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What if women went up to guys they liked rather than waiting to get asked out?
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Thanks for the words of wisdom. Tough its still much easier said then done.
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marcel20 wrote:


SlimShadyDogg wrote:

Oh how i wish girls would do this. Im 18 and still cant properly ask out a girl. I even have a hard time talking to them unless we're friends (which is hard because you have to talk to them to become friends, then you get friend zoned).
Im kind of the shy type so it really sucks



I'm kinda the shy type too more so when I was your age...just be a little more brave in the beginning and tell her how you feel about her..trust me coming from your sempai. A lot of the time she will give you a chance at her, but even If she definitely like's you she will almost never ask, and that's why I asked this question. there were soo many girl's into me, but around (acceptable dating are in my family)16-21 I was too shy to ask and there were soo many obvious times...just go for it dude.


Sorry, missed the quote there, so here it is
Posted 7/16/12
in my country if a girl makes a move.. It's considered as being a slut.

It is practiced that girls should play modest and patient and some shit.
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I would say its about damn time. Im a little too dense to pick up on little hints they might be dropping haha.
Posted 7/16/12

marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:

It depends,
When a girl is like in love with a guy and waiting for his game move never gonna happen. Us girls have an amazing innate ability of telling it up close and personal and NOT afraid of the consequence if rejected. Interestingly, most girls knows and sense when a guy likes her so all we need to do is give him an hint and he will move mountains. That is why it is rare for us to make a move and if it does, YOU GO GIRL for we know; He must be AMAZING


Well you see it a possibility and that what I'm bring out ...that if you really like him you would make it happen.



It's cool and nice when a female approach or do the first move to or for a guy but it's awkward and narrow that some MEN thinks that the girl is desperate and easy. So in the end, NOT A PRETTY MUCH ADVISABLE ACTIONS to take




Posted 7/16/12

SlimShadyDogg wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


SlimShadyDogg wrote:

Oh how i wish girls would do this. Im 18 and still cant properly ask out a girl. I even have a hard time talking to them unless we're friends (which is hard because you have to talk to them to become friends, then you get friend zoned).
Im kind of the shy type so it really sucks



I'm kinda the shy type too more so when I was your age...just be a little more brave in the beginning and tell her how you feel about her..trust me coming from your sempai. A lot of the time she will give you a chance at her, but even If she definitely like's you she will almost never ask, and that's why I asked this question. there were soo many girl's into me, but around (acceptable dating are in my family)16-21 I was too shy to ask and there were soo many obvious times...just go for it dude.


Thanks for the words of wisdom. Tough its still much easier said then done.


Yes I totally understand bro...It's just that none one helped me put on things like this when I was younger, so I had to learn it all on my own. So when I can I try to help, but feel free to go at you own pace
Posted 7/16/12

iSilentScream wrote:

in my country if a girl makes a move.. It's considered as being a slut.

It is practiced that girls should play modest and patient and some shit.


lol I like the "and some shit" part lol. thanks for sharing.
Posted 7/16/12

iamtheredseven wrote:

I would say its about damn time. Im a little too dense to pick up on little hints they might be dropping haha.


Yea...me too because she might just be a really nice girl and you might just ignore her flirting as niceness.
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marcel20 wrote:


iamtheredseven wrote:

I would say its about damn time. Im a little too dense to pick up on little hints they might be dropping haha.


Yea...me too because she might just be a really nice girl and you might just ignore her flirting as niceness.


Finally someone undertands
Posted 7/16/12

kajisawa wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:

It depends,
When a girl is like in love with a guy and waiting for his game move never gonna happen. Us girls have an amazing innate ability of telling it up close and personal and NOT afraid of the consequence if rejected. Interestingly, most girls knows and sense when a guy likes her so all we need to do is give him an hint and he will move mountains. That is why it is rare for us to make a move and if it does, YOU GO GIRL for we know; He must be AMAZING


Well you see it a possibility and that what I'm bring out ...that if you really like him you would make it happen.



