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Pretty or ugly?
Posted 8/10/12

Arrowproof wrote:

for me natural is beauty, it stays true for both appearance and personality. As for the flaws... we all focus on flaws, all we care is their good side good enough for us to accept thier not so good side.


Just wanted to inform you that your DP speaks on my behalf
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Posted 8/10/12
Personality and attitude. I dont want to be around a girl who has a bitchy personal and a mean attitude, even if shes pretty.
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Posted 8/10/12
Personality definitely. Since I'm making sure my mind stays reprogrammed, I don't wish to consider differential physical structure to be ugly, but beautiful and unique in their own way. The only attribute I dislike a lot on the human form is excessive body hair. It seems unsanitary and a a problem since I've seen my cousin's ex-husband hair in their shower and soap they share. Not a pretty sight. ._____.
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Posted 8/10/12
Beauty
is
within
ones
self
being
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Posted 8/10/12
I think it has to be the attitude, If they "is" guetto most likely I won't get along with them.
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24 / F / Florida
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Posted 8/10/12
I don't really notice a guys looks. More his demeanor/attitude/how he carries himself.
Clothes also tell a lot about a person imo.
If someone dresses ghetto, chances are, we're not into the same thing.
If someone dresses redneck, chances are we aren't into the same thing &etc etc.
BUT that doesn't rule anyone out because I've found that it doesn't always work this way.

When someone has a good heart they become attractive instantly. None of my boyfriends were considered 'hot' or whatever but most people's standards, but they were hot to me because of who they are. You look at them and see their personality and soul reflected on the outside..the superficial body becomes pretty transparent.
Posted 8/10/12 , edited 8/10/12
Personality is a hard thing to judge since it's so distinct to each individual. Common interests, sense of humor and everyday judgments I think are what I like to pin down in people first. Another thing that I adore is real confidence, many times this is present in how a woman walks. A woman that can make walking in heels look like she was born to walk in nothing else is amazing. A woman that looks like she practiced a very specific way to walk in heels and puts too much hip sway and booty bounce in her steps just makes me laugh, A LOT.

Looks department, I gotta say, women with that really really healthy skin that almost seems to glow, tan or not is really sexy. Aside from that eyes, lips, legs, hips I'm sort of a larger picture kind of guy in this department. She either looks good to me, or she doesn't. If she just outright doesn't look good to me, that doesn't mean that she doesn't look good to someone, somewhere. To each their own.
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Posted 8/10/12
Old people call me pretty to my face. I know it's because they have bad eyes.

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I'm attracted to people more for their demeanor than physical features. I like people who seem reserved, thoughtful, maybe a little shy. I think because these people are more likely to think about things, rather than just brainlessly go with the general flow.

And I like small people. I find big/tall people intimidating >_<;;
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Posted 8/11/12
The personality is wat i judge.
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Posted 8/11/12

eos wrote:

Beauty
is
within
ones
self
being


Your status reminds me of this.

"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"
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Posted 8/11/12
Personality- if I want a relationship with a beautiful person what would it matter if they have a really bad attitude that'll probably erode over time after a breaking point is reached.
But I do feel that physical attractiveness matters as well. That's not to say I want to date someone who's anorexic, no physical attractiveness is different for each and every person.
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Posted 8/11/12
humour is the most attractive thing ever.
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Posted 8/11/12 , edited 8/11/12
Hm. My response might be like a trilogy novel lol.

Well the way my thought process works is:

On physical only | say my friends are like "omg this girl is soo hot!"

Online example: I'll look at the first pic and try to look for more and try to see past the "fake-up" and determine if shes "attractive" to me or not.

Physical/Real life example: Everybody says so-and-so is soo pretty etc. everyone want to get with her, if the opportunity arise and i'm able to go meet her with my friends and try to be nice and friendly and see past the "fake-up" like if she's caking herself with powder and lashes/lenses? what is the fuss all about? and I try to see her like how would she look without make-up.

and so far the majority of girls that "everyone" think looks good is just "smoke and mirrors" to me, cause when the fake-up is off it's like ehh..

There are a couple that I've seen/met that does all that fake-up stuff and it is attractive to a lot of guys, but I believe they look wayyyyyy better naturally than doing some raccoon eye with lashes and lenses, but to themselves they think they look better with it.

Appearance Cliff Note:
-I often look past the fake-up before determining my opinion/observation of "pretty or ugly" both online/real-life

Natural > Fake-up

After that, a highly attractive individual with nothing else going for her may only go so far for me with a shitty personality.


For me to actually want to be with someone, well they gotta make it past that filter and then of course personality, values, outlook on life etc. but sometimes beauty is deceiving and I've learned my lesson from being too nice and forgiving and putting meow on a pedestal. Though I let that all slide for the sake of dreaming with my celeb crushes lol
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Posted 8/11/12
Personality over anything. Looks might be a perk but it's not really important. Personality all the way
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Posted 8/11/12
Ones personality is always reflected towards their looks, someone considered beautiful to "look" at but with a crappy personality will instantly become ugly the moment I notice that personality. You should always look for someone who suits you.

I really dont understand the people who gets into a relationship to brag or showoff their man/woman... It's sad in my eyes.
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