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Never had a girlfriend...
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28 / M / Boulder, Colorado
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Posted 8/20/12
I think people tend to make a big deal about relationships and things assoc. with it, im 26 now and married. Been w/ my wife for a few years plus dating. I'm not so old as to forget what it felt like persuing somone you liked or had a crush on, but I think sense I'm married now i can see that when there's a big rush of emotions that are incredible feeling, like beimg acknowledged by someone u like; there's always gonna be a down side to those incredible feelings, that's life. Simply not caring because things somtimes don't work out in the end is a dumb reason to not enjoy one of the best things life has to offer. And as a fellow dude, I understand Raggard and Pyralis1 cuz I have older brothers, and seen what ur talking about, but just last night my oldest brother (41) told me thanks for helping him understand thats itsall a state of mind u can let screw with u or not... but personally its impossible to avoid i think, its like a shadow its always gonna follow you around until you finally act accordingly..
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25 / M / burning embers
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Posted 8/20/12 , edited 8/20/12
Majority of the girls I've encountered my age, a little younger, or a little older are still like immature in my own honest opinion. Though they are physically attractive, I just find their true personalities and the things they do unattractive and undesirable if not without value. And I highly value people who stay to true to the things they say and promise..
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24 / M / Los Angeles
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Posted 8/20/12
Most girls only use me for my enormous penis, I get thrown away like a dirty rag
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25 / F / Cerulean City
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Posted 8/20/12
No, I feel like a nun sometimes-- not in a bad way. When I was kid it was impossible for me to tie myself to someone I really liked. I had an unpredictable childhood, we moved constantly to state after state, from east coast to west, sometimes not living anywhere for more than a few months. The same went for just making plain old friends, because real relationships take some time to build. Sometimes I would find a boy I really liked, i.e the end of the school year maybe, only to find out we'd have to leave town for good that summer. So I never had a boyfriend then, and I haven't yet found anyone now. I didn't really think about the kind of person that lifestyle was making me at the time, but looking back at it now that I'm older I can say that I became someone who just sorta went with the flow, and just didn't get that attached to anyone, though I could get along with everyone. I think I could have some trust issues. I trust everyone at first, I'm an optimistic/ romantic/ poet soul... I think. But I sorta like to keep relationships light, and not weighted down by a lot of heavy emotions. I treat everyone like a friend, even if I might start to like them more than that, I keep things casual. That has sorta been the problem-- even when it comes to someone who I think could have been a good boyfriend. People try to move on to the next stage very quickly, but I'll just wanna keep sitting and talking with you in a cafe all the time like an old childhood comrade-- I just need some time. People grow impatient though, as soon as some gets handsy with me, it usually ends everything. I just stop being comfortable. I'm actively looking for someone, but I want to settle down. I believe in true love though, not just dating, so it has to be something monumental-- then I'll know. I want to fall in love, not just have a guy to go to the movies with. I want a soul mate, and that person is worth waiting for.
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Posted 8/20/12
24, never dated or had one. While most people tell me my looks are above average, (I have this belief that I not only look ugly but have no talent, which is always opposite what people tell me) I think it's more of a moral aspect that keeps me at bay most of the time, and I usually let the girls stay at bay and don't try to persue them because I hold myself to the same standard, and don't think I'm good enough, mostly because of my part=time job (not being rich, etc). I don't want to waste a girl's time unless I seriously like her AND have what it takes, but I guess I don't! Eliminate all that, and I guess it's the type of girl I'm looking for that makes the wait take so long. But seriously, I laugh at people that ask me if I'm gay : D "Sure, while I'm at church too!" lol Oh and Dirge of Roses, I agree with that last statement of yours.
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Posted 8/20/12
i have had girlfriends but i never dated alot i never felt the need to do it i have also even been asked out by a girl but i do have a funny almost girlfriend story a long ass time ago me and my 2 friends just started joking about some girls in our class and my friend had the idea of choosing one girl in the class and the first one to go out with said girl wins keep in mind i was many years younger than then i wouldn't do that now so what ended up happening is the girl caught on to our plan and she i banded together to pull a prank on the other 2 guys and she kinda maybe found out by me cause i suck at lying so we went on and what i did is i told them both that i got her first and then she would try to the other 2 guys after then i taped the whole thing and we all ended up with having a laugh and after wards she did actuality go out with me once then friends zoned you gotta love that
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31 / M / Currently on Earth
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Posted 8/20/12 , edited 8/20/12
Not interested... Considering woman in the right mind, wouldn't go out with a person who purely has the mind of a 5 year old child. Guess that what happens, when you have pure Bipolar II though and went though 24 years of depression *shrugs*.
Posted 8/20/12
Idk what's wrong with you
but here's a tip

*pretend you have a girlfriend for a while (I don't care how you do it) but at least take pictures
and You'll get one right away! ya..girls are like that..

not me though..I think..
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22 / M
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Posted 8/20/12
I've had one girlfriend, but I didn't realize it until much later. I regret not giving the girl the attention she deserved. I blame my nativity and the fact that it was an online relationship.
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Posted 8/21/12
It's not that big of a deal. You don't need a significant other to live.
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18 / M / Stoke, England
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Posted 10/6/12

Darkraivids wrote:

It's not that big of a deal. You don't need a significant other to live.


You'll change your mind if you find someone you genuinely love.
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25 / M / Sydney, Australia
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Posted 10/6/12
I've never had a boyfriend...

I think that I am a good and kind person... but maybe I just don't fit into conventional society... I am a bit feminine... I like makeup and fashion. So this could be the reason that... guys don't want to go out with me.

I just like being myself... and not having to put up pretenses.
My philosophy in life is that... you can't be happy if you're living a lie... and trying to act how everybody else wants you to act... it's like a prison to your state of mind.


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18 / M / Stoke, England
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Posted 10/6/12

GayAsianBoy wrote:

My philosophy in life is that... you can't be happy if you're living a lie... and trying to act how everybody else wants you to act... it's like a prison to your state of mind.




"I'd rather die on my feet than live on my knees"

- some guy.
Posted 10/6/12
Congratulations you've just completed the Tetris® marathon challenge!

Who needs a girlfriend when you can beat Tetris.
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23 / F / Sexual Chocolate
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Posted 10/6/12
I can't walk 3 feet without bumping into an ex girlfriend. Maybe I should stop displaying the bodies around my house...
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