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Finding a woman/man that's into Anime/Video-games
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Posted 10/24/12 , edited 10/24/12

otsohiru wrote:


eternalchaos4200 wrote:


otsohiru wrote:


eternalchaos4200 wrote:


otsohiru wrote:


Winterfells wrote:

^

Yeah, I might look into taking down that poster if I was inviting a girl over to my place and showing her my room.

Purple-haired anime chick squeezing a sword between her tits with blood on her face might be a bit much.



^ I'd take the dudes advice. The guy is probably the right guy to be listening to (nohomo)


im not looking for a woman that wont except me for who i am its a wallscroll so what im not going to hide it for the sake of seeming normal casue you know what im not normal and thats fine with me


Do you fart at the start of the relationship? It's all about easing it in! I'm all for being 100% yourself! Just got to think a little bit:)




Do you fart at the start of the relationship? huh what do you mean


Um.. Lemme see! It's like poker! Don't twist until you know your hand! The girl may not like anime but may like you? See if the girl is groovy enough before you show her the phsycadelic scrolls of life. Could always convert her into liking it!


edit - I suck as using forum quotes..


JUST WTF are you talking about LOL
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He's saying that if instead of showing all of your cards, you show her a bit of you, then a bit more, instead of BAM THIS IS ME and scare her away..
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deejayvee wrote:

He's saying that if instead of showing all of your cards, you show her a bit of you, then a bit more, instead of BAM THIS IS ME and scare her away..


Yes. That! Take your time and don't rush it all.
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otsohiru wrote:

Um.. Lemme see! It's like poker! Don't twist until you know your hand! The girl may not like anime but may like you? See if the girl is groovy enough before you show her the phsycadelic scrolls of life. Could always convert her into liking it!


edit - I suck as using forum quotes..


I don't think he gets it. I think what we have here is a serious inability to understand social cues, including understanding the feelings of other people. If you can't understand that a bloodied up anime girl with a sword being shoved between her breasts and into her crotch hanging in your bedroom might be offputting to a potential lady friend, I don't know what to say to that.

Good luck…
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Their are plenty of women out their that love anime . Depending on your age group id say look around for groups that hold gatherings on the weekends. I cant tell you how many females i have flinged with at Magic the gathering tournaments as well as other card games.
You don't have to play to meet these girls i never did.

There is someone out there for everyone you can sit at home in front of your computer and expect to find a girlfriend you need to be active and show interests in multiple of things its not a healthy habit to sit at home and watch anime all day, even if you are underage and don't have a job. These tendencies can form Social disorders among many other things.
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LADIES!? WHERE?!

>w>..... <w<....

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have you tried a book store that sells manga... i mean i may live in Illinois, but in college we started an anime club and it was predominately female. Honestly, I would try looking for manga at a bookstore and any of or around your age female....talk to whats the worst that happens? friend zone? if you find one...they know others trust me.
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That's a pretty rare scenario..usually gamer girls are girls who are influenced by their partner so its hard to find one that's single. They also have reasonable preferences but chances are gamer gals are hot. Anime gals are too broad to generalize and can be seen almost anywhere.
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lol thats what a seako is


Any girl that stays with you after seeing that poster is most likely a lesbian.
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eternalchaos4200 wrote:



lol thats what a seako is


Any girl that stays with you after seeing that poster is most likely a lesbian.


That's a pretty big assumption
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To be honest it's my dream to date with a woman that's into anime and video games =)
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Don't be naive.

Sure, most people want someone to "love them for who they truly are" (whatever that may mean) but there is such a thing as privacy in every relationship. No one will or can truly know every aspect of you, especially when you're still in the early courtship phase.

Let's face it, for the sake of proper etiquette, almost all of us behave differently in our own homes behind walls and closed doors compared to how we behave in public in front of other people (friends, coworkers, teachers, students, dates). Sometimes, at home I might get lazy and just pick up chicken with my fingers and eat it. Am I going to behave like that if I'm on a dinner date with a girl? I might pick my teeth with my fingers after I'm done eating while I sit on my couch, but I'm not going to be doing that in the break room at lunch. I like watching porn, but is it a good idea for me to show a girl my porn collection on a first date? (Well, it depends on how freaky she is, but normally this isn't a good idea)

Look, I'm not trying to tear you down man. I'm trying to build you up and give you legitimately good advice. Here is what I've seen so far.

1. You really want to find a cool girl to date and have fun with in your life.

2. Your lack of experience gives you a somewhat naive, romanticized, and idealistic expectation of a relationship.

3. Your current ways has an established track record of not allowing you to consistently meet women, and not attracting their interest. Yet you stubbornly insist on keeping your old habits and not following most helpful changes posters in this thread have suggested.

