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aeb0717 wrote:

Your behavior is suspiciously similar to that of someone endeavoring to make me conform to their beliefs. How do you justify that? The same concept applies to other people attempting to eradicate the existence of bullying, and trying to FORCE "bullies" into behaving a certain way. That's taking away personal freedom. That's tyranny and hypocrisy. Do you understand yet? There's no need to justify bullying when it will always exist in some form or another.


Why shouldn't we force bullies to stop bullying?
Why shouldn't we take away this freedom that constrains the freedoms of others?
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It's not so much that I want to treat them bad, per say, but it's aggravating when people do that, especially after they deliberately "poke lions with sticks." When that happens, I feel like I'm being taken for granted and that I'm just being used as a meat shield. Fortunately, only my younger sister tries to pull that. As far as I know, anyway.
As for whether or not some of them enjoy being bullied...? Well, there's a reason why the term "masochist" and the phrase "playing the victim" exist.
Posted 3/15/13
lol try to make it illegal, let's see how that works out for you
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I think that I might have not replied properly in my last message to you, so this is me trying again. There's some variances in how it's worded, as opposed to the previous version, but the message is roughly the same...
To do so makes you a hypocrite, and to do so while fully aware of the hypocrisy is even worse. If I were to follow your logic, your own behavior isn't right and shouldn't occur, but (somehow) bullying isn't bullying as long as you're doing it.
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Posted 3/15/13

aeb0717 wrote:

To do so makes you a hypocrite, and to do so while fully aware of the hypocrisy is even worse. If I were to follow your logic, your own behavior isn't right and shouldn't occur, but (somehow) bullying isn't bullying as long as you're doing it.


How am I a hypocrite?
What behavior do I have that should not occur?
How am I bullying?
Posted 3/15/13 , edited 3/15/13

lordseth23 wrote:


aeb0717 wrote:

To do so makes you a hypocrite, and to do so while fully aware of the hypocrisy is even worse. If I were to follow your logic, your own behavior isn't right and shouldn't occur, but (somehow) bullying isn't bullying as long as you're doing it.


How am I a hypocrite?
What behavior do I have that should not occur?
How am I bullying?


You're not bullying but how can you make someone stop doing anything? Before considering asking the question, you should consider how sustainable the solution is.
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Sociopa wrote:

You're not bullying but how can you make someone stop doing anything? Before considering asking the question, you should consider how sustainable the solution is.


You can make someone stop doing something by convincing them as to why it shouldn't be done.
Posted 3/15/13

lordseth23 wrote:


Sociopa wrote:

You're not bullying but how can you make someone stop doing anything? Before considering asking the question, you should consider how sustainable the solution is.


You can make someone stop doing something by convincing them as to why it shouldn't be done.


Good suggestion, i think you'd make a wonderful advocate. Keep working on those solutions
Posted 3/15/13
Just relax and bend over.
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Posted 3/15/13 , edited 3/16/13
unfortunately i wasn't man enough to do it but i like the solution where you kill or beat the bullies half to death
oh and i don't support the bullied to kill there whole school but i do understand why they do it
and that is simply cause even the one's that didn't bully them still never helped them or stopped the bullying
because usually people just pretend they didn't see it and go on with there lives
and the funny thing is people start finding it horrible only after the person killed them selfs

makes me laugh just how twisted the world works

and yes for those who wanna now i have been bullied and have bullied
because that was how the system worked at my school
you get bullied if you are a freshman only exception you have to have been really cool
or you start bullying someone weaker than you

not proud that i bullied someone
but i did what i had to to stay sane at that place
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Posted 3/15/13

lordseth23 wrote:


aeb0717 wrote:

Since bullying even occurs amongst puppies, it should be obvious that bullying is natural, normal, necessary to some extent, and that it will never disappear.


How is it necessary?


hate to say it and despite saying still wish bullying would be helped out of this world

but i think bullying is a soft form of natural selection and a way to decide pecking order
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Bullies are a part of life. Getting past them is just another small struggle from many. Just another obstacle you need to punch through... punch - very - hard - through.


