Hey buddy, just make yourself comfortable and be you. Go at your pace. If you feel lacking in physical aspects then you know more than anyone the ideal image you want to be.

The type of girl you're looking for is definitely out there. In fact, you're at a website(crunchyroll) that attracts females with the same interest as you. You will have to date the girls to start knowing them and sometimes it could be you who introduce them to a new hobby or interest.

So, any luck eternalchaos?

Was just listening to music and I got a brilliant idea! Take guitar lessons, music is fun to do, girls like it and you get to meet new people!

sadly no apparently i can get a job but not a ladie im still trying tho and still going to the gym everyday :(

i have met alot of nice women on here but their always taken or just not intrested

Hey man, that's progress!

Getting a job and getting some money in your pocket is going to help boost your confidence, independence, and feeling of security. It'll definitely open up more financial opportunities for you in terms of gf-searching. More money to spend on dates, traveling to anime/game cons, etc.

Keep up with the workouts at the gym. Working out will not only help you look more fit and attractive, it helps relieve tension and stress.

yeah its in sales so that will also help me greatly in that department

I know a few and let me say.. They're in it hardcore man you wouldn't want to mess with them!

ohh i would

maybe not for you but in general to anything you would talk about with to someone if they happen to have different views on something. if that last part doesnt apply to you cut it out and follow everything else lol

Go to an anime convention!

Atlanta:
http://www.awa-con.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anime_Weekend_Atlanta

Just be yourself. All you need to do is look and you'll find what you want.

i really wanted to go but i cant since i started work and dont really have the money but i am going to try my best to go to MoMo con on march

I have the exact opposite problem where I live >__< I can't find any guys that like manga or anime. They don't want to be seen even the slightest bit nerdy, all they want do is show off their "swag" of as I call it "inner stupidity" >__>

UPDATE:

So I actually went on a date with this guy. (Which I NEVER do but this forum kinda inspired to be more opened) So we texted for a few days and decided to go out on Friday night. He wanted to talk over the phone I didn't really have time so we mostly texted (which I normally hate texting but oh well...)

At first I got scared because I thought this guy was a NARUTARD. Literally, we were texting about Naruto - the anime, manga, characters, idiosyncratic behaviors of characters, etc. At first I was thinking: Hmmm okay, well we met through Naruto so he's probably just looking for a common topic to break the ice...

But he wouldn't stop.

Every day we texted and it was still about Naruto. At first I thought it was cute but then after awhile I got kinda bored. But he also decided on where we should eat and whatnot (and I don't mind letting the guy take initiative at all) so I promised myself I'd only go on this one date and if this guy is still Narutarding then I'll leave it at that.


FRIDAY COMES AROUND.

He chose a ramen place. It was called "Naruto Ramen" in Manhattan.

.................................................

But then I lol'd because I mean - we did have a connection through Naruto. He even went as far as find a ramen place (that really did remind me of the Ichiraku Ramen Shop in Naruto) so I went for it.

And he shaved his hair! D:

So we sat and he ordered some sort of fried rice and I ordered the ramen. It was his first time trying this place and he doesn't like Ramen because it has too much sodium. I went for it even though I didn't really try real authentic ramen before. (It was pretty awesome! HUGE PORTION HOLY POOPSTICLES!) And I find out that he's a picky eater.

So I find out that this guy actually has a life - Former EMT who's studying for his Medics certification. We just talked about anime, school, miscellaneous stuff... etc. I was so relaxed during the date (probably because I was just treating it as if hanging out with a new friend) that I was probably a little rude/honest but he didn't mind me being so. I was basically straightforward with him and he opened up to me - more than what he initially wanted to do.



So basically - date ended well. He wanted to go to another date and I agreed. Time-wise though we're screwed because he works and so do I. But he still texts me and he has his cute moments. lol and now it's beyond Naruto.


MORALS OF THE STORY:

1. BE BRAVE! Not trying is 100% failure.
2. DO NOT BE A NARUTARD!!!! IT IS NOT AN ATTRACTIVE QUALITY~~~! This guy was lucky because I had patience. But there are more things in life than Naruto (LIKE CLANNAD: AFTER STORY! XD) but please don't only talk about Naruto.
3. Be romantic! Don't tell the chick "OH I LOVE YOU" but I mean follow-through with the conversation you have. This guy remembered A LOT of what we said and we both make inside jokes about it now. He remembers that I LOVE Hello Kitty so when he saw it he texted me that it reminded him of me. I was like Awwwww.....
4. HAVE PATIENCE! I clearly told this guy that I was looking more for a friend but that I would go out with him on another date. I think this guy fell for me more than I did him (and it looks like it's going to stay this way - it's not his fault though I just have issues I need to work out... and I'm not really attracted to him otherwise). But in any relationship - it takes TIME to develop. Just like friendships aren't formed after one meeting.
5. FRIENDS ARE GREAT!! Even if the girl isn't looking for a boyfriend and/or doesn't like you that way - don't give her up. You never know - maybe she will like you later OR she can introduce you to someone else. Or she might just be the kind of friend you're looking for. Maybe she can be that other person you'd like to share your anime/gaming interests with.

LOL same here!

But I gotta admit - I have cool swag. and I've seen some also.