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Finding a woman/man that's into Anime/Video-games
Posted 9/9/12
lol same here :/
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Posted 9/9/12

deejayvee wrote:

I've stayed there for like an hour and a half, I never get told to leave. If they tell you to leave you tell em' to piss off you're browsing games.. 'Sif they can kick you out if you're actually looking at games, and what is the harm at saying hello to people who are near what you're looking at?


they dont tell me that iv seen them tell people that they wouldnt tell me that im a regular but i dont want to piss em off its the only gamestop in my town lol the next one is an hour away
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eternalchaos4200 wrote:
well right now im looking for a job i go to the gym everyday lets see im going to see Resident evil this friday other than that not much else like i said i cant be going to just go out gas is like 3.87 so i cant waste money i dont have and sorry people keep sending me meesages about this thread that arnt well so nice


Alright, here is some food for thought. Try it if you'd like.

You say you're going to the gym and looking for a job. What if instead of worrying over a girl, you put that on the back burner and focused on yourself. Get yourself to where you want physically. Find a job, save up some green. Don't worry about the girls, they'll be there when you get back. When you get back, you'll be confident in how you look and you won't have any worries over money which make meeting chicks so much more easier. All the energy you expend on your girl search is energy you could put toward yourself: another set of reps on the bench, 10 more minutes on the treadmill, making a profile on monster.com, applying to 20 more jobs, taking more time to polish up that resumé. If you get your other woes out of the way so when you get back on the girl hunt, you can jump in full force with an armata of confidence, a front line of sexy new muscles and the cash to back that dinner date you asked her out to. Just a thought?

If that's not your style, I would say the gym is a great start, look for a work out buddy. Maybe find a girl there who wants to shred it up and you can fit it up together. The park! Go for a walk or a jog and say hi to the cute girls walking their dogs. Arcades? Sometimes you find those nerdy girls spinning it up on the old Street Fighter machines and you challenge them? Bet them dinner or something. DDR is actually a great workout and from what I've seen at cons and college, the nerdy girlies love those 4 arrows and bounce on them like crazy. There's always the mall, Hot Topic chicks usually like nerd culture so pop in there and start a conversation about digimon shirts or those funny hats with cat ears that can actually be really hot sometimes, if she works it right. Friends! Ask them if they know someone or if someone they know might know someone. Up here in Boston the only girls you really find hanging out at movie theaters are the trashy high school whores that think themselves better than the world, but it might be different in Georgia. Check craigslist for speed dating events that are local. I went to AWA last year and I worked the Sanshee booth in the vendor room and I KNOW FOR A FACT that Georgia has fuck ton of hot nerdy, otaku chicks so they are there!

Everybody else, start thinking of ideas for our friend here!
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Posted 9/9/12

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eternalchaos4200 wrote:
well right now im looking for a job i go to the gym everyday lets see im going to see Resident evil this friday other than that not much else like i said i cant be going to just go out gas is like 3.87 so i cant waste money i dont have and sorry people keep sending me meesages about this thread that arnt well so nice


Alright, here is some food for thought. Try it if you'd like.

You say you're going to the gym and looking for a job. What if instead of worrying over a girl, you put that on the back burner and focused on yourself. Get yourself to where you want physically. Find a job, save up some green. Don't worry about the girls, they'll be there when you get back. When you get back, you'll be confident in how you look and you won't have any worries over money which make meeting chicks so much more easier. All the energy you expend on your girl search is energy you could put toward yourself: another set of reps on the bench, 10 more minutes on the treadmill, making a profile on monster.com, applying to 20 more jobs, taking more time to polish up that resumé. If you get your other woes out of the way so when you get back on the girl hunt, you can jump in full force with an armata of confidence, a front line of sexy new muscles and the cash to back that dinner date you asked her out to. Just a thought?

If that's not your style, I would say the gym is a great start, look for a work out buddy. Maybe find a girl there who wants to shred it up and you can fit it up together. The park! Go for a walk or a jog and say hi to the cute girls walking their dogs. Arcades? Sometimes you find those nerdy girls spinning it up on the old Street Fighter machines and you challenge them? Bet them dinner or something. DDR is actually a great workout and from what I've seen at cons and college, the nerdy girlies love those 4 arrows and bounce on them like crazy. There's always the mall, Hot Topic chicks usually like nerd culture so pop in there and start a conversation about digimon shirts or those funny hats with cat ears that can actually be really hot sometimes, if she works it right. Friends! Ask them if they know someone or if someone they know might know someone. Up here in Boston the only girls you really find hanging out at movie theaters are the trashy high school whores that think themselves better than the world, but it might be different in Georgia. Check craigslist for speed dating events that are local. I went to AWA last year and I worked the Sanshee booth in the vendor room and I KNOW FOR A FACT that Georgia has fuck ton of hot nerdy, otaku chicks so they are there!

Everybody else, start thinking of ideas for our friend here!






holly balls k where to start hmm i wish their were old school arcades here i wanted to go to AWA dragon con isnt to far from it umm job wise im working on that i have one more ged test to finish and ill have that done craigslist too creepy uhh we do have trashy highschool whores who do like to hang out around the theater how did you know that? and DDR im pretty sure more than half the ladies in griffin dont even know what DDR stands for and far as the gym i go to no one my age goes their or even close to my age for that matter and its not that im looking for a hot nerdy otaku chick just someone to get to know hang out with and possibly more that doesnt mean sex nessarly thats not what im looking for and i assure you you dont want to take a ladie to the parks we have well theirs maybe one hottopics and all that is about a 2 hour drive its an awesome place iv been their a few times and for the confindent part for the most part i am im happy with the weight iv lost and will keep on loesing it
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Posted 9/9/12
most people on cr are girls... well, according to one of the polls. it could be inaccurate though.
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Posted 9/9/12

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most people on cr are girls... well, according to one of the polls. it could be inaccurate though.


lol iv met some nice woman on here
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Posted 9/9/12
Most girls are willing to check out a guys interests when shes into him. so maybe you should just look into finding a girl you like to be around and get her into these things.
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Posted 9/9/12

erialolita wrote:

Take a Japanese language class in College, that is where I meet a lot of anime/manga girls that I became good friends with.


oh my god, that is actually a really good idea. girls AND guys who like anime would be there...
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Posted 9/9/12

evilsiren wrote:

Most girls are willing to check out a guys interests when shes into him. so maybe you should just look into finding a girl you like to be around and get her into these things.


