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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Then the world would be a much simpler place if every woman did that.
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I wish girls would do it more, it'd save a lot of time, plus flirting & killing yourself to be extra cute for a guy is a hell of a lot of work. Just ask him out, if he says no, well you didn't have him in the first place, there are plenty more where he came from!
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SlimShadyDogg wrote:

Oh how i wish girls wo :sweatingbulletsuld do this. Im 18 and still cant properly ask out a girl. I even have a hard time talking to them unless we're friends (which is hard because you have to talk to them to become friends, then you get friend zoned).
Im kind of the shy type so it really sucks


im in the same boat as you dude and im 21
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Life would be easier if people cut the shit and just toldl people how they feel. So yes I wouldn't have an issue with a woman approaching me. However I could see some guys being put off by that. So my advice to you is figure it out yourself. Is the guy seems like he would be ok with the then do it otherwise wait.

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Life is weighed by risk vs reward. Make your decision and live the consequences.
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eternalchaos4200 wrote:


SlimShadyDogg wrote:

Oh how i wish girls wo :sweatingbulletsuld do this. Im 18 and still cant properly ask out a girl. I even have a hard time talking to them unless we're friends (which is hard because you have to talk to them to become friends, then you get friend zoned).
Im kind of the shy type so it really sucks


im in the same boat as you dude and im 21


Oh you young kids, I'm 23 and have had only one girlfriend & gone on dates with 2 others. You would think I would be upset by that but I'm not. I have more money to spend on hobbies, more time to spend with friends in the Michigan (hunting, skiing, off road & etc) and more time to spend on my studies. So don't feel bad life is good and if you happen to come across that perfect women jump on it immediately.
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The world would explode. Fact.
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I don't know why girls do that... Is it a girls rule or something? Or are they just too shy? Could be both.
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Catz1297 wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


Catz1297 wrote:

My pride keeps me from doing that. For 3 freaking years I've been contemplating whether I should tell him or not since the guy I like is excessively shy when it comes to this stuff, but in the end, I've decided to keep on waiting.

Plus I'm scared he'll reject me. I've invited him to events with friends a few times in the past but he's always said he's busy... so I'm pretty sure that's a sign that he's not interested, but then again his friends and mine are not the same so he might feel uncomfortable (yes, I'm making an excuse for myself) <=== so shouldn't that indicate that I'm "going up" to him?


BUT....
I've always wanted a romantic "will you be my girlfriend" proposal... but I think that'll never happen :(

I think that girls won't ask the guy out 1) because of their fantasies and 2) because we're a lot more cautious... we think more... so there's always the possibility of him rejecting you and the world finds out, everyone laughing at you... etc...

A missed chance is a missed chance, that is FATE. But a ruined reputation is your near future. You can't mess up that.


wow three years...you are very patient . I hope when you actually ask him that it works out for you.


IF I ask him. Which I probably won't. I need a guy that would take the initiative~



... If you really do need a guy that would take the initiative and you "probably won't" ask him yourself, even if it has been 3 years, i might have to suggest that you should start finding another guy that might actually ask you out. If it's been this long without him even telling you he likes you, then I don't see how you guys would date at all.

Besides, if a girl asks me out, even if I don't like her enough to the point I would say yes, I would be deeply impressed. And also, Godzilla might also come up and destroy Asian countries.

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I can smell when a woman is in heat. Pheromones everywhere.

/howls



LOLOLOL!!!!
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Well, I've Been Asked Out 3 Times By Girls, But I Agree, Girls Need To Be Confident & At least Try.
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As a guy I have been approached twice in my life and asked. I felt awkward both times, especially the time I turned the one down. Not that I really have a problem with it, it just was unexpected both times. (I'm not really all that great looking and short but apparently I have a good personality?) lol. It's cool by my standards, if the women want to go through the aggrevation of doing the asking then all the merrier to them.

Women usually do it as a last ditch effort or as a "he just isn't taking the hints so I need to be blunt". I think chances are better for women with the obvious flirtation bit, but do what works for you.
Posted 8/29/12
That'd be great.
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Then the world would be a better place.
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my ex made the first move lol and also asked me out as well in the end
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-Vega- wrote:

Girls should do that more. Just because you are a girl does not mean you need to act like a girl. Society has taught us much stupidity.


I believe we're all equal so anyone should just ask out anyone. I agree that society has it programmed that men should "be the man" and ask out a lady, but we're all just brains and bones and guts so it shouldn't matter.
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