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why dont asian american women date non asians.
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Posted 8/26/12

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No offense but I seriously think that this is a dumb post and a little insulting for asians like me. We live in a free country and your experience is simply a result of preference. The more you think about this, the dumber this thread will go. Let it go, the girl you liked prefers asians and you cannot do anything about it. Find another girl who will like you for who you are and not because of your race. I have been turned down by so many white chicks before but I don't go crying about it in some forum and claim that white chicks are racist.


the forum i made should be deleted u guys dont understand.yeah guy above u probably been rejected by whites that doesnt means she racist she probably will date black,hispanic,or give any race a chance .and i didnt get rejected but the koreans i know are racist.say there a white or black guy hes the total package buff, goodlooking,smart,good personality,tall im saying just becasue hes not asian she will never give him a chance. which equals racist



You are an idiot. Saying "the koreans I know are racist" is racist. Every korean person you know? How many is that, 10? All of them really refuse outright to date any non korean and never have? I'm amazed at how much you know about people that won't flirt with or talk to you, by your own admission.

So you think the guy above you was rejected, but any girl that rejects you is racist? You sound like a douche, most girls worth talking to don't like douches. Just because you think your friend is good looking doesn't mean a girl does, or that she should date anybody that wants to date her. I think you should stop going after girls that reject you and go for your friend that you clearly are infatuated with.

I'm half asian, as are many other people. Every half asian person came from an asian person and a non asian person. Again, you're an idiot and are just getting rejected because you're an idiot. Go find girls with lower standards.
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most that i know have only dated other asian americans.like i know jocks who try to hook up with them and then they will choose a short little asian guy instead.i heard that there parents wont accept them dating other races and will shun them.Also im asking this because i liked this asian girl and she thought i was asian then i said i wasnt asian and she never wanted too flirt or talk to me again.i know some do but where i live in socal most dont its rare kinda.but the real asians like visiting form china like non asians the ones ive met they say there attracted to them.it makes me mad if i like an asian american girl i have no shot because im not asian.i can date blacks,white,latinas, and not asians


I live in California too. On contrary to what you've stated. I see a lot of Asian American women dating non Asian men. It's actually very common... Funny, I actually did a statistic on it for a class, it was ranging from the ages of 18 - 30, it was about 5 out of 10 where in an interracial relationship. 9 out of 10 has been in an interracial relationship at least once in their lifetime. But these were stats that I did from majority of So Cal, at over 20 different 'hot spots'...

Hope that's makes things a bit more hopeful for you??

P.S. there is probably a good chance that the girl you liked was just very friendly, and wasn't planning to go beyond that. You interpreted it to be an rejection.

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plus, I can't speak for all but MAJORITY of these "real asians" do have a tendency to like 'westerners' (especially those from less fortunate countries) because they see it as an opportunity to find a better life, financially. BUT THIS IS NOT ALL, just A LOT lol. There are actually books on it, if you think that I am just being bias. I recently came across some literature in a book store in a Thailand airport, but there are books that tells the women how to attract "western men" and "improve" there social status (it was in Thai).
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i understand what you mean but the ones here are straight up racist.like i can talk to any race like say a african american or a white girl lets say they normally date there own race but if your attractive and cool or nice they will give you a chance not be racist.


I don't follow so... you normally can talk to any woman, regardless of nationality or ethnicity EXCEPT the Asian girls near you because they are racist. This is the part I get lost: BUT the Asian girls will only talk to you if you are cool and attractive? Are you saying you are neither of those or was that advice for me since I'm a lone Asian dude amidst a crowded field of corn fed cattle rustlers?


no im saying like if your a cool and attractive guy you can flirt with all races and you can hook up.but all asian girls here wont like you.like ive dated black,latina,and white women but asians wont give alot of non asians a chance they ignore them or wont hook up with them.there racist kinda like they strictly only will marry or date there own race



I honestly think it's you. I have noticed Asian woman are one of the few who see beyond the exterior and that seems like all you have going. I married an asian girl and dated some before and they always seemed more concerned with one's character than looks. The fact that you are questioning them dating an asian guy instead of a "jock" kind of shows you are a tool. Then there is the "just ballin" signature.
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This completely contradicts the why do white guys and asian girls always get together. :\ But asian girls don't go for asian guys too often. Their standards are too high for them, so they go to white people who like weird things and black guys who have low expectations.
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kobebryant123 wrote:


PnoiFlava wrote:

No offense but I seriously think that this is a dumb post and a little insulting for asians like me. We live in a free country and your experience is simply a result of preference. The more you think about this, the dumber this thread will go. Let it go, the girl you liked prefers asians and you cannot do anything about it. Find another girl who will like you for who you are and not because of your race. I have been turned down by so many white chicks before but I don't go crying about it in some forum and claim that white chicks are racist.


the forum i made should be deleted u guys dont understand.yeah guy above u probably been rejected by whites that doesnt means she racist she probably will date black,hispanic,or give any race a chance .and i didnt get rejected but the koreans i know are racist.say there a white or black guy hes the total package buff, goodlooking,smart,good personality,tall im saying just becasue hes not asian she will never give him a chance. which equals racist


Umm I hate to feel like I am picking on you, but what you just said is very ignorant. Just because someone finds someone to be a 'total package;' doesn't mean that will have to go out with them. Just because she don't date him, doesn't mean they are racist. There could be many factors that could get in the way, like her self esteem or personal preference. i know I have not attempted to date a lot of 'total packages' because I may find them out of my league. from past experience, tends to be too full of themselves or may be "too perfect". A lot of time I found that the "total package" I on a emotional level did not like.

