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Finding a woman/man that's into Anime/Video-games
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Rina-San wrote:

I have Xbox Live and there are SOOOO many weird men on there! Holy shit I talk about how weird it is quite a lot on forums I know, but omg its so weird. But I like messing with them, this guy kept sending me sexual messages so I got my Dad to record a voice message and ooooh boy you did not wanna hear what my Dad had to say he went fucking crazy! The man never messaged me again, didn't even have to block him

I like games and stuff but I'm not completely immersed in it like some saddos. Get a job!



It's no fun if he replies angry. He's gotta pretend it's his account, and then act interested ^_^
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I know a lot of hot chicks, IRL, that are really into anime and mangas. I know a couple who are huge otakus like myself, others who enjoy it very much but aren't as nuts. Then there's the sporadic few who don't feel it, but don't hate against it either.
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dude dont wry aabout it. My girlfriend is into some anime. I also have another friend thats a girl about the same age as i am and im 24 she loves anime and video games. shes also 5'4 105 lbs. thin and sexy
Posted 9/7/12
I'm right here <-- LOL
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23 / M / Griffin GA
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Posted 9/7/12

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I'm right here <-- LOL


hahah lol
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You know, I see this sort of question pop up all the time. I totally get wanting a girlfriend that is into the same things as you - I'm fortunate in that respect, mine loves Star Wars, fantasy novels, and she's more than happy to sit down an watch anime with me.

However, liking anime is the least likely personal attribute that will make you happy in a relationship. Seriously. Find a girl that has the morals, ethics, and character you like --- if she likes the same about you, you'll be able to introduce her to your interests, and you should take time to get to find out about hers.

There is nothing wrong with looking for a cool girl that likes anime, just don't put too much priority on it. Afterall, wouldn't it be even better to introduce someone new to anime
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23 / M / Griffin GA
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Posted 9/7/12

jayntampa wrote:

You know, I see this sort of question pop up all the time. I totally get wanting a girlfriend that is into the same things as you - I'm fortunate in that respect, mine loves Star Wars, fantasy novels, and she's more than happy to sit down an watch anime with me.

However, liking anime is the least likely personal attribute that will make you happy in a relationship. Seriously. Find a girl that has the morals, ethics, and character you like --- if she likes the same about you, you'll be able to introduce her to your interests, and you should take time to get to find out about hers.

There is nothing wrong with looking for a cool girl that likes anime, just don't put too much priority on it. Afterall, wouldn't it be even better to introduce someone new to anime :D


i know what you mean and understand what your saying i look for more than just likeing anime and games but those are 2 primary things i hope to find in a woman
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I think part of it is that boys tend to be exposed to it at a younger age than girls so we need time to catch up lol. I love anime but I didn't even know it existed till i was out of high school and a girl at work got me hooked. None of my friends growing up were into video games or cartoons. Hell I didn't even find my love for rock music till I moved to a place that actually had good rock radio reception lol. I thought I wasn't a music person cause all of my friends were into the boy bands and I kind of thought they were crap (no offense to people who like boy bands lol)

But now I love my games, my rock and my anime. My husband and I even have his and her PS3's cause we can't share lol. So we are out there it just might take us a little longer to realize that we love this stuff than you!
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Oh and I agree with the person who said to try dating sites. I got on match.com after a friend practically forced me to try it and I ended up meeting my husband on there
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23 / M / Griffin GA
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I think part of it is that boys tend to be exposed to it at a younger age than girls so we need time to catch up lol. I love anime but I didn't even know it existed till i was out of high school and a girl at work got me hooked. None of my friends growing up were into video games or cartoons. Hell I didn't even find my love for rock music till I moved to a place that actually had good rock radio reception lol. I thought I wasn't a music person cause all of my friends were into the boy bands and I kind of thought they were crap (no offense to people who like boy bands lol)

But now I love my games, my rock and my anime. My husband and I even have his and her PS3's cause we can't share lol. So we are out there it just might take us a little longer to realize that we love this stuff than you!


my first anime was DBZ so i guees you could say i started watching at a young age and by the way i love your story his and hers PS3 awesome
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Beatrix426 wrote:

Oh and I agree with the person who said to try dating sites. I got on match.com after a friend practically forced me to try it and I ended up meeting my husband on there


i would but i have like 3 reaccuring subscriptions dont want to add a 4th but ill check out match and see what its like thanks
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What you should ask yourself is why do you want a girlfriend? If you feel as if you need a love interest because you're incomplete, then you're on the wrong track. You need to feel whole when you're alone, to be happy with one's self. You should want a relationship, not need one.

If you aren't happy with yourself, nobody will be happy with you. If you don't love yourself, you aren't worth being loved by anyone else because you will never believe them which creates distrust and then they leave you.

I know you want a girlfriend so you can do all that crazy shit that couples do, but be honest with yourself, can you handle it? Giving your heart to someone is one thing and it the easier part of the bargain. To receive someone's heart, to take care of it and cherish it and treat it like your own is the difficult part. So just ask yourself, do I take care of my own heart enough to know how to take care of a different one?

I'm not trying to bring you down or anything, just know that love is more complicated than anime and video games.
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i know what you mean and understand what your saying i look for more than just likeing anime and games but those are 2 primary things i hope to find in a woman


I can respect that. The best way to meet people is to always get involved in things. Dating sites work to, I won't put them down - but being well-rounded, active person is something many women admire. Stay an optimistic person, stay involved in things, and you'll meet someone who shares your interests. I honestly believe that.
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When I started dating my current wife, I introduced her to anime and she loved it! She's not so keen on playing video games but she enjoys watching me play them sometimes while she reads a book (yes I have confirmed she watches, women are great multi-taskers). we now enjoy evenings watching a series on crunchyroll together or dusting off some of my "older" anime i used to watch back in junior high. I wasn't too interested in manga but have a few lying around that she has picked up and read with mild interest.

Lesson learned? Be open about your interests so that you find someone that will share those interests even if they haven't, on the ones that haven't just don't overload them with it, try to find something else that is a common interest like music or hollywood flicks. You might not find someone like that right away, but just be careful not to go to the extreme of hiding your interests or to the other end of overloading people with it
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23 / M / Griffin GA
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justinitsu wrote:

What you should ask yourself is why do you want a girlfriend? If you feel as if you need a love interest because you're incomplete, then you're on the wrong track. You need to feel whole when you're alone, to be happy with one's self. You should want a relationship, not need one.

If you aren't happy with yourself, nobody will be happy with you. If you don't love yourself, you aren't worth being loved by anyone else because you will never believe them which creates distrust and then they leave you.

I know you want a girlfriend so you can do all that crazy shit that couples do, but be honest with yourself, can you handle it? Giving your heart to someone is one thing and it the easier part of the bargain. To receive someone's heart, to take care of it and cherish it and treat it like your own is the difficult part. So just ask yourself, do I take care of my own heart enough to know how to take care of a different one?

I'm not trying to bring you down or anything, just know that love is more complicated than anime and video games.


thats deep bro really and i can i dont need a realtionship i dont need anything i know what it is and means to charish someone that you love i have before thats why iv been going to the gym and all of that suff i honestly understand what your saying a womans heart is nothing to play with its meant to be held very gently and taken well care of thanks for the post man
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