It's cool and nice when a female approach or do the first move to or for a guy but it's awkward and narrow that some MEN thinks that the girl is desperate and easy. So in the end, NOT A PRETTY MUCH ADVISABLE ACTIONS to take






Ummm I don't really understand the image, but there is of truth to men sometimes thinking that she is easy or desperate just because she approaches him, and those guys are either jerks or can't think for themselves( they rely on what society has taught rather than think for themselves) as to what this person asking me on a date true personality or type of person they are. Going from she is asking me out straight to she is easy is a grained in easy way of thinking that doesn't make a guy use his brain cells at all such as why don't I go out with her, get to know her and then make a sound judgement on what she is about-rather than a mindless one that our male friend taught us which he once saw described on a movie. At least for my self I know that prejudging someone because I was taught to will never be a road I would follow because I'm a realist and really getting to know someone will almost always differ from what they may seem like or appear to be like.
Posted 7/16/12

marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:

It depends,
When a girl is like in love with a guy and waiting for his game move never gonna happen. Us girls have an amazing innate ability of telling it up close and personal and NOT afraid of the consequence if rejected. Interestingly, most girls knows and sense when a guy likes her so all we need to do is give him an hint and he will move mountains. That is why it is rare for us to make a move and if it does, YOU GO GIRL for we know; He must be AMAZING


Well you see it a possibility and that what I'm bring out ...that if you really like him you would make it happen.



It's cool and nice when a female approach or do the first move to or for a guy but it's awkward and narrow that some MEN thinks that the girl is desperate and easy. So in the end, NOT A PRETTY MUCH ADVISABLE ACTIONS to take






Ummm I don't really understand the image, but there is of truth to men sometimes thinking that she is easy or desperate just because she approaches him, and those guys are either jerks or can't think for themselves( they rely on what society has taught rather than think for themselves) as to what this person asking me on a date true personality or type of person they are. Going from she is asking me out straight to she is easy is a grained in easy way of thinking that doesn't make a guy use his brain cells at all such as why don't I go out with her, get to know her and then make a sound judgement on what she is about-rather than a mindless one that our male friend taught us which he once saw described on a movie. At least for my self I know that prejudging someone because I was taught to will never be a road I would follow because I'm a realist and really getting to know someone will almost always differ from what they may seem like or appear to be like.


True...
Image is a metaphor. That sometimes Male when approached by Female to go out or like hey being told: "i Like YOU"; Tend to make it a huge paranoia deal
Posted 7/16/12

kajisawa wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:


marcel20 wrote:


kajisawa wrote:

It depends,
When a girl is like in love with a guy and waiting for his game move never gonna happen. Us girls have an amazing innate ability of telling it up close and personal and NOT afraid of the consequence if rejected. Interestingly, most girls knows and sense when a guy likes her so all we need to do is give him an hint and he will move mountains. That is why it is rare for us to make a move and if it does, YOU GO GIRL for we know; He must be AMAZING


Well you see it a possibility and that what I'm bring out ...that if you really like him you would make it happen.



It's cool and nice when a female approach or do the first move to or for a guy but it's awkward and narrow that some MEN thinks that the girl is desperate and easy. So in the end, NOT A PRETTY MUCH ADVISABLE ACTIONS to take






Ummm I don't really understand the image, but there is of truth to men sometimes thinking that she is easy or desperate just because she approaches him, and those guys are either jerks or can't think for themselves( they rely on what society has taught rather than think for themselves) as to what this person asking me on a date true personality or type of person they are. Going from she is asking me out straight to she is easy is a grained in easy way of thinking that doesn't make a guy use his brain cells at all such as why don't I go out with her, get to know her and then make a sound judgement on what she is about-rather than a mindless one that our male friend taught us which he once saw described on a movie. At least for my self I know that prejudging someone because I was taught to will never be a road I would follow because I'm a realist and really getting to know someone will almost always differ from what they may seem like or appear to be like.


True...
Image is a metaphor. That sometimes Male when approached by Female to go out or like hey being told: "i Like YOU"; Tend to make it a huge paranoia deal


oh, I see thanks for clarifying it for me.
Posted 7/16/12
Well, I never had a girl approach me ever... Probably because I look scary, rofl.
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th0r0ughly creepy! 0u0

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Some girls are asking guys out more nowadays, like I asked this guy I really liked a lot out, he said no but i just said he was missing out and then left.
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