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Slaze-Otoha wrote:

I believe everyone else is ugly. Besides, I would never kiss a girl (Or anyone for that matter), who knows what she has done with those lips.


I'll tell you what she did with those lips. Gave 14 mexicans blowjobs for pesos next to a dumpster behind the Home Depot.
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Never had one because I pretty much break all those rules in want not to do to attract girls.

I don't worry about it one way or another though and I figure if I meet a girl and those warm fuzzy feelings are mutual than great and if not than that's fine as well.

There are pros and cons to being single and some pros and cons to being in a relationship.
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girls are sure mysterious and creepy... when you notice one closing you, that would make you go insane and make freak outta your mind
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I don't trust teenage romances I'll wait 'til college to start dating, maybe longer cuz I don't trust college romances either
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Life is an accumulation of experiences.
Don't restrict yourself by saying that a relationship is pointless since most end up broken and shattered.
I've dated more than a handful of people, and all have ended so far. But each time was an experience that I'll never be able to replicate.
I've learned mistakes from each one, and try not to repeat it.

I still haven't found one person that I'm looking for, that doesn't mean that I am doomed.
When I am ready, I'm going back out there to look for someone. If I can't find that person, so be it.
But I'm never going to stop trying, because stop trying means [to me] that I've given up on experiences that would shape and guide me.
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I recently made a post on another thread that I think is on topic here so I'll quote it rather than paraphrasing.


Pyralis1 wrote:

Sure, why not, I might as well add to the statistic... Single.

For some reason my life doesn't allow relationships to take hold and form. Looking back over the past, oh, 15 years or so I can say that usually the only response I can get out of a member of the opposite sex is indifference.

Sometimes there can even be signs that people are either consciously or subconsciously uncomfortable with my presence. Now I think I've become conditioned over the past decade or so to expect that kind of reaction by default and it has damaged my self confidence to the point where I don't even dare to try anymore. I used to joke around with the idea that maybe I was unfortunate enough to be born with the ability to produce some sort of a natural female repellant.


I think that I've also developed a sense of indifference myself as a coping mechanism. I try not to focus on finding a relationship partner anymore and try to convince myself that it's not a big deal. If it happens one day it happens, if not then I guess it wasn't meant to.

Of course a coping mechanism can only reduce the effects of being alone for so long. No matter how much I try to bury it, the natural instinct of wanting to find a partner is still there screaming at me from the depths. Yeah, it sucks. Receiving virtually no interest from the opposite sex throughout a person's whole adolescent and young adult life can seriously mess with one's head. Believe me, I know.

As for a "close encounter..." hmm...

Well, I did have sort of an internet pen-pal kind of relationship that got very close, but due to circumstances we never met face to face and grew apart over time. I'd have to say that's my "close encounter" story.
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The relationships didn't last very long =/
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Aokidanza wrote:

I don't trust teenage romances I'll wait 'til college to start dating, maybe longer cuz I don't trust college romances either


Wise to not trust teenage romance, although those kinds of romances are really all about building up experience. As far as college, you have a better chance there.

I've had better relationships after my teen years then in them, I can tell you that.
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It's a natural thing to get lonely and look for someone as a mate- sometimes not even realizing we're looking...

I wonder what keeps people single in life...that's why I started this thread... I wonder if people choose to stay single because the drama is too much or maybe they are just awkward and unsure of how to approach a mate... I also wonder if they have commitment issues and just decided to stay single and be "players."

Relationships, in theory, could be great... Someone to share thoughts with who won't judge you or think less of you. Someone to back you when you feel alone. Someone to do things with when you're bored. Someone always there even when all your friends are busy... Someone that is an extension of you...does this ever happen with anyone though? Not me... Perhaps I was meant to be one of those forever alone people?

