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Solutions to Bullying
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I have been bullied twice. (still now) Once physical, once mentally. Physical bullying was easier to deal with to be honest. I stood up for myself a few times but in the end it just passed and i was never hurt again. Mental is terrible though. It screws with your head. Everyone would call me weird all the time and it dosent make you feel good about yourself, I am getting over it though i think.

I been to the teachers loads in the last 4 years but they dont do shit.

As for beating up the bullies i am working on that but teenage essex girls are hard to deal with. TT^TT


I find listening to music helps. Espically dramatic music.
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Kick the bully's ass (if you can), show the bully that you will not be bullied, or, if you are really passive, just ignore him/her so that the person realizes that you will not react to his/her comments or physical aggression.
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lordseth23 wrote:


thepeaguy wrote:

Bullies are not necessarily weak people. They can be strong, charismatic and have friends. Just because some people dislike you specifically doesn't mean that they won't benefit from life. Look at Howard Stern. He bullies people all the time and he's a highly-paid radio talk show host. Or look at the football players who bully you and fuck the hot chicks.

Stand up for yourself because bullying is a part of human nature. It will never disappear.


They do, however, have psychological problems that need to be fixed.


Tell that to the likes of Howard Stern and Donald Trump who are both laughing their way to the bank.


xAlwaysx wrote:

I have been bullied twice. (still now) Once physical, once mentally. Physical bullying was easier to deal with to be honest. I stood up for myself a few times but in the end it just passed and i was never hurt again. Mental is terrible though. It screws with your head. Everyone would call me weird all the time and it dosent make you feel good about yourself, I am getting over it though i think.

I been to the teachers loads in the last 4 years but they dont do shit.

As for beating up the bullies i am working on that but teenage essex girls are hard to deal with. TT^TT


I find listening to music helps. Espically dramatic music.


Tanned slags to boot, innit.
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@ xAlwaysx: Dramatic music, eh? Me too. Try this; one of my favourite songs. Some good 'ol Necro-BM.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01BIjbz3JeI&list=LLbic2MOpv63nBU96HNz0hvw
Nothing says misanthropy like Sargeist.
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Throw a chair, beat he/she with it. I would

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Violence isnt the answer, its the solution,
If violence doesn't solve your problems, you're not using enough,
These things fix anything,
1.) Ductape
2.) Supperglue
3.) Bacon
4.) Violence
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this thread, so many post are tl;dr

my advice, get some of your homies and walk up to him and start something

unless he's a skinhead, they're crazy

edit: also join some form of martial arts
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thepeaguy wrote:

Tell that to the likes of Howard Stern and Donald Trump who are both laughing their way to the bank.


They do have psychological problems if they insist on bullying people. Just because they are popular does not mean they are mature individuals.
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Possibly the best generic, general advice to bullying is ...

Think of the person you trust more than anyone and who you feels listens to you. It can even be someone online, at first. Write all your thoughts down then approach them about it. It's really, really important to discuss this with (at least) someone else.

Saying nothing is the worst thing you can do for yourself and all those who care about you.

If you feel you require more help you can move on to the next person. I hope maybe this was helpful for anyone reading.
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If you're getting physically bullied, contact all of us Crunchyroll users.

We are NOT afraid to kick ass, anime/manga style.

and if you're getting mentally bullied, AGAIN contact all of us Crunchyroll users.

There are PLENTY of trolls on these forums that can finish them.
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25 / M / san jose, Ca
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I dont know, bullying usually stops after highschool. But it cant be stopped just cause some1 explains it. Best solution is to learn how to fight. Once you take a stand and fight back it can either make things better or make it worse, you cant ignore it but you can stop it. Fight back
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I think bullying happens due to the uproar of certain emotions and feelings. This includes jealousy, past trauma, or a means of revenge.

Because of this, I think bullying will never cease to exist. Unless, of course, we humans become more aware of our thoughts and actions to prevent such experiences and emotions, but you know, that's most likely impossible. We, the entire human race (or most of it at least), is blinded by all these surrounding factors, such as money and power, that we fail to see what's truly important. We also become selfish because of it.

That's the gist of it, in my opinion.
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I personally think bullying is a terrible thing but I feel we do more educating the victims then getting behind the bully's thoughts and why they are treating their fellow class mates the way they are. I sympathize for the victims but I do the same for the bully, but sadly in some cases people are just disrespectful and their is not much to do with that. I hope bulling ceases to exist but I do not think this will be happening anytime soon.
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Concentration camps.
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70 / M / point of singularity
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my parents had me working in the tobacco patch by 3 at 12 i was mowing yards and by 16 i was working at a sawmill stacking cross ties so basicly no one fucked with me i was a nice guy so i didnt mess with anyone either...so my advice is to be strong and respectable it worked for me...i remember in high school i never lost in a arm wrestling contest or wrestling contest to any of the jocks of any sport i was what u call farmer strong..then i picked up weights and to this day ppl dont mess with me ^_^
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