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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
Posted 7/15/12
Sorry, but vaginas are holes; they can't go up to men like penises go up and down to women.
Posted 7/15/12

kajisawa wrote:

It depends,
When a girl is like in love with a guy and waiting for his game move never gonna happen. Us girls have an amazing innate ability of telling it up close and personal and NOT afraid of the consequence if rejected. Interestingly, most girls knows and sense when a guy likes her so all we need to do is give him an hint and he will move mountains. That is why it is rare for us to make a move and if it does, YOU GO GIRL for we know; He must be AMAZING


Well you see it a possibility and that what I'm bring out ...that if you really like him you would make it happen.
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animeFTWin wrote:

I had that done to me once. She kinda forced me to ask her out.
Word of advice: NEVER do anything that can be used as blackmail.


hehe wouldn't want to meet her...hope she lets you from her grips.


She did, after 3 weeks we broke up. It wasn't as bad as I initially thought (though still bad). I guess the best way I can describe her as would be a "very violent girl"

She broke up first, which is good, I guess. Though I was about to break up with her anyways. Oh well. It all worked out in the end.
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Posted 7/15/12
if title was so, more asian men would be taken >.>
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From what I've seen,guys often tend to ask the girl out before they get to truly know them. On the other hand,girls that love someone will usually try to get to know them and see what they're like before they aks them out. That's why it's often guys asking girls out. Or it just ends up in a love deal and both of them are together without asking each other out,basically just going their way up to a love relationship,making things official at a crucial point. And are people serious about the girl's friend asking the guy out? I always considered it a movie hint..Never seen or heard of anything like so in real life ... Maybe that's more common in other cultures or something XD
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Posted 7/15/12
Sometimes I feel like it would help. As you may not know if she likes you or not, then she may get angry if you started dating someone else.
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Posted 7/15/12
from what i have seen, girls who go and ask guys out tend be out of luck because the guy is in an unknown relationship of some sort (dating, working on asking someone else out, or stalking someone).

to most guys who always think of why can't she ask me out and won't even bother to make an attempt or fails every attempt because of indirectness. you think she's not on equal footing but the fact is she prob believe that your on the same footing. if you are friends of some sort without being friend zoned.

but as a guy, all i can see is a jig saw puzzle set with each piece belonging to another set. meaning impossible to figure out, there are girls who wants to confess first and refuses otherwise, girls who only want to be approached in a specific manner even if she is interested, and girls who flirts like crazy just to mess with you to the girls who acts like she's interested in someone else when she isn't.

Posted 7/15/12

wolfsaiga wrote:

from what i have seen, girls who go and ask guys out tend be out of luck because the guy is in an unknown relationship of some sort (dating, working on asking someone else out, or stalking someone).

to most guys who always think of why can't she ask me out and won't even bother to make an attempt or fails every attempt because of indirectness. you think she's not on equal footing but the fact is she prob believe that your on the same footing. if you are friends of some sort without being friend zoned.

but as a guy, all i can see is a jig saw puzzle set with each piece belonging to another set. meaning impossible to figure out, there are girls who wants to confess first and refuses otherwise, girls who only want to be approached in a specific manner even if she is interested, and girls who flirts like crazy just to mess with you to the girls who acts like she's interested in someone else when she isn't.



I honestly have experienced each one of the types of girls you mentioned...the thing the last two are the type who messes up the dating scene for men and women because a guy wont know if she's just playing with him or serious, so when a girl really is interested she might get passed up due to his past experiences. Therefore just asking is probably the right course of action when they really matter to you.
Posted 7/15/12

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LiveLifeAndLoveIt wrote:

Then the world would have more relationships. Honestly, it shouldn't matter which gender and just go for it. I wouldn't call a guy a coward or unmanly for not asking first, it's because of this mindset people are not moving forward in life. You do know that guys can have insecurities as well, also maybe you never crossed their mind, or they just have a flirt personality ...cut them some slack. With that said just ask them out , if they say yes then good for you and if you get rejected at least your not wasting your time waiting to get asked out and move on with your life. People need to get back into reality , not everything is a fairy tale.

So asking a person out shouldn't be determined by gender.


Ah a realist like myself..thanks for the reply.


Np, people just need to be more open-minded : )
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Posted 7/15/12
It happened to me once seven years ago, but after I turned her down it's never happened since. Funny huh?
Posted 7/15/12
Women can take too long judging themselves and their potential partner. Perhaps because they're not interested in short lived romance. But ladies, just remember this, you can't tell how big a fire will be by looking at the sparks in which created it.
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Posted 7/15/12
I totally asked a guy out. I fall in love too easily and would probably work out fine with anyone. And this guy just happen to be there. Actually he put himself there as he mentioned later. Due to my love for love we split up.

Guys automatically label themselves as "not good enough" so I have a lot of male friends but none of them will ask me out :(

I won't ask one out again though. While researching this very question it is the common belief that if you ask a guy out, then you will have to propose. This is not what a girl wants. No matter how much she is in love she will always wonder about the reason she had to push the relationship forward. I often wondered if he would have ever asked me out. I don't believe guys think about that as much.
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Posted 7/15/12
Then the four horsemen of the Apocalypse shall rise and humanity will cease to exist.
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Posted 7/16/12
You want my honest opinion?
Right, I'm a girl, and I fully agree that girls should take intuitive and ask guys out too. There are always girls out there wanting the same rights and stuff, you know, feminists, but I think this should go both ways. I don't think it's fair for girls to get the usuals that come with being lady like chivalry and stuff, but be treated like guys. If they want to be equal, the men need to be treated like chicks once in a while, you know it ALL has to be the same.
Hard to explain.
Posted 7/16/12
From my personal experience, my past gfs were the ones to ask me out rather than me. I don't think it should be based on gender on who should ask who out, it doesn't really matter if a girl asks out a guy or a guy asks out a girl. What it's all really based on is how much they know each other and whether it will come to something in the future. You shouldn't blindly ask someone out because it's most likely that the person that you 'pictured' in your mind is someone different to what you want. Meet someone, get to know them, know it's a mutual standing and if you're both up for it. Go for it.

P.S I know some of my friends and even my 'brother' has been asked out by a girl recently.
I've still to ask a girl out. Haha
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