The trick is not to stop bullies. Thats impossible, corrupt individuals are all over the world. We should not be teaching children that bullying is bad because THEY KNOW BULLYING IS BAD! You can do all the danged assemblies and speeches you want on why they should stop bullying. They know what they are doing is not nice, this isn't a damn utopian society! So unless you want to pull some Gundam Seed Destiny plan, STFU!
Instead, what people should be focusing on is stop raising your kids to be whimps that should always 'walk away'. You cant 'walk away' from everything, especially when you are FORCED to go to school every damn day of the week for 12+ years of your life. How do you 'walk away' from someone you have to see every day? That you might have to sit next to everyday? You cant walk away from that. We need to stop preaching to our children on being whimps, need to stop being such overprotective douchebag adults and teach kids how to protect themselves. I never had to worry about bullying. Not because I never got confronted, but because I freaking protected myself. Someone so much as touched my chicken and they got knocked the fuck out!
I had to teach myself how to fight. My overprotective parent never let me learn any martial arts at a school because they were overprotective and thought I would get hurt. Many parents have this issue. Think logically here, they can get hurt in a safe environment and become stronger or get hurt because they cant defend themselves and some ruthless d-bag is kicking them in the ribs while they go fetal position on the ground! You do not want your kid to be in this situation. Kids these days are crazy, after they knock Lil' Timmy out they will spit in his mouth, take a pee on him. All kinds of nasty things, trust me, its not good. I've seen it happen!

This is no big issue, no controversy. Establish your dominance and you wont get bullied. Simple as that. The problem with society is that they dont let kids defend themselves or fight back. I always got in trouble at school when I was never the one who started the conflict. Just because I wasn't the one bleeding in the end, I was the one in the wrong. We teach our kids not to protect themselves. They are supposed to 'walk away' because ignorant assholes think you can 'walk away' from every situation. If you dont walk away you get in trouble. So kids are caught between a bully and a hard place. Unless they are like me and dont give a damn about getting in trouble with authority over letting some bully have his way.
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Posted 3/15/13

ursae wrote:

Just relax and bend over.


Posted 3/15/13

Chronomana wrote:

Bullies are a part of life. Getting past them is just another small struggle from many. Just another obstacle you need to punch through... punch - very - hard - through.


The trick is not to stop bullies. Thats impossible, corrupt individuals are all over the world. We should not be teaching children that bullying is bad because THEY KNOW BULLYING IS BAD! You can do all the danged assemblies and speeches you want on why they should stop bullying. They know what they are doing is not nice, this isn't a damn utopian society! So unless you want to pull some Gundam Seed Destiny plan, STFU!
Instead, what people should be focusing on is stop raising your kids to be whimps that should always 'walk away'. You cant 'walk away' from everything, especially when you are FORCED to go to school every damn day of the week for 12+ years of your life. How do you 'walk away' from someone you have to see every day? That you might have to sit next to everyday? You cant walk away from that. We need to stop preaching to our children on being whimps, need to stop being such overprotective douchebag adults and teach kids how to protect themselves. I never had to worry about bullying. Not because I never got confronted, but because I freaking protected myself. Someone so much as touched my chicken and they got knocked the fuck out!
I had to teach myself how to fight. My overprotective parent never let me learn any martial arts at a school because they were overprotective and thought I would get hurt. Many parents have this issue. Think logically here, they can get hurt in a safe environment and become stronger or get hurt because they cant defend themselves and some ruthless d-bag is kicking them in the ribs while they go fetal position on the ground!

This is no big issue, no controversy. Establish your dominance and you wont get bullied. Simple as that. The problem with society is that they dont let kids defend themselves or fight back. I always got in trouble at school when I was never the one who started the conflict. Just because I wasn't the one bleeding in the end, I was the one in the wrong. We teach our kids not to protect themselves. They are supposed to 'walk away' because ignorant assholes think you can 'walk away' from every situation. If you dont walk away you get in trouble. So kids are caught between a bully and a hard place. Unless they are like me and dont give a damn about getting in trouble with authority over letting some bully have his way.


I think some cleverness and wit is all you really need to get the better of someone. People need to learn how to be smug.
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Give them a free trip to north korea...or a county jail. hehe
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