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Dating a guy for his money
Posted 7/12/12

MokaForTheWin wrote:

whats pathetic is the guy's that actually fall for this and think their GF's or Wife's really like them for who they are. Many people fall for this and this includes the boss of "Playboy".


I don't think they 'fall for it' so much as they just don't care. Some men even like having a trophy wife.
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Posted 7/12/12

NothingLikeYou wrote:

Mostly intended for girls but feel free to add your opinions guys.

Would you date a guy JUST because he has money?

If you would date this guy for his money, what are your limits?

Would you break up with him after a few weeks of using him or would you try to marry him?

Also, assuming you would date him for his money, what would you expect him to buy for you and give to you?



Well that's a wrong, selfish way to be in love with someone. You get with someone not for money, but for what makes them a person.

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Posted 7/12/12
No one should ever do that. dating someone for there money that's wrong and selfish
I would never do that bull crap
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Posted 7/12/12
The female equivalent of dating someone for sex :/ I think it's stupid either way, it's a vacuous relationship that either won't last or never accelerate to anything meaningful. Meh may be it has its own thrill, I've never done it I don't know.


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Personally I'm glad women are shallow.


lulz
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Posted 7/12/12
Most people will say no, just because they are forced to evaluate themselves so if your really polling this you won't get unbaised responses.
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Posted 7/12/12

lambsareme wrote:

Most people will say no, just because they are forced to evaluate themselves so if your really polling this you won't get unbaised responses.


People do have issues being honest with themselves so no I don't expect the full truth to be revealed. I do like piecing information together over long term...it adds up to a better assumption IMO.

The answers I read will add to what I already know and not just the answers themselves but the way people choose to answser.

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Posted 7/12/12

MokaForTheWin wrote:

whats pathetic is the guy's that actually fall for this and think their GF's or Wife's really like them for who they are. Many people fall for this and this includes the boss of "Playboy".


Do you really think Hugh Hefner is oblivious to the fact that it's only his money that he has so many girls around him? He's not a fool.

But i'm sure he don't give a flying ****! I know i wouldn't!

And why should he? He's got the money and the girls. It's obvious non of them love him for who he is!
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Posted 7/12/12

AshRandom wrote:

Personally I'm glad women are shallow.


unlike men of course
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Posted 7/12/12

lippedlove wrote:


AshRandom wrote:

Personally I'm glad women are shallow.


unlike men of course


All of us are shallow, there's no dancing around that truth.

My favorite is when someone says they are not shallow then backs it up with an argument about not liking men with muscles and would rather have a slim guy with long hair... They don't realize that is also shallow just with a different taste.
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Posted 7/12/12
the internet hides so much about a person, but i agree with you and besides your way provides a little more entertainment in a way
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Posted 7/12/12
She wants his money to enjoy luxury without building her own wealth, he wants her body as a trophy to show off to his buddies and society.

I don't see anything wrong with it, everybody gets what they want.
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Posted 7/12/12
The majority of people would marry for money... even if they aren't aware of it. The reason being, life requires lots of money, buying a house, raising kids, going on a holiday all require a fairly large portion of money and people know this. The result is a slight change in what we as a species looks for in a mate, many thousands of years ago it would have been the fittest person that could fulfill their role the best (where fittest is literal) where as now it's closer to the person that can fulfill their role (where fittest is non-literal) and the best way to fulfill the role of a "provider" (typical male role in a relationship) is to have money to spare.

It's all well and good to say you wouldn't marry for money but ask your self this: would you marry a homeless person? Of course you wouldn't because there is no security in that deal... and yes marriage is effectively a deal of mutual benefit to both parties.
Eventually it comes down to a better phrased question: "How much money would you require your partner to earn so that you feel financially secure?" Or a slightly simpler version: "How important is financial security in a relationship to you?"
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Posted 7/12/12
I think Coffeebot hit it right on the nose.
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Posted 7/12/12

shadorai wrote:

i'm sorry, but dating a guy (or girl, in my case) for his (or her) money or anything like that (looks, popularity, etc.) is sick and wrong.
if you're not dating someone because you love them for who they are on the inside, then it isn't love. it's just using someone for your own selfishness.


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Posted 7/12/12
Dating is fine for whatever reason. You are just getting together with someone for a potential relationship. The purpose of dating isn't to fall head over heels for the first pretty face or loaded wallet to come along. The purpose of dating is to find a person who you can respect and who respects you back. Otherwise you are just looking for trouble.

Make sure the person you want for a long term relationship is on the same boat and is of like mind. True love is a testament of surviving whatever life throws at the both of you in an unsinkable relationSHIP. The relationship is so strong that it leaves a legacy of cherished moments in hard times, good times and old times.

What is incredibly naive and irresponsible is thinking money does not matter. Money does matter in a relationship. Money causes major stress in a relationship. No one wants the people they love, including their self, to go hungry. No one wants to see their children die for lack of medical care.

Anyone with money can lose it all at anytime in this unstable economy.

If you truly love someone, you learn to build on your relationship. You both learn from your mistakes and successes. You learn to get back up and become stronger through an unstable economy.




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