting for you to. There is exceptions to this rule, but more often than not this is the case.
I know this has been said already, but rethink your idea of what that nice guy is. If you keep getting jerks, that means that your attracted to those qualities, and your just going to keep getting those guys. My happily married friends said that out of all the people they dated, they ended up with the one that was their friend. So find that person if your looking for something real and not just a fling.
Of course, if your not attracted, your just not attracted. Hormones and pheromones do crazy things to your brain, and sometimes you can't change that.
Alright I am done, I will get off my soapbox now.
I'm far too lazy to read a post of more than 50 words but what I saw was true... I know... I'm a jerk. and I haven't been single in a long time.
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