Just wanted to pick some brains about why you are single...of course I don't mean 15 year olds. I expect you to either be single or between 2 week bf/gf's
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toxxin wrote:


Slaze-Otoha wrote:

I believe everyone else is ugly. Besides, I would never kiss a girl (Or anyone for that matter), who knows what she has done with those lips.


I'll tell you what she did with those lips. Gave 14 mexicans blowjobs for pesos next to a dumpster behind the Home Depot.


Well of course you would know.
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NothingLikeYou wrote:

It's a natural thing to get lonely and look for someone as a mate- sometimes not even realizing we're looking...

I wonder what keeps people single in life...that's why I started this thread... I wonder if people choose to stay single because the drama is too much or maybe they are just awkward and unsure of how to approach a mate... I also wonder if they have commitment issues and just decided to stay single and be "players."

Relationships, in theory, could be great... Someone to share thoughts with who won't judge you or think less of you. Someone to back you when you feel alone. Someone to do things with when you're bored. Someone always there even when all your friends are busy... Someone that is an extension of you...does this ever happen with anyone though? Not me... Perhaps I was meant to be one of those forever alone people?

Just wanted to pick some brains about why you are single...of course I don't mean 15 year olds. I expect you to either be single or between 2 week bf/gf's


I can't tell you anything about being single really, as I haven't been single for a long enough time in a very long time and as of now I've been in a relationship for 5 months. What I can answer though is your question of if all those things in a relationship really happen to anyone and I can say, yes. I can also tell you to not give up hope on those things, as cheesy as that might sound, especially since I don't know you, but honestly I am one of those that think that there is someone out there for everyone and this is coming from someone who has been through some hellish things when it comes to relationships. There have been times when I wish I remained single, that I never met the person I was with at that given time.

However, the person I am with now, I can honestly say, all of this that you said "Someone to share thoughts with who won't judge you or think less of you. Someone to back you when you feel alone. Someone to do things with when you're bored. Someone always there even when all your friends are busy... Someone that is an extension of you..." and more is what I have with him, even if it's only been 5 months, it feels like it's been longer. Hell, we even got in a little fight last week and didn't talk for longer then we ever have gone and I felt empty very quickly. It happens for people and I think it can for everyone.

I think maybe sometimes the mistake people make is they are trying too hard to find someone. I don't know if you are one of those, but some people do this. That's like waiting for water to boil. Seems like it takes forever, doesn't it? Before I met my current boyfriend, I had a girlfriend I broke up with a few months prior and I told myself I was going to be single and I wasn't going to look for anyone. I honestly didn't want to be single, I hate being alone, but I knew if I tried too hard, it would kill me. Then one day, he came to me and it really didn't take very long but it took long enough for me to be over my last relationship.

When it all comes down to it though, sometimes you gotta sit back, enjoy life and let that person come to you.

(sorry that got lengthy >_>)
Posted 7/26/12

Aokidanza wrote:

I don't trust teenage romances I'll wait 'til college to start dating, maybe longer cuz I don't trust college romances either


awww, but high school and college is where you make all your dumb mistakes so you don't make them again later when they count more!
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Slaze-Otoha wrote:


toxxin wrote:


Slaze-Otoha wrote:

I believe everyone else is ugly. Besides, I would never kiss a girl (Or anyone for that matter), who knows what she has done with those lips.


I'll tell you what she did with those lips. Gave 14 mexicans blowjobs for pesos next to a dumpster behind the Home Depot.


Well of course you would know.


Of course, I was the one with the video camera.
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toxxin wrote:


Slaze-Otoha wrote:


toxxin wrote:


Slaze-Otoha wrote:

I believe everyone else is ugly. Besides, I would never kiss a girl (Or anyone for that matter), who knows what she has done with those lips.


I'll tell you what she did with those lips. Gave 14 mexicans blowjobs for pesos next to a dumpster behind the Home Depot.


Well of course you would know.


Of course, I was the one with the video camera.


Sure you were. *rolls eye*
Posted 7/26/12
No, I am lonely but I don't want a partner.
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