I'm trying lol if they don't have the same intrests. I'm not going to jjust look over her. I met some women. At D*C who liked different things than I do and we had some pretty good conversations
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Posted 9/9/12
well im almost thirty and there a lot of women who like it here in Chicago we have our own convention in rosemont and for a while i been going there that where i had my first date with m husband me in the movie gown for utena (handmade) him as kisiske sensi from naruto.(with the book) love at first sight. it not you it that your not looking for those women in clubs your looking for them on forums and facebook conventions geek dateing services. she there she hot and she looking for you. She cant tell her current boyfriend about the latest claymore titles because he doesn't know what the hell she talking about. when you stop worring she will come dressed in a school uniform smiling. trust me it took me a while to find a guy who likes games and anime and got his shit together but i did and so can you picture of husband at con with his stuff (it out there keep looking)
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Posted 9/9/12

foxybrownjr wrote:

well im almost thirty and there a lot of women who like it here in Chicago we have our own convention in rosemont and for a while i been going there that where i had my first date with m husband me in the movie gown for utena (handmade) him as kisiske sensi from naruto.(with the book) love at first sight. it not you it that your not looking for those women in clubs your looking for them on forums and facebook conventions geek dateing services. she there she hot and she looking for you. She cant tell her current boyfriend about the latest claymore titles because he doesn't know what the hell she talking about. when you stop worring she will come dressed in a school uniform smiling. trust me it took me a while to find a guy who likes games and anime and got his shit together but i did and so can you picture of husband at con with his stuff (it out there keep looking)


Thanks I will and your story is awesome
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Out of curiosity man, do you have some guy friends who are into anime and games? And do they have the same problems you do in finding a girlfriend who are into those things?
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Posted 9/9/12

Winterfells wrote:

Out of curiosity man, do you have some guy friends who are into anime and games? And do they have the same problems you do in finding a girlfriend who are into those things?


Yeah I do but they don't watch anime. Well 1 does. They play games but not very often and no their single haven't really hung out much I quit doing something that they still do why?
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Posted 9/9/12

Pyralis1 wrote:




In another post I tried to clarify my enthusiasm a bit. This post.

The OP seems to be looking for a girl friend but he doesn't seem to have any female friends at all. I'm not saying lock yourself in the room. Saying things like that when there aren't any females in your life make it seem as though you are looking for the wrong reasons. If you just want a gf for the sake of having one then you are wasting everyone's time....

Are you saying you are not happy with your current life and a gf is the only thing that can make it better?

I am a fairly strict Christian (in modern day terms), and we are not suppose to look for significant others. (Christian dating sites are a terrible existence.) I didn't feel like going into that in this forum as the OP didn't mention it in his question. In your case, do you have female friends either? Your focus should be on completing tasks and preparing yourself for the day you do meet your match. If you don't even know what you want how would you know you haven't seen her already?

I am into anime and games.... Does that mean you will date me?

Please tell me that sounds silly. I know we all want more than that from a significant other.

I truly believe that anyone can be in a relationship with anyone else. There are no perfect matches, only better ones. I have decided not to date until I have done all that I can on my own, but that does not mean I won't have any male friends to play 2K with. I simply refuse to buy an Xbox so I have to have male friends....Since I realized these games are available on pc, that may be changing as well.

I'm just saying, if you aren't happy with your life a significant other won't make a bit of difference. The result would only be one person attempting to change the other and both parties being unhappy.

I hope I am not sounding arrogant or anything. I am curious though, what have you been doing the last ten years?
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eternalchaos4200 wrote:

Yeah I do but they don't watch anime. Well 1 does. They play games but not very often and no their single haven't really hung out much I quit doing something that they still do why?


I'm asking because if you have a friend who did manage to get a girlfriend who enjoys anime and games, it's worth talking to him and getting his take on it. Perhaps he could recommend a few hangout spots in your area that will improve your chances of finding a like-minded girl. Maybe his girlfriend has friends she can introduce to you. It doesn't hurt to ask.

Also, it proves that your friend was still able to find a girl who has your niche hobbies, no matter how "out of the way" your town is. I walked into Gamestop last week to get an extra controller and about 1/3 of the customers were female. A few days ago I went into a Best Buy and there were quite a lot of tech-savvy, electronics nerd girls.

Don't take this the wrong way, because I'm not saying it to hurt you man. But if you mostly go outside your house to run errands, go to the gym, and a convention every year or so, then that's hurting your chances of finding a girlfriend. If I relied on a once-a-year occasion, filling up on gas, and working out at the gym to meet and pick-up women, I wouldn't pick up many, if any at all! You get what I'm saying?

Staying inside to enjoy your games and anime is great, I'm not knocking your hobbies. But to meet girls and get a girlfriend, more times than not you have to be outside, out there, a lot, and create your own opportunities. Whether it's walking in the park, dropping by a games or book store, even if it's a small town in the middle of nowhere.
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