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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Nice piece of advice! I'll keep it in the back of my head.
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if a woman came up to me and asked me out i would think that the world was ending


I would think that I must be the last man on Earth. Maybe the result of some kind of apocalyptic event that managed to wipe out the entire male population on the planet except for me.

"That's right, ladies. I'm all you've got."
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Pyralis1 wrote:


eternalchaos4200 wrote:

if a woman came up to me and asked me out i would think that the world was ending


I would think that I must be the last man on Earth. Maybe the result of some kind of apocalyptic event that managed to wipe out the entire male population on the planet except for me.

"That's right, ladies. I'm all you've got."


Hahaha that's right
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Japan!!!
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then I wouldn't have suffered unrequited love for the past 4 years.
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then I wouldn't have suffered unrequited love for the past 4 years.


gonna grow a sack and ask him one day then?
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well everyone is different so i bet there are alot of girls like that
but girls who are like that are slutty or too forward for guys
(im not saying this is completely right but it is for some people)
and eventually i think most guys even if they want a girl to take the lead in starting a relationship eventually they will want to be manly and take the lead the rest of the relationship and i think the normal girls who do this are the type who take the lead
i personally like to pursue idk i it was programmed in me cuz my dad isnt like that but i am tho im not sexist or anything
just most the time it ends up like this
tho this is coming from someone who duznt hav toooo much experience im just a good observer and help alot of people out with their problems
Posted 9/10/12
I have asked a guy out once or twice. My mum-zy said that "since the DAWN OF TIME", Guys had to ask girls out not the other way around.
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I thought it was time for that to change a bit! Sadly, the guy I asked out that day did not feel the same way...he actually ran-no sprinted away from me. It's been a year and he's in all of my classes...Still running away from me and all I want now is a short conversation with him. My friends said he hasn't found the true meanning of love. I just thought he REALLY didn't like me. I think I might have gone a bit too strong.
Le words I said to said person:
"Hey! You wanna go out? It's okay if ya don't"
Oh wellz! Shyness gets the best of people and of course we've already known that for ages. It gets the best of me only on chat rooms. I'm known to be a loud, idiotic, chatterbox-oh wait this has nothing to do with the topic...
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KittyCow33 wrote:

I have asked a guy out once or twice. My mum-zy said that "since the DAWN OF TIME", Guys had to ask girls out not the other way around.
Laaameeeee
I thought it was time for that to change a bit! Sadly, the guy I asked out that day did not feel the same way...he actually ran-no sprinted away from me. It's been a year and he's in all of my classes...Still running away from me and all I want now is a short conversation with him. My friends said he hasn't found the true meanning of love. I just thought he REALLY didn't like me. I think I might have gone a bit too strong.
Le words I said to said person:
"Hey! You wanna go out? It's okay if ya don't"
Oh wellz! Shyness gets the best of people and of course we've already known that for ages. It gets the best of me only on chat rooms. I'm known to be a loud, idiotic, chatterbox-oh wait this has nothing to do with the topic...


awwww loool. that was too freaking cute. i'm sure my reason doesn't make me a bad person, but i just don't ask guys out because they're not worth my love. not saying that in a mean way so please, no one get offended i'm full on board with anyone who thinks that people are underserving of what they have to offer because they're are just too many fake people out there. im that same way. but that doesn't mean i dont not like people or getting to know them. im a total chatter box, just that my unconditional love is not just going to go to just anyone. im more old school in that belief of a one true and pure love. i dont like how people abuse that emotion and i usually try to get a feel for my attraction towards that particular person before i decide if they're worth my attention.
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deejayvee wrote:


Catz1297 wrote:

then I wouldn't have suffered unrequited love for the past 4 years.


gonna grow a sack and ask him one day then? :P



lol.
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KittyCow33 wrote:

I have asked a guy out once or twice. My mum-zy said that "since the DAWN OF TIME", Guys had to ask girls out not the other way around.
Laaameeeee
I thought it was time for that to change a bit! Sadly, the guy I asked out that day did not feel the same way...he actually ran-no sprinted away from me. It's been a year and he's in all of my classes...Still running away from me and all I want now is a short conversation with him. My friends said he hasn't found the true meanning of love. I just thought he REALLY didn't like me. I think I might have gone a bit too strong.
Le words I said to said person:
"Hey! You wanna go out? It's okay if ya don't"
Oh wellz! Shyness gets the best of people and of course we've already known that for ages. It gets the best of me only on chat rooms. I'm known to be a loud, idiotic, chatterbox-oh wait this has nothing to do with the topic...


If a girl [I knew mind you] said "Hey! You wanna go out?" I'd probably think about it, but once you would have said "It's okay if ya don't" I would have just thought you lost that confidence.. Confidence is a major player in the world
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Traditionally, it was supposed to be the guys who approached the girls, did the chasing, and asked her out.

Times are a-changin' of course, and so the way we do things can change as well, or at least have another added facet.

I'm sure a lot of girls don't ask guys because understandably they fear rejection, they were raised traditionally, and/or don't want to come off as aggressive.

The nice thing about taking the reins is that you have more control over the dating game. Instead of passively waiting for a guy to by chance summon up the courage to ask you out on a date (one you're attracted to nonetheless) you can take direct action and select for yourself.

Let's face it, a lot of guys are clueless about flirting signals, when you're trying to bait him into hanging out with you or asking you on a date with hints and subtlety. Shy guys even if he thinks you might like him, and he is mutually attracted to you, might prefer dying a miserable death rather than approaching you. So this is why doing the "hunting" yourself has a lot of benefits. Food for thought.
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deejayvee wrote:


Catz1297 wrote:

then I wouldn't have suffered unrequited love for the past 4 years.


gonna grow a sack and ask him one day then? :P


nahhh probably never gonna see him again after high school ~
Posted 9/10/12

deejayvee wrote:


KittyCow33 wrote:

I have asked a guy out once or twice. My mum-zy said that "since the DAWN OF TIME", Guys had to ask girls out not the other way around.
Laaameeeee
I thought it was time for that to change a bit! Sadly, the guy I asked out that day did not feel the same way...he actually ran-no sprinted away from me. It's been a year and he's in all of my classes...Still running away from me and all I want now is a short conversation with him. My friends said he hasn't found the true meanning of love. I just thought he REALLY didn't like me. I think I might have gone a bit too strong.
Le words I said to said person:
"Hey! You wanna go out? It's okay if ya don't"
Oh wellz! Shyness gets the best of people and of course we've already known that for ages. It gets the best of me only on chat rooms. I'm known to be a loud, idiotic, chatterbox-oh wait this has nothing to do with the topic...


If a girl [I knew mind you] said "Hey! You wanna go out?" I'd probably think about it, but once you would have said "It's okay if ya don't" I would have just thought you lost that confidence.. Confidence is a major player in the world


Oh? Thanks for tellin' me that! Although I still don't see why he would run away for something like that haha
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Global suicide rate would decrease dramatically.

Maybe.

But my life's stress would be distinguished.
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