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why dont asian american women date non asians.
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i dunno but if i make a choice...i think i would choose my own race cause we know the customs and traditions that we have. plus it's comfortable to speak in our own language. but i would give a chance if the guy is really a nice one.
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You seem like a nice and great dude maybe your just not their type you know?
I used to think that back then I'm a nice guy but why isn't the girl that I like with me
then it dawned on me I'm just not her type if you truly want to attract that person
that you like the most then you just have to work hard for it.
However if she's with someone else it's best to stop there and move on---
just do your best and forget the rest!
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Ever considered that you get rejected by Asian women not because you're non-Asian...

but because you're YOU?
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Winterfells wrote:



Ever considered that you get rejected by Asian women not because you're non-Asian...

but because you're YOU?

omg ive never got rejected from an asian i said ive seen other.my friend who is black got rejected and she said i dont date black guys.on my post i never said i got rejected.ive just noticed where i live that the asians dont really date out side there race .alot of them because there racist or there parents wont let them.

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alot of them because there racist or there parents wont let them.



If you're so determined about that being the answer, then why do you even ask this question?
Posted 8/25/12
They DO date non-Asians. I think I'm one of them lol
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kobebryant123 wrote:

omg ive never got rejected from an asian i said ive seen other.my friend who is black got rejected and she said i dont date black guys.on my post i never said i got rejected.ive just noticed where i live that the asians dont really date out side there race .alot of them because there racist or there parents wont let them.




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Also im asking this because i liked this asian girl and she thought i was asian then i said i wasnt asian and she never wanted too flirt or talk to me again.


I see your memory is as bad as your reading comprehension and writing skills. Talking and communicating with a girl is a crucial part in attracting interest from her. If you actually talk the way you type, well...

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Posted 8/26/12

Winterfells wrote:


kobebryant123 wrote:

omg ive never got rejected from an asian i said ive seen other.my friend who is black got rejected and she said i dont date black guys.on my post i never said i got rejected.ive just noticed where i live that the asians dont really date out side there race .alot of them because there racist or there parents wont let them.




kobebryant123 wrote:
Also im asking this because i liked this asian girl and she thought i was asian then i said i wasnt asian and she never wanted too flirt or talk to me again.


I see your memory is as bad as your reading comprehension and writing skills. Talking and communicating with a girl is a crucial part in attracting interest from her. If you actually talk the way you type, well...



Adding to the conversation......

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Maybe they just don't like you...
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kobebryant123 wrote:

most that i know have only dated other asian americans.like i know jocks who try to hook up with them and then they will choose a short little asian guy instead.i heard that there parents wont accept them dating other races and will shun them.Also im asking this because i liked this asian girl and she thought i was asian then i said i wasnt asian and she never wanted too flirt or talk to me again.i know some do but where i live in socal most dont its rare kinda.but the real asians like visiting form china like non asians the ones ive met they say there attracted to them.it makes me mad if i like an asian american girl i have no shot because im not asian.i can date blacks,white,latinas, and not asians


Go visit New York and you will see plenty of interracial couples.
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Go visit New York and you will see plenty of interracial couples.

Definitely True! I know a ton of interracial couples, and a bunch of my Asian friends have significant others of different races. I think the one of the main boundaries against interracial relationships is the lingering shadow of cultural prejudice, which is rapidly disappearing among some of the younger demographics. I think most of the people I hang out with care less about what race someone is, but rather about how much they have in common with said person. The original post seems to not realize that. I think the reason why the girls he brings up may eschew the "jocks" in favor of someone of their own race is because perhaps they feel they have few interests in common with the white guys pursuing them. I certainly don't think that people are "biologically programmed" not to date outside their racial group, but there may be aspects of social behavior that allow some people to feel more comfortable dating others with whom they have a shared cultural background. Once physical characteristics like skin color become decoupled from culture in our society, this will cease to be a problem. You are already seeing interracial couples where their shared interests (such as anime) trump any cultural divide that may stem from their ethnic heritage.
Basically, I don't think you should be focusing on winning the affection of someone because of their race, but choose someone who you get along with, have stuff in common with, and are attracted to. If you are a cool and open minded person, their race will not matter.

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Ever considered that you get rejected by Asian women not because you're non-Asian...

but because you're YOU?


Ahh nothing like when the truth gets slapped in your face...

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Posted 8/26/12
Here where I live there are a lot of asian girls dating non-asian men.
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I can't say much about your friend, but you sound kind of like a douche, and if your friend is anything like you I wouldn't date anyone like that either.

I'm from an all Chinese family. Three of my dad's sisters are married to non Asians, and my sister is engaged to a white guy. I see a lot of interracial couples around me all the time. I'm pretty sure none of them would date you dumb guys either (well, from what I'm assuming from your friend).

Also, you sound like a bit of a racist yourself, saying that the Asian chick will pick a "short little Asian man" over your obviously superior physiques. I'm an Asian dude and 'm 6'1". Not the tallest guy around, yeah, but nobody will call me short. Are there racist Asian chicks out there who wouldn't consider dating outside of their race? Sure, but there are plenty of white and black and Hispanic chicks out there that are the same as well.
Posted 8/26/12
...Asian girls ONLY date non-Asians (whites).

Okay lol, so that's a stretch, but a TON of them date whites only. They don't even give their own race a chance, and neither do their give non-whites a chance.

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