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Posted 3/16/13
Uh...just ignore them? That solution worked for me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Posted 3/16/13

sillyriri wrote:

Most of the replies in this thread are about what to do when you are the one being bullied, so I wont comment on that.

But even if you aren't the one being bullied it's important to help stop it. If you see someone else being bullied, help them out. A lot of bullies do so because of either wanting to feel powerful or because they seek approval from their peers. By creating an environment in which the bullies have less power and respect (by having lots of people show they wont tolerate it), you are taking away their motivation and letting the person being bullied know they aren't alone.


Good post.
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umm i know this is kinda stupid of me to say but for me if i was bullied i'd kick his ass even if i got my ass whooped instead at least i'd go ball's to the wall and stand up for myself and if he still dicked around with me i'd bully his ass Karma's a bitch so just stand up for yourself most people like that hate are really just pussy's picking on someone they don't like and don't have the gut's to do anything other than push you around
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Posted 3/19/13
Sacrifice five-hundred pigs.
Posted 3/19/13
Hire some ripped student to beat his ass.
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Hire some ripped student to beat his ass.


Heeh maybe not that, it depends ).
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On a more serious note, bullies don't like fighting against groups. And when you're a group, if one of you gets caught in it, the others can go notify an administrator immediately. On top of that, you have witnesses from your group, and as such a solid case to build against the bullies.
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Posted 3/19/13

AshRandom wrote:


EvilBunnyFluff wrote:


AshRandom wrote:

Here's a thought: punch people in the face.


That was my answer as well.

I'm also a fan of going bat-shit crazy.


Heh!

Being Scottish, I have a long line of ancestors, who like myself, are big fans of fist fights and deranged women, and fist fights with deranged women. I don't know what it is about violence that's so damn attractive, probably just a symptom of the male mind in general. Personally, I promote violence in all confrontations with unreasonable people. Trying to reach the mind of an unreasonable person is impossible, their face however, presents itself.

If it was a question of intellectual incompatibility it would be one thing, but when someone is targeting you, they're enacting a predatory persona. They must be broken of it, or they themselves must be broken. Those are the only options. Pretending we can turn the other cheek, or apply social pressure with kid gloves, or leave it up to school administrators is ignoring the larger social problem that extends into adulthood.

As for the idea that you can shame inner city kids by bringing their parents into the classroom, are you kidding me? What parents? Some of their parents are actual criminals. If not most. And try finding a teacher with the balls to do that knowing the student probably owns a gun and even with all the metal detectors, they probably have it accessible within walking distance. Perhaps it will have some effect on suburban schools in wealthy areas, but when things have broken down to the point they have that kind of solution is laughable. Locking people up isn't the solution either. So you might ask what is the solution? Violence. Abject, unadulterated, physical pain. As they do across the world and most famously in Singapore -- we need to start caning people. And for more serious crimes we need to flog people with leather and iron beads. Flay the flesh from their backs.

Oh, Ash, you're a sicko! Am I? Am I? Or is it that puritanical solutions have only enlarged the problem.

Gang members brag about going to jail. Who the fuck is going to brag about having someone beat their ass with a stick until they cried like a little girl? Who walks down the street acting hardcore when their ass has been canned? Nobody. We need to make crime and punishment UNCOOL again. As it stands right now, there's nothing uncool about robbing and stabbing people, spending some time in prison, then coming out with "street cred." How about we just rip the flesh right off their backs? How about we tan their hides? How about we hang murderers? Eh???

Nah, can't do that, because Jesus rides on Dinosaurs and he said to be nice to horrible people. Yeah, I'm thinking Jesus was a horrible person for trying to disarm good people and leave them defenseless both physically & mentally.


I am going to report you to a moderator....for being to awesome and in other words i agree. i think if you show to much mercy , you will not make any progress. Also i think just because so many people do it , they are underestimating how evil what they are doing actually is. Killing them might be to harsh...but a good beating sounds fair to me if you got proper evidence and they were harassing some one.

I used to be bullied...no , harassed is what it should be called....anyways , a few times and of course the teacher would tell them to stop and all that but it never worked , but once i attacked and defeated my three my harasser's they had a new view of how the food chain worked and never bullied me again.

Lastly , let me actually answer the ORIGINAL POST of this topic. how do i define bullying? bullying is when you harass some one who is weaker than you , not for revenge or anything positive in your mind , but simply because you enjoy it because of how big it makes you feel.
what do i think the cause of bullying is? it is caused from the craving of power and selfishness and to be more specific , i think a person who was abused him self and felt weak harasses people to avoid feeling that pain from his past or had lousy parents who never told him he was good or even worse...told him he was weak or small. Is it a natural part of life? yes very much so , it is human nature and possibly in a very dark way...part of the circle of life , everything needs something to threaten it in the food chain and i think humans are its own predator to help keep the numbers in check., aka not to high so it will never go away. how do i think schools should educate them on how to deal with harassers ( bullies )? Talking does not do any good unless you threaten them with the REAL solution , and the REAL solution to this is to stick up for your self and defeat them with a form of attack so they can understand that you are not a good , weak target for them. we need to teach are kids to fight for there PROTECTION and friends and how they should stick together and unite and all at once with all your friends side by side , tell that bully he will be crushed by every one of them if he does not stop...and if he does not stop , you keep your promise......and if you do not agree with that AND do not support the army who defends its self , your a hypocrite.
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i say give bullies a good smack down!! i went to small school with no bullies and then i transfer to big school. Some guys tried to pick on me when they did not know me. i was starting center in football with a couple awards from the pevious year. came that afternoon he did not recognize me in pactice i hit him so hard in football pactice i knock out both of his ear pieces out of his helmet. its was hilarious
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i say give bullies a good smack down!! i went to small school with no bullies and then i transfer to big school. Some guys tried to pick on me when they did not know me. i was starting center in football with a couple awards from the pevious year. came that afternoon he did not recognize me in pactice i hit him so hard in football pactice i knock out both of his ear pieces out of his helmet. its was hilarious