I think, from some unknown reasoning of yours, you believe that you are ENTITLED to an Asian girl. Like it is Equal opportunity right, which I find insanely offensive and ignorant. Regardless of her ethnic background ALL girls are human and have the RIGHT to choose who they want to date. They are not obligated to date certain types of people, SO IT CAN SEEM "FAIR" or MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD. Just so you can GET YOUR "ASIAN FIX" out of it.
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So please if you want to date an Asian girl or whatever other girl. Don't complain about she doesn't like you for some uncontrollable reason, and just try to court her instead. That tends to work
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Could it be that the Jocks are also asses?

I dated a Korean girl in HS, most viet girls do tend to date other viets, but more because non asian guys are usually asses, or don't understand the culture issues involved.

I will admit, dating a korean is a pain... Her parents wil almost always insist she date ONLY a korean male, and then, he HAS to be smart, rich, good family etc etc... Korean Parents are pretty strict too, and beating her or sending her back to korea to get her away from a non koran bf isn't unheard of.

It' may even seem racial, but when you consider that If she plans to go back to Korea with a mix race kid, both her and the kid will have a hard time, Odd's are, you don't speak korean, so can't communicate with the family, so you'd be making her an outcast. Is that what you really want for a girl you like? or is this more of just a booty call? you want to date a girl from another country? learn the language, the customs etc... it becomes pretty easy then.
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That's not very nice... but all to often very true.. sad isn't it.
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I will admit, dating a korean is a pain... Her parents wil almost always insist she date ONLY a korean male, and then, he HAS to be smart, rich, good family etc etc... Korean Parents are pretty strict too, and beating her or sending her back to korea to get her away from a non koran bf isn't unheard of.


Koreans like to keep marriage/dating within their own blood--the ones that still hold onto their culture/traditions closely. As a korean myself, I seen other koreans marry or date out of the race (mainly Caucasians), but the ones I know are americanized, and don't closely follow a lot of the traditions...and has to do a lot to do with their family, too.

I would not mind meeting someone with non-asian blood, but my family would not approve of it. essentially the general view boils down to "No real korean would want a mixed child." aka don't mess up the pure korean bloodline lol...especially if the asian is the only child. I know this POV is hard to agree too, but some really want to keep their cultural identity.

I don't care =[

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i never put i wanted an asian i prefer white or latina women but id be open to any race i dont judge by skin color.im just saying the asians i talk to and see dont date people out of there race majority of the time because there parents wont let them or because they dont like other races and do see them as dating or marriage material.
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I will admit, dating a korean is a pain... Her parents wil almost always insist she date ONLY a korean male, and then, he HAS to be smart, rich, good family etc etc... Korean Parents are pretty strict too, and beating her or sending her back to korea to get her away from a non koran bf isn't unheard of.


Koreans like to keep marriage/dating within their own blood--the ones that still hold onto their culture/traditions closely. As a korean myself, I seen other koreans marry or date out of the race (mainly Caucasians), but the ones I know are americanized, and don't closely follow a lot of the traditions...and has to do a lot to do with their family, too.

I would not mind meeting someone with non-asian blood, but my family would not approve of it. essentially the general view boils down to "No real korean would want a mixed child." aka don't mess up the pure korean bloodline lol...especially if the asian is the only child. I know this POV is hard to agree too, but some really want to keep their cultural identity.

I don't care =[


some one who speaks the truth.im just saying thats how most koreans are and everyone on this site says im dumb

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kobebryant123 wrote:


Suicidalducky wrote:


jingone wrote:


I will admit, dating a korean is a pain... Her parents wil almost always insist she date ONLY a korean male, and then, he HAS to be smart, rich, good family etc etc... Korean Parents are pretty strict too, and beating her or sending her back to korea to get her away from a non koran bf isn't unheard of.


Koreans like to keep marriage/dating within their own blood--the ones that still hold onto their culture/traditions closely. As a korean myself, I seen other koreans marry or date out of the race (mainly Caucasians), but the ones I know are americanized, and don't closely follow a lot of the traditions...and has to do a lot to do with their family, too.

I would not mind meeting someone with non-asian blood, but my family would not approve of it. essentially the general view boils down to "No real korean would want a mixed child." aka don't mess up the pure korean bloodline lol...especially if the asian is the only child. I know this POV is hard to agree too, but some really want to keep their cultural identity.

I don't care =[


some one who speaks the truth.im just saying thats how most koreans are and everyone on this site says im dumb



You are, since you're tossing the word "racism" around as if it's the correct usage in this situation (which it isn't)

Posted 8/26/12
People can date who they want regardless of ethnicity
Posted 8/26/12
Everyone is 'racist' to some degree. There's just no way you can control it growing up in the environment you grew up in. As soon as you label someone a different race, it is racism because you have isolated certain qualities to attach to that label. Granted, racism isn't necessarily bad, it is the differing way you treat people based on your labeling that is bad.
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