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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Posted 1/20/13
I actually heard of this happening with men as well I've heard of men who had wanted to ask a girl out but didn't because they thought she would never except them only for a couple of years later for the girl to ask them "Why didn't you ever ask me out?" I have a hard time asking myself to a certain extent I am very shy.
Posted 1/20/13
I asked a boy out once.
He dumped me a week later.
Posted 1/20/13
if i liked him enough, i would.
so far, he doesn't exist.
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Posted 1/20/13
I think girls in general are very self conscious about their imperfections. Guys too, but it's different and here's why. Girls are already insecure. From my experience (from friends :P) when people break up, girls feel extremely ugly and they find unreasonable explanations to why the relationship didn't work. "If only I was prettier, if only I was more attractive, I wish I had a more appealing personality, maybe then he would think it's worth the effort to stay with me blah blah blah" no matter how hot they might be.

when a guy confesses to a girl, she feels beautiful, her confidence goes up. Girls like that...they need it, If they get rejected they will feel ugly and they will think there's no point in asking people out because they will just think they are ugly. Maybe this is a self esteem issue more than anything else.
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Back in high school, one my friends took this girl to the movies a few times after she started dropping hints that she was interested. He was the rambunctious type, and he enjoyed toying with people to see how far he could push their limits. Anyway, they went out like this for a while until she finally leaned in for a kiss one night and he asked her what she was doing. He said he only ever thought of her as a friend. The whole time they were going places together, nobody defined the relationship. She thought they were an item while he was just messing with her in the end. To this day I feel no empathy toward her; you can't feel sorry for someone when they lose at their own game.
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Posted 1/20/13 , edited 1/20/13

tortoiseshell wrote:

There are girls like that out there. Also if a girl is interested in you, she will make it known to you however passive aggressively.


I was scared by a girl once about 9 years back. I didn't even know this girl or her name she came up to me and punched me in the stomach<and I'm not talking about a light pop...it was the you almost got knocked out gut punch> and took my car keys..sat in my car and listened to the radio. I know many of you think this is wtfville as I state this but she was a southern tomboy....she was okay as a person to chat with but she was a party/bar-slut so she wasn't even in my interests as more then a coworker. Needless to say aggressive women can be too aggressive in some cases. Somewhere in between passive and semi social is enough for some of us...after all I'm not some lead clueless male character in an anime lol.
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kamiru-dono wrote:

if i liked him enough, i would.
so far, he doesn't exist.


saves you a lot of trouble and headaches.
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My idea of a confession is, "Oi, I like ya... Deal with it." And then walk away.
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AsuraCryin1980 wrote:


kamiru-dono wrote:

if i liked him enough, i would.
so far, he doesn't exist.


saves you a lot of trouble and headaches.


true true. i can do without it.
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Posted 1/20/13
If a girl likes me she can come up and tell me face to face, otherwise I'll just continue with my day. = )
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I would love if more women took the initiative and asked the guy out. I'm tired of us having to do all the work, lol. There was this one time were I knew a female friend liked me because of the massive hints she dropped. But I refused to go out with her because she never officially confessed. If YOU'RE the person with the crush, it's YOUR responsibility to make the first move.
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Posted 1/21/13
It would have gravely affected the outcome of this world.
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Posted 1/21/13 , edited 1/21/13
I don't think there is a proper way to ask a girl out. If a guy just walked up to me and was like, "Wanna go to a movie this Saturday?", or something like that, and even if his pants fell down Danny-Phantom style, I'd be like, Hell yeah. XD Although, I can't say I've ever made a move on a guy, but I haven't really wanted to. Cape Cod is too small and it lacks intriguing guys. XD
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Posted 1/21/13
well I don't really mind if a girl ask me out but I am very manly so I prefer to do all the asking
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Posted 1/21/13
A lot of women and their egos wouldn't be able to handle the potential for rejection.
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