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why dont asian american women date non asians.
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Posted 8/24/12
Mixing is a statistical minority in all cases. All peoples trend toward dating within their own race by majority.
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Posted 8/24/12
Not sure why this thread was created. Not trying to be a jerk about it. Just saying.
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meh it depends on the girl really but I hear there is some pressure from the older generations (parents, gradparents) to date within the race which goes for Latinos and Indians too


AshRandom wrote:

Mixing is a statistical minority in all cases. All peoples trend toward dating within their own race by majority.



Yeah this is true. Why do you think that is? Can we really chalk it up to parental/social pressure?
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Posted 8/25/12 , edited 8/25/12

funnyginsan wrote:

meh it depends on the girl really but I hear there is some pressure from the older generations (parents, gradparents) to date within the race which goes for Latinos and Indians too


AshRandom wrote:

Mixing is a statistical minority in all cases. All peoples trend toward dating within their own race by majority.



Yeah this is true. Why do you think that is? Can we really chalk it up to parental/social pressure?


It's geographical for the most part. But the obvious stereotyping and social bigotry issues still apply.
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The numbers for inter-racial marriage
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States#Interracial_marriage_by_pairing

Some of the statistics are outdated and lacking so I went to an article in USA today that got it's data from the US census

http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/story/2012-04-24/census-interracial-couples/54531706/1


Among opposite-sex married couples, one in 10 (5.4 million couples) are interracial, a 28% jump since 2000. In 2010, 18% of heterosexual unmarried couples were of different races (1.2 million couples) and 21% of same-sex couples (133,477 couples) were mixed.


one in ten isn't necessarily that impressive considering the diversity here but it's still much higher than I thought. That's actually pretty cool now that I think about it.
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Posted 8/25/12
You must live in a weird place.. I see Asian American women married to non-Asian men all the time.
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Posted 8/25/12 , edited 8/25/12

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It's stupid but normal. All species naturally gravitate toward animals that look and smell like themselves, for obvious reasons, they want to successfully mate and evolution got rid of all the critters who thought mating with odd looking critters might work. Any mating vector aside from those successfully directed toward your own kind, is either fruitless, or dangerous in the wild.

By the way, technically, there aren't human races, races are just an outdated cultural myth. No group of humans is genetically varied enough to count. What seem like big differences to us, things like skin color, height, or facial bone structure -- aren't. They're minuscule changes. We're all the same race.
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No offense but I seriously think that this is a dumb post and a little insulting for asians like me. We live in a free country and your experience is simply a result of preference. The more you think about this, the dumber this thread will go. Let it go, the girl you liked prefers asians and you cannot do anything about it. Find another girl who will like you for who you are and not because of your race. I have been turned down by so many white chicks before but I don't go crying about it in some forum and claim that white chicks are racist.
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No offense but I seriously think that this is a dumb post and a little insulting for asians like me. We live in a free country and your experience is simply a result of preference. The more you think about this, the dumber this thread will go. Let it go, the girl you liked prefers asians and you cannot do anything about it. Find another girl who will like you for who you are and not because of your race. I have been turned down by so many white chicks before but I don't go crying about it in some forum and claim that white chicks are racist.


the forum i made should be deleted u guys dont understand.yeah guy above u probably been rejected by whites that doesnt means she racist she probably will date black,hispanic,or give any race a chance .and i didnt get rejected but the koreans i know are racist.say there a white or black guy hes the total package buff, goodlooking,smart,good personality,tall im saying just becasue hes not asian she will never give him a chance. which equals racist
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no im saying like if your a cool and attractive guy you can flirt with all races and you can hook up.but all asian girls here wont like you.like ive dated black,latina,and white women but asians wont give alot of non asians a chance they ignore them or wont hook up with them.there racist kinda like they strictly only will marry or date there own race



You don't know their dating history really. Most people take on their parents' views on the kind of person they should date. I can't speak for all asian-americans but my grandmother always talks about how I should be with a man of my own race because apparently they're good men.

Another part, and I'm not saying this for every man as a whole, but asian men are typically known to be the kind of guy that won't cheat and are trustworthy, very friendly and an all around gentleman. With other races, there are guys like that but you can't really tell because of how they act or some other reason. Its more like asian women aren't always willing to take a chance and find out if a guy is good for them or not, whereas with an asian guy they really aren't risking much.

Those are just my thoughts.. As with everyone, its just personal preference.


ps tis is the answers that seems right and its straight from an asian girls mouth.her answer is true

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Posted 8/25/12 , edited 8/25/12
There actually does seem to be some kind of distinction with asian girls' dating preferences. There seem to the Americanized asian girls that will never date an asian guy and there are those who will only date asian guys. Rarely have I ever met an asian girl that has crossed both unless it's a girl that goes from asian guys to non-asian and makes that a permanent choice.
If they aren't in an asian click you can assume that there's no chance in Hell they'd ever date an asian guy. I can theorize as to why (rebelliousness against culture, parents, etc.) but it seems like discovering the reasons why aren't really going to change the dating pools. Just identify and proceed accordingly.
Posted 8/25/12
lol you want an asian girl just go to a foreign country and marry in lmfao.
That or come to hawaii! Down here anything goes.
Plus most of the asian girls down here like the local boys or go for a white guy.
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Posted 8/25/12
You are correct in that Koreans tend to only date other Koreans here in the USA.

I spent 16 months in Seoul, Korea and dated a lot. At first it was the working girls but later it was the university students.
I got a lot of dates and when I asked some of them why I was told that asian men put forth a good face for all to see, but at home
tend to be jerks or worse.
Here in the USA it is a social bias in polite terms.
Just learn to deal with it.
Maybe get with an asian visiting from the homeland. It might work. Good luck....
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have you ever seen an asian american like a korean girl date a black guy


yes i have
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kobebryant123 wrote:

they will choose a short little asian guy instead.


You mad bro?
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