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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Almost every girlfriend I've ever had was the aggressor. Mainly because I try to not be a sleazebag and play it cool like cucumbers... The ones I pursued aggressively were almost never worth the effort.
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O_O PEOPLE ASKING YOU OUT IS A SIGN THAT THEY LIKE YOU?!

Oops.

Turned down an invite to see a movie with this guy who I could develop feelings for, because the date was inconvinient for me.
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lorddisick wrote:



I tried being the one who made the first move.
Got dumped in a week.
Bastard used me.


That has nothing to do with making the first move over having bad luck and or bad taste.
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Still.
Its stressful making the first move.
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It's 2013 people. Women shouldn't have any problem making the first move. Hell they did it to me in college all the time in the mid to late 90's. Yeah I'm old, so what... You young-ens should grow a pair and go after something if it's what you really want...
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lorddisick wrote:


Still.
Its stressful making the first move.


Um... same here?
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Duh.
I don't like stress.
When its about something that might only last two months tops.
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lorddisick wrote:

Duh.
I don't like stress.
When its about something that might only last two months tops.


The whole point is that No body likes that. it's a stupid excuse to say you wont because you don't like it. Nobody does. What are we all supposed to sit around twiddling our thumbs and then screaming when we have to do something?

I have anxiety, I don't like most people and ten it may not work out. yet I'm still expected to suck it up and ignore my feelings for the sake of others?

Not happening.
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lorddisick wrote:

Duh.
I don't like stress.
When its about something that might only last two months tops.


Maybe it won't. Maybe you take a chance and it's awesome, but usually relationships are more of a pain in the ass than they're worth. Just saying...
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I'm not making an excuse.
I'm stating why I don't make the first move.
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Exactly.
Its a pain.
I get to obsess over anything I want.
Do anything I want.
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lorddisick wrote:


Exactly.
Its a pain.
I get to obsess over anything I want.
Do anything I want.


Absolutely. that's your right a human being. I'm just throwing useful / worthless nuggets of knowledge based on my experience, and I'm most certainly not trying to tell you how to live your life. I kinda think that's the whole point...
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Yes i agree I had a simliar situation on my hand that a girl I liked flirted with me all touchy n stuff saying sweet things but nevertheless, had a other problems on my mind I was facing jail time then treament (rehab) "I said NO, NO, NO" LOL but I like her a lot drop dead gorgious girl but I knew what's up but I thought she'd know my dilimea but I thought wrong. Well another one got away
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I agree that girls who are interested in a guy should be active in pursuing their romance.

However, for the guys here (I am male as well, btw) who are contextualizing it as "the guy shouldn't have to be the one to ask them out every time": don't be stupid. You're just making excuses for being too pussy to approach the girl and wishing for a world where everything would be easy for you and you didn't have to take any risks yourself.

If a guy likes a girl, he should make it known. If a girl likes a guy, she should make it known. Liking someone and then thinking that they should approach you first just because you're too shy is being a hypocrite.
Posted 1/22/13

PastaTaco wrote:

My theory is that guys just don't notice when a girl is making the first move ;)


Lol...something to think about, but if it can be called a move than its too tiny to see. make it bigger plzz
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