First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  Next  Last
Post Reply Very shy girls
8802 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / Gotham City
Offline
Posted 7/16/12
I don't tend to date shy girls. I'm a pretty outgoing guy, and I like to make jokes and chat - if I'm with a shy girl it'll be me doing most of the talking. It just feels like too much effort, not to mention awkward.
4330 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / F / HK
Offline
Posted 7/17/12
lol you're talking about super antisocial girls I believe?

I don't care... I would think they're cool since they don't really seem to outwardly show that they care about what others think of them, something I cannot do.
17404 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / F / tennessee
Offline
Posted 7/17/12

shweebs wrote:


allierose wrote:

i dont talk to random people unless they talk to me first.
i can't just go up to someone i dont know and say hi its nice to meet you!
thats incredibly scary!

its hard enough at work. a bunch of new people coming in and i say everytime hi how are you today. and i feel like the way i say it is very robto like

theres a woman i work with and she says that i need to find my big girl voice.
i dont know how

and everyone else says im too quiet
but i cant read while im at work. ill get in trouble. i dont want that

holy crap i hope im not creepy >_<


Haha, I doubt most people would think you're creepy.

On a different note, I don't think shyness is a trait that should be associated with creepy anyways. I mean, creepy can literally mean "repulsive". I think that if someone is repulsed by someone else who is timid, they might be the person who has something wrong with them. Plus, there are a lot of people out there who just lack sufficient self confidence. I think you actually have to get to know a person (even if they are shy) before you can determine if that person would be "creepy"


thank you! ^_^ i feel better now lol
31601 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Offline
Posted 7/17/12
I believe that most girls are just shy around people they don't know well enough. But I'm an outgoing and friendly person myself. I guess it depends if you seem intimidating, haha.
Posted 10/14/12
never met to many shy girls , i wouldnt generalize though.
8298 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / M / Cananananada
Online
Posted 10/14/12
I don't know any shy girls. Too bad because they seem cute
1765 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
16 / F / shioshishio ♥
Offline
Posted 10/14/12
I'm shy. o_o Nobody really has a problem with me being shy. Well, actually, I'm shy toward strangers, and I'm outgoing toward my bestest friends and family.
1354 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / F / Right behind you!
Offline
Posted 10/14/12
I'm one of those shy girls...
22178 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Sunny SoCal!!!
Online
Posted 10/14/12
It's only a matter of time before they open up but I met a shy girl once and man it took a good while before she opened up and starting chatting away.
5818 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
19 / F / 9 1 8 6 9
Offline
Posted 10/14/12
in the beginning when i first meet someone im really shy but when you get to know me i just won't shut up
8802 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / Gotham City
Offline
Posted 10/14/12 , edited 10/14/12
It's pretty important to know how to behave around a shy girl. Everyone probably knows at least a few, and it's unavoidable at times. There's a shy girl who works with you, or is a classmate in your course, a shy acquaintance of a mutual friend, etc.

You just can't come off as too strong or you'll scare the heck out of them. Don't ask them too many questions or else they'll feel like all the spotlight and attention is on them and they'll be flustered. Most of the time you'll have to do most of the talking, and they'll kind of quietly listen and say a few short sentences here and there. You have to respect them by not being touchy-feely or affectionate like you might be normally around your other friends.

I find that not staring them in the eyes the entire time you're having a conversation helps them feel more at ease, or else they'll just bashfully look away since it's not something they're used to. Just stand or sit next to them at a comfortable distance, so you can talk to them and look at the scenery or people passing by as you chat.

Don't put them on the spot by asking them to tell a joke or relate a story to someone else who comes by to say hi to you. Just be nice, gentle, reassuring, and understanding - like you're approaching a doe in the woods or something.
21510 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F
Offline
Posted 10/14/12
Boys tends to get attracted to shy girls at first but they stick longer to talkative, naughty and joker girls. :P

4330 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / F / HK
Offline
Posted 10/14/12
i used ti be this type of girl, but i guess no one was interested enough with me to try and relate to me...
so I changed
Posted 10/14/12

starlightpriestess wrote:

Boys tends to get attracted to shy girls at first but they stick longer to talkative, naughty and joker girls. :P



Defines me perfectly, I like shy girls but I'm not outgoing enough myself to keep them entertained. Lot's of awkward silences. I always end up with the less shy, more aggressive girls.
9127 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
21 / M / Australia
Offline
Posted 10/15/12
No, I'm always intrigued by shy girls. I prefer out going types but I can't help but wanting to talk to someone who is usually shy. I don't know why.
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.