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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
Posted 7/20/12

_IceAndCream_ wrote:

If there was a guy I was honestly interested in, I'd absolutely make the first move.


Yep it gives you the power to choose.
Posted 7/20/12

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marcel20 wrote:


CABarrett wrote:

Meh, I've given up on dating to be perfectly honest. I'd rather just have a good time. Everyone is friend zone for me and most people prefer that. It's more fun that way IMHO. You get to be yourself around others and enjoy the company without having outrageous expectations or following some sort of rigid dating formality. If something develops beyond that, it will be 10x better than that formal "asking out" or "getting asked out" because you are friends first and lovers s, econd. This has only happened to me once and I was very happy for a time. My only mistake was letting her move in... NEVER let your GF move in! Wives only! GOT THAT?


Lol....nice reply I never had a girlfriend move in yet, but dude your only 27 so don't give up on dating. Its cool to take breaks for yourself...because I know I do to be alone for a while, but its always good to pick it back up.(that is if that is what you really want but just given up on).


Thanks for the kind words. I wouldn't say I have completely given up. I would say that I have toned down my enthusiasm for finding a mate in order to be content for the time being. I am a true believer in enjoying that which makes you happy for as long as it will last. There are others who truly enjoy being in a committed formal relationship, and if that makes them happy, I wish them the best!


Yep totally understand.
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Posted 7/20/12
If girls asked guys out like guys ask girls out, I am almost 100% sure there would be many more couples in the world (not implying more people would be happier though, lol)
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Posted 7/20/12
no matter what gender you are, if you are in love (or want to date someone) with someone ask that person out.
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Posted 7/20/12
Girls should be more straight forward.

As a guy, I have a hard time dealing with rejection. I don't ask girls out, often, until I know them better...and that takes a few months. Or maybe I'm bad at noticing the hints...

Can you girls be more direct like I am and just say: I love you!...Or like, a lot.
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Posted 7/20/12

D3nn1s10 wrote:

no matter what gender you are, if you are in love (or want to date someone) with someone ask that person out.


I wish...From personal experience.

I had a thing for a girl, I liked her a lot, maybe love like.

Thing is, she liked me too...She never told me, vice versa, I never told her I liked her. She told me she loved me 5 years later...Due to us both being super shy back then, we didn't ask each other out. Maybe that and we didn't want to lose our friendship.

It was an fml, why didn't I just ask her out- moment.
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Posted 7/20/12
Some girls are out there like that except they wont ask the guy but they will give heavy signs of interest to the guy. I think the boundaries should be brought down between the sexes as far as the relationship goes
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Posted 7/20/12
If I was really into someone I would go for it ^^
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Posted 7/20/12
I believe that men would probably have a longer life span.Hell, I know high school would have been alot less stressfull. Although the tendency of women going after jerks would probably remain the same.
Posted 7/21/12

nnoland wrote:

I believe that men would probably have a longer life span.Hell, I know high school would have been alot less stressfull. Although the tendency of women going after jerks would probably remain the same.


lol very true
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Posted 7/21/12
Life would have been smooth.
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Posted 8/11/12
That would be a LUXURY!!!
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Posted 8/11/12
They do in other parts of the world. If it never happened Gaijin women in Japan would never get laid.
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Posted 8/12/12

crazyfirefly wrote:

They do in other parts of the world. If it never happened Gaijin women in Japan would never get laid.


Well...if you like someone i dont see why you should hold back anyways?o.o...just go and put everything to it.^^Since...you lose nothing in trying but if you don't do it you'll regret it for rest of your life.So...good for those gaijin women~~
Posted 8/12/12
Meh. I don't believe in playing stupid games, especially if vulnerable feelings are involved. It's seriously just dumb. If I like someone, I will make it very obvious and probably ask him out before he asks me.
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