Did you hit him during a drill or something when he had his helmet on and chinstrap buckled?
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I hit him during a drill where i pull to right side as added protection and he tried to blind side me. That's where I took him straight up
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When I was little my friends and I used to gang up if someone got bullied. Strength in numbers.
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Posted 3/19/13

astro6619 wrote:

I hit him during a drill where i pull to right side as added protection and he tried to blind side me. That's where I took him straight up


Wow, so did you really hit him hard enough to dislodge his earpieces? Did his helmet come off?
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Posted 3/19/13

HimitsuUK wrote:


sillyriri wrote:

Most of the replies in this thread are about what to do when you are the one being bullied, so I wont comment on that.

But even if you aren't the one being bullied it's important to help stop it. If you see someone else being bullied, help them out. A lot of bullies do so because of either wanting to feel powerful or because they seek approval from their peers. By creating an environment in which the bullies have less power and respect (by having lots of people show they wont tolerate it), you are taking away their motivation and letting the person being bullied know they aren't alone.


Good post.





azurumi wrote:


AshRandom wrote:


EvilBunnyFluff wrote:


AshRandom wrote:

Here's a thought: punch people in the face.


That was my answer as well.

I'm also a fan of going bat-shit crazy.


Heh!

Being Scottish, I have a long line of ancestors, who like myself, are big fans of fist fights and deranged women, and fist fights with deranged women. I don't know what it is about violence that's so damn attractive, probably just a symptom of the male mind in general. Personally, I promote violence in all confrontations with unreasonable people. Trying to reach the mind of an unreasonable person is impossible, their face however, presents itself.

If it was a question of intellectual incompatibility it would be one thing, but when someone is targeting you, they're enacting a predatory persona. They must be broken of it, or they themselves must be broken. Those are the only options. Pretending we can turn the other cheek, or apply social pressure with kid gloves, or leave it up to school administrators is ignoring the larger social problem that extends into adulthood.

As for the idea that you can shame inner city kids by bringing their parents into the classroom, are you kidding me? What parents? Some of their parents are actual criminals. If not most. And try finding a teacher with the balls to do that knowing the student probably owns a gun and even with all the metal detectors, they probably have it accessible within walking distance. Perhaps it will have some effect on suburban schools in wealthy areas, but when things have broken down to the point they have that kind of solution is laughable. Locking people up isn't the solution either. So you might ask what is the solution? Violence. Abject, unadulterated, physical pain. As they do across the world and most famously in Singapore -- we need to start caning people. And for more serious crimes we need to flog people with leather and iron beads. Flay the flesh from their backs.

Oh, Ash, you're a sicko! Am I? Am I? Or is it that puritanical solutions have only enlarged the problem.

Gang members brag about going to jail. Who the fuck is going to brag about having someone beat their ass with a stick until they cried like a little girl? Who walks down the street acting hardcore when their ass has been canned? Nobody. We need to make crime and punishment UNCOOL again. As it stands right now, there's nothing uncool about robbing and stabbing people, spending some time in prison, then coming out with "street cred." How about we just rip the flesh right off their backs? How about we tan their hides? How about we hang murderers? Eh???

Nah, can't do that, because Jesus rides on Dinosaurs and he said to be nice to horrible people. Yeah, I'm thinking Jesus was a horrible person for trying to disarm good people and leave them defenseless both physically & mentally.


I am going to report you to a moderator....for being to awesome and in other words i agree. i think if you show to much mercy , you will not make any progress. Also i think just because so many people do it , they are underestimating how evil what they are doing actually is. Killing them might be to harsh...but a good beating sounds fair to me if you got proper evidence and they were harassing some one.

I used to be bullied...no , harassed is what it should be called....anyways , a few times and of course the teacher would tell them to stop and all that but it never worked , but once i attacked and defeated my three my harasser's they had a new view of how the food chain worked and never bullied me again.

Lastly , let me actually answer the ORIGINAL POST of this topic. how do i define bullying? bullying is when you harass some one who is weaker than you , not for revenge or anything positive in your mind , but simply because you enjoy it because of how big it makes you feel.
what do i think the cause of bullying is? it is caused from the craving of power and selfishness and to be more specific , i think a person who was abused him self and felt weak harasses people to avoid feeling that pain from his past or had lousy parents who never told him he was good or even worse...told him he was weak or small. Is it a natural part of life? yes very much so , it is human nature and possibly in a very dark way...part of the circle of life , everything needs something to threaten it in the food chain and i think humans are its own predator to help keep the numbers in check., aka not to high so it will never go away. how do i think schools should educate them on how to deal with harassers ( bullies )? Talking does not do any good unless you threaten them with the REAL solution , and the REAL solution to this is to stick up for your self and defeat them with a form of attack so they can understand that you are not a good , weak target for them. we need to teach are kids to fight for there PROTECTION and friends and how they should stick together and unite and all at once with all your friends side by side , tell that bully he will be crushed by every one of them if he does not stop...and if he does not stop , you keep your promise......and if you do not agree with that AND do not support the army who defends its self , your a hypocrite.


Well said!! As an army brat we moved about every 2-4 years to make matters worse mama was a bit of a gypsy. I've had my share of being "the new kid" Imagine being 4'5 100lbs at sixteen. It's like a genetic bulls eye on your forehead. It came to a head in junior high somewhere in Maryland I had caught the eye of the local bunch of misfits when they decided to set up a fight between some kid and me. The whole thing was because the head idiot aka Kenny just needed someone to make his life more interesting. The fight didn
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