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Dating a guy for his money
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Posted 7/11/12
Mostly intended for girls but feel free to add your opinions guys.

Would you date a guy JUST because he has money?

If you would date this guy for his money, what are your limits?

Would you break up with him after a few weeks of using him or would you try to marry him?

Also, assuming you would date him for his money, what would you expect him to buy for you and give to you?
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Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
I think a more appropriate question would be: could you love a poor bastard that doesn't have a dime in his bank account?

I don't think any girl will openly admit to dating a guy for his money. But all you have to do is beat around the bush a bit, like so...
What do you look for in a guy? Confidence? A sense of security? A person who has goals?

What this rougly translates into is: has a stable job, has money. Its a sad fact that even girls might be oblivious to.

And yes, I'm bitter much. >.>
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i'm sorry, but dating a guy (or girl, in my case) for his (or her) money or anything like that (looks, popularity, etc.) is sick and wrong.
if you're not dating someone because you love them for who they are on the inside, then it isn't love. it's just using someone for your own selfishness.
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I'm told a good job is necessary to attract a girl. That always did rub against my grain. You're telling me the army of people willing to argue women should rightfully exploit men, or vice versa, for their money, is somehow a bad thing? Or wrong?

Madness. Sheer madness!

.. Isn't that tantamount to prostitution, when you think about it? ..
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Posted 7/11/12

shadorai wrote:

i'm sorry, but dating a guy (or girl, in my case) for his (or her) money or anything like that (looks, popularity, etc.) is sick and wrong.
if you're not dating someone because you love them for who they are on the inside, then it isn't love. it's just using someone for your own selfishness.


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Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
Enough money to survive and do simple things is all I want.

The more money you have the more you want. It consumes almost everybody, and the few who aren't, usually have those around them consumed.
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masamunepulse wrote:


shadorai wrote:

i'm sorry, but dating a guy (or girl, in my case) for his (or her) money or anything like that (looks, popularity, etc.) is sick and wrong.
if you're not dating someone because you love them for who they are on the inside, then it isn't love. it's just using someone for your own selfishness.


pretty much what this guy said


alright! i feel like i'm setting a good example!
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I'm marrying for interest only. Love is important, but being smart is best.
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Posted 7/11/12
I'd ask for the money up front.
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if a girl dated me for my money id know it ,
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Posted 7/11/12 , edited 7/11/12
It depends on the situation, I think.

Some people, once they're older (i'm oollld..well not too old lol), want to date to meet their special someone..to get married and raised a family (i'm not here yet) and you're going to need money to do this. Even if you're attractive or whatever, it won't mean anything if you don't have money..raising a family is expensive; but they are outliers who don't care too much about this and raise a family fine..I think.

I noticed when I used eharmony (free acct basis) I got a lot more hits (inquiries) when I put my income level down on eharmony but noticed the profiles of these people wanted to have children...etc. lol. Money definitely helps..but I don't think you need a lot of it...just enough to be content with your life (which varies from person to person).

And when I was younger..I didn't give a crap about this stuff about money, but I think once you reach that point you will care to some extent.
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Posted 7/11/12
Yeah money kind of matters but I wouldn't date a guy just for his money
Posted 7/11/12
whats pathetic is the guy's that actually fall for this and think their GF's or Wife's really like them for who they are. Many people fall for this and this includes the boss of "Playboy".
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Posted 7/12/12
If it wasn't for money, ugly guys would never get laid.

Personally I'm glad women are shallow.
Posted 7/12/12 , edited 7/12/12

shadorai wrote:

i'm sorry, but dating a guy (or girl, in my case) for his (or her) money or anything like that (looks, popularity, etc.) is sick and wrong.
if you're not dating someone because you love them for who they are on the inside, then it isn't love. it's just using someone for your own selfishness.


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What doesn't kill you make you stronger but having this sick idea of dating, be friend with, loving and marrying someone for the money is self-rotten and self-sickening downgrading hellish self-murder of one's self via suicide and only people that are scared to suffer ego have this as a trade personality in heart and mind. Hope you sleep well at night knowing the choices you make in life makes you WHO YOU are as a person
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