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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Posted 9/15/12

alicorn83 wrote:

Not to be unkind, but the way we are so computer based now in our culture it has kind of made real life interaction even harder I think. While I am usually the one saying I like the guy, it doesn't help that I am better with typing words than speaking them. I'm sure that hampers both fronts.





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alicorn83 wrote:

Not to be unkind, but the way we are so computer based now in our culture it has kind of made real life interaction even harder I think. While I am usually the one saying I like the guy, it doesn't help that I am better with typing words than speaking them. I'm sure that hampers both fronts.


I agree. When typing something out online you have the time to compose, edit, proofread and revise what you want to say and it tends to come out way better than if you were to try to say it to someone's face in the moment. At least that's how I feel about my interactions online versus real life. When I'm nervous I tend to stutter and hunt for the right words and I have trouble expressing myself well. Since I don't have the practice needed to be skilled at real life social interaction I am, admittedly, very bad at it.



both of you are very right
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Posted 9/17/12
That doesn't really happen where I am. It's nearly always the lad who has to ask. Maybe it's left over Catholic guilt or something.
Posted 9/17/12
LOL funny...I personally want the guy to take charge, its a preference for me. If I know he can take charge and confess, it shows confidence and theres nothing more attractive than a guy with confidence. Also what ever happened to chivalry LOL
Posted 9/17/12

nastymochi wrote:

LOL funny...I personally want the guy to take charge, its a preference for me. If I know he can take charge and confess, it shows confidence and theres nothing more attractive than a guy with confidence. Also what ever happened to chivalry LOL


umm.. yea you probably didn't hear but chivalry died some years ago
Posted 9/17/12

NothingLikeYou wrote:

Don't even get me started on women doing anything first... The garbage just sits there... Dirty dishes... Laundry... Etc... Women have the dirtiest bathrooms and bedrooms. They just want us to do everything!


I'm not sure if you being sarcastic on this lol.

back to topic, I like it if girl confess to me first, however it doesn't mean I dont' want to take the initiative either. It's depend on whoever have feeling for each other first. Most girls I seen at my school are very bold and confident, they're the one who take the initiative. I don't know where you been but I seen more girl taking initiative more than guy at my school. But doesn't most guys like it when girl being shy?
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Posted 9/17/12 , edited 9/17/12

tortoiseshell wrote:

There are girls like that out there. Also if a girl is interested in you, she will make it known to you however passive aggressively.


It'd be cool if there were more girls like that. I tend to frustrate girls by not noticing their signs then they think I'm not interested. I've seriously had people laugh at me because I'm so clueless when it comes to noticing.

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Posted 9/20/12
I'm sorry you gave up on being a chivalrous man...and may I wish you good luck in your future endeavors. Im sure one day the perfect woman would change your mind. Im sure one day if I had a daughter, id want a man who treated her like a princess...im sure you'd wish the same for yours
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I'm sorry you gave up on being a chivalrous man...and may I wish you good luck in your future endeavors. Im sure one day the perfect woman would change your mind. Im sure one day if I had a daughter, id want a man who treated her like a princess...im sure you'd wish the same for yours


Just to keep up with the conversation. Who's that to?
Posted 9/20/12
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Marcel20


Makes sense.

By the way, chivalry hasn't died. I would say a lot of the male population have grown up as feminine skirts. They know how to cry, beg and manipulate. But you get a few out there that knows what it means to be a gentleman.
Posted 9/20/12
well I'm glad someone still believes LOL
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Heh, I don't just believe it, I see it everyday. For one, my mate. The best bloke you would ever meet. Treats his women like queens, even when they fuck him over.

Posted 9/21/12 , edited 9/21/12

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Heh, I don't just believe it, I see it everyday. For one, my mate. The best bloke you would ever meet. Treats his women like queens, even when they fuck him over.



lol and that's my point, thats what happens to the too kind gentleman he gets used and manipulated...I don't mind treating a woman like a Queen, BUT only the type of woman who would treat me like a King in return. women like that are very hard to find these days.
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Well not all women are as vindictive as this one, but I have seen gentleman walked over like pavement, that's no question
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Well when I met Eric I spent a lot of time talking to him and playing video games with him. Unfortunatly at that time I was still with me ex, who also got along with him and spent time with him. Eventually my ex got violent and ended up leaving a bruise on my eye. At which point I was determined not to be like one of those sad stories, and I left him that same night.

So I left that area of town and everyone including Eric behind. I got a new job and new life in another area of town and then one day when I was walking to work Eric saw me and pulled over to say hi. He said to give him a call at his work and I did miss him very much. I called and left a message and he chose to call me back. At first when we started spending time together I invited another girl (my opposite) along and he asked her out first. I kept silent even though I had a huge crush so I wouldn't spoil his relationship with my drama.

That only lasted a few dates and then after he got back from Anime Expo in California he brought me back a very thoughtful hand-drawn bookmark of Momiji (fruits basket), whom I love. He asked if we could go on a few dates as the other girl stopped being mine or his friend after she decided he was not what she wanted. I am so happy it worked out in my/his favor! Squee!! We'll be married after 6 years of dating and some very difficult times.

So, I guess I was willing to give up what I liked if it meant he got the choice.

I have to let him go and let him come back if I truly want what's best for him.

I have always let the male choose me before I said a word about my crush to anyone.
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