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Posted 8/17/12
honestly i think for some you might have to define "girlfriend". I have had a couple but I have spent the majority of my life single. Mostly because I tend to develop a crush on girls already taken or I get stuck as just a "friend"
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I had a couple relationships one where i actually fell in love unfortunately it ended badly yeah i got hurt but I'm not gonna bitch about it haven't dated since and that was about 4 years ago. honestly if i find another girl i feel i can have a honest and deep relationship with I'll be more than happy to give it a shot until then I'll be content with waiting ya know?
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i havent had a girlfriend but thats because in high school i didnt think it was that important and now i dont go out much or it could be the fact that im probably have the romantic sense of a plant or it could be that im the type of guy girls just arent into dont know ive never actually tried to have a girlfriend
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I do not like to be in relationships other than for the satisfaction and thrill of the chase. I adore knowing that I have someone in the palm of my hand. So I can honestly say none of my relationships have been "for real". I will never love someone more than I love myself. I'm far too fond of who I am. I will never agree with other people who have different views, opinions and beliefs and will never like the same things as another person, and quite frankly the things other people do and say annoy me. In other words, I am human and are old enough to know better than go looking for something that will never happen. Love is for Disney and Gibli movies. It has no place among society.
I made a promise to myself to never fall in to that trap. People's idea of 'love' nowadays is perverse anyway. I can have just as much fun not in a relationship or looking for love. Is that simple.
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NothingLikeYou wrote: Never had a girlfriend

Keep it that way, life is simpler without one.

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Posted 8/17/12
To all that never have good luck and to all that have congratulations (pun intended)
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21 / M / San Diego, USA
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Posted 8/18/12
I'm single now and its nice, but there are times when I miss having a girlfriend. It makes you kinda feel liked or appreciated. Its kinda indescribable. Having a girlfriend is a good feeling though.

I'm kind of a soft heart for girlfriends, a hopeless romantic you could say. Hell, I even learned how to play guitar 6 years ago for my first girlfriend. I sucked embarrassingly, but it felt right. Made her happy, I'll tell ya. That make it worth it to me.

As of late, it's been hard to have a relationship, what with the moving around and junk. Long distance relationships aren't my forte. I need to see them all the time. If I don't, I yearn. I can't take that too well.

Well, its just easier to say that its warmer with two people than one. That's how I feel.

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The above is touchy-feely and should be avoided by teenage jock males for danger of failing manliness. XD
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32 / M / Vancouver, BC
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Posted 8/18/12
It's not the case that I never had a girlfriend. It was just an every-so-brief relationship in my first year of university. I was new to it all an panicked over it. That was the end of that. I hope that no one else ever has to live through the dearth of relationships that I have experienced. Seriously! It only gets more depressing when you reach 30. When you reach that point, you start to ignore the more charming aspects of your personality and life, and start to think that money is the only thing that can save you (as a guy, if you're interested in relationships with women at all). Guys, if you consider yourself really picky think about whether you prefer to be single, or in a relationship that needs some work. Are your differences something that you can overcome? What are you hesitating over?

And girls... Are your differences so insurmountable that you won't give him a chance?
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had a Girlfriend once (3yrs ago). what i learned is that relationships are based on how much you have in common and that doesn't only go for just ones love life, it goes for anything, for example you like a toy alot things you like to do are as well fun to do with the toy, eventually you will no longer play with the toy, same goes for relationships. granted i didnt add invariables like cheating or premature death but i think this is a pretty fair opinion on relationships
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Posted 8/20/12
If you had ALMOST girlfriend situations, that means it is possible for you to get one, but at those times you weren't ready or you simply didn't want to.

People ask themselves "Should I do it?" instead of "Do I want to do it?"
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43 / M / Ohio,USA
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Guys trust me, go out take some risks and ask someone out. You dont want to end up like me. I know that you think you have all the time in the world and can wait for the "right" one. But time dose not care what you want and just keeps on going. Next thing you know your 40 and all by yourself. Just give it a try.
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I have never had a girl friend.
I know lots of girls that wanted to go out with me, but I was never attracted to them. I came close though.

I'm looking for something in girls, but I don't know what it is. I guess it makes sense since I never experienced true love.

I kinda like being single because I don't have to go on that emotional roller coaster and I can just think about the future, but I also want to know how it feels like to be able to share all your thoughts with that perfect girl.

I know love is real and I know that there is a girl perfect for me out there. I just have to wait for fate to bring us together.
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Im not into relationship right now, tho i kinda want a boyfriend.
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23 / M / Griffin GA
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never had a girlfriend before
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Posted 8/20/12

raggard wrote:

Guys trust me, go out take some risks and ask someone out. You dont want to end up like me. I know that you think you have all the time in the world and can wait for the "right" one. But time dose not care what you want and just keeps on going. Next thing you know your 40 and all by yourself. Just give it a try.


I know the feeling. I'm only eight years and change away from the big four-oh and I'm closing in like a bullet train with no brakes. I don't relish the idea of being a forty something with virtually no relationship experience and a life that doesn't seem to allow for the opportunities to meet anyone. (Working ten to eleven hour shifts that almost kill me, leaving me with almost no energy or will to live to do anything else when the day is done.) Also it doesn't help that women, especially around my own age, when I manage to encounter one, don't seem to be even mildly interested in me at all. I don't like the idea of approaching people cold because it makes me feel like a creeper. I just don't know what to do anymore. Heck, I don't think I ever knew what to do to begin with. I see people in relationships all around me every day and it feels like there is a conspiracy going on and the world is playing a game of keep-away with me when it comes to finding someone. I certainly don't feel like I have all the time in the world at all. In fact it feels like time and options are quickly running out for me. I don't like it at all.

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