4. You seem to have a case of what I call the "Picky Beginner." What I think you should be doing is to start off slow, with lower expectations and standards and slowly work your way up, building your confidence. Right now what you're asking for in a potential girlfriend...she would have to be a saint. Friendly, cool, laid-back, happens to be interested in the exact interests that you have, plays video games, understands anime culture, accepts you for who you are. I mean, whoa man, goddamn! That's a lot of pressure to put on someone, why not just start off seeing a girl who just likes you? I see a lot of traits you list off that you want, but what can you offer in return? If you want the whole package you've got to offer her the whole package (no not that package).

5. Truth be told, most girls I've met (not including the ones who are anime fans) would be kind of turned off by that provocative anime poster in your room...it just comes off as incredibly superficial. Also most girls would just think it's really kinky and weird fetish for an anime girl in ripped clothing holding a katana between her tits with blood on her face. They won't think it's artistic, they'll just find it sleazy.

Also, it will also make seem kind of hypocritical when you say you don't really care about how a person looks on the outside, how they dress, how hot they are, etc. and you happen to have a softcore poster on your wall of an anime chick with size F tits, and a perfect body.

There is just a certain "etiquette" you follow when you first start dating someone, and not revealing too much too quickly, because most people would get scared off. Guys included.

Now you'll probably disagree with me, but this has been my experience so far. Take it how you will.
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Winterfells wrote:

Don't be naive.

Sure, most people want someone to "love them for who they truly are" (whatever that may mean) but there is such a thing as privacy in every relationship. No one will or can truly know every aspect of you, especially when you're still in the early courtship phase.

Let's face it, for the sake of proper etiquette, almost all of us behave differently in our own homes behind walls and closed doors compared to how we behave in public in front of other people (friends, coworkers, teachers, students, dates). Sometimes, at home I might get lazy and just pick up chicken with my fingers and eat it. Am I going to behave like that if I'm on a dinner date with a girl? I might pick my teeth with my fingers after I'm done eating while I sit on my couch, but I'm not going to be doing that in the break room at lunch. I like watching porn, but is it a good idea for me to show a girl my porn collection on a first date? (Well, it depends on how freaky she is, but normally this isn't a good idea)

Look, I'm not trying to tear you down man. I'm trying to build you up and give you legitimately good advice. Here is what I've seen so far.

1. You really want to find a cool girl to date and have fun with in your life.

2. Your lack of experience gives you a somewhat naive, romanticized, and idealistic expectation of a relationship.

3. Your current ways has an established track record of not allowing you to consistently meet women, and not attracting their interest. Yet you stubbornly insist on keeping your old habits and not following most helpful changes posters in this thread have suggested.

4. You seem to have a case of what I call the "Picky Beginner." What I think you should be doing is to start off slow, with lower expectations and standards and slowly work your way up, building your confidence. Right now what you're asking for in a potential girlfriend...she would have to be a saint. Friendly, cool, laid-back, happens to be interested in the exact interests that you have, plays video games, understands anime culture, accepts you for who you are. I mean, whoa man, goddamn! That's a lot of pressure to put on someone, why not just start off seeing a girl who just likes you? I see a lot of traits you list off that you want, but what can you offer in return? If you want the whole package you've got to offer her the whole package (no not that package).

5. Truth be told, most girls I've met (not including the ones who are anime fans) would be kind of turned off by that provocative anime poster in your room...it just comes off as incredibly superficial. Also most girls would just think it's really kinky and weird fetish for an anime girl in ripped clothing holding a katana between her tits with blood on her face. They won't think it's artistic, they'll just find it sleazy.

Also, it will also make seem kind of hypocritical when you say you don't really care about how a person looks on the outside, how they dress, how hot they are, etc. and you happen to have a softcore poster on your wall of an anime chick with size F tits, and a perfect body.

There is just a certain "etiquette" you follow when you first start dating someone, and not revealing too much too quickly, because most people would get scared off. Guys included.

Now you'll probably disagree with me, but this has been my experience so far. Take it how you will.





ill take my chances with what im doing but thanks for the advice like i said its a wallscroll if they dont like it then thats their problem and i dont really care that much about looks either just as long as their not bigger than me because iv been working my ass off to loose weight so in some sense i kinda care what they look like as far as weight goes boobs ass none of that matters honestly it dont and i cant help seako has big tits and a nice body thats just how the poster was made
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Two words:

Crunchy-Roll
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1mirg wrote:

Two words:

Crunchy-Roll


what about crunchy roll
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