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Your dream guy or girl
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Posted 9/30/12

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An awesome gal who's well-rounded in many different areas.

Above-average in looks, intelligence, athleticism, morality, etc.

That's about where I'll stop...wouldn't want to turn this thread into Rated-R. :)



yeah, this pretty much sums it up for me, but in guy form. although, i have to be honest with myself~ even if i found someone that perfect, why would they want to be with me? they wouldn't... >_> mm the truth hurts...
Posted 9/30/12
A dream boy...the only thing they would have to be my dream boy is to let me "snuggle" with them after I've read or watched some CreepyPasta. They also gotta like scary stuff. It would be moar fun that way. Misery loves company!
Gladly, my awesome egotistic boyfriend is halfway there! Hahaha
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It`s Zamoha.
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Posted 9/30/12

iammmmee wrote:


yeah, this pretty much sums it up for me, but in guy form. although, i have to be honest with myself~ even if i found someone that perfect, why would they want to be with me? they wouldn't... >_> mm the truth hurts...


That's just being silly, and pessimistic. There are plenty of reasons why someone would want to be with you. It doesn't matter how you view your shortcomings, but there are people out there who won't see it as such, and can accept them.

If you cannot love yourself, it will make it harder for others to love you.
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Posted 9/30/12

Winterfells wrote:


iammmmee wrote:


yeah, this pretty much sums it up for me, but in guy form. although, i have to be honest with myself~ even if i found someone that perfect, why would they want to be with me? they wouldn't... >_> mm the truth hurts...


That's just being silly, and pessimistic. There are plenty of reasons why someone would want to be with you. It doesn't matter how you view your shortcomings, but there are people out there who won't see it as such, and can accept them.

If you cannot love yourself, it will make it harder for others to love you.


well i guess im in for a hard life then :P
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Posted 9/30/12
I have met him, I'm just waiting for him to come back to me.
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Posted 9/30/12
dream guy:
someone i can talk all my thoughts to
warm to hug
comfy
makes me happy
knows my thoughts without me having to tel them
wide shoulders (hotttttt)
dont mind if his not good good looking
smarter than me (important!!!)
sporty
cute smile
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My dream girl. Asian, but also the same asian as me. Pretty. Likes the shows, anime, stuff I like. Book smart, hard working. Has that spark when I first met her. Doesn't argue with me when I'm right, but does when I'm wrong. Long black hair with lighter complexion and soft skin. Around 5'1 to 5'5. Big on family, and social like me. Geeky yet fun. Willing to stay inside and watch anime.

You would think if I met this girl I'd marry her right? Wrong. I did meet her. On paper she was my dream girl. There was definite physical chemistry, we were always at each other, everything on paper worked. My family, friends loved her. She loved me. I loved her.

But after a few months you start doing this thing where... because you are both so similar... there is nothing new about it. She loved me through to the end. I lost the spark after about 6 months.

The girl I'm with now for the last year and a half? The one I'm planning to one day marry? Well she's probably 60% what I ever said I wanted on paper. But that 40% difference? Those things I never wanted to do like go hiking, snowboarding, rock climbing.... shopping for hours on end (which I still hate) but which we compromise on?

What I discovered is this. My dream girl. The one on paper I always wanted, is not the one I wanted to stay with. I realized in the end I needed a girl that had her own likes, dislikes, some similar to mine, some different, so that i could explore doing things I would have never done in the past. My dream girl is the one that I realized pushes me to explore new things, and not necessary be hung up on old dreams, but finding new ones. My dream girl is now the one that pushes me to find the best me I can be and having fun the whole way.

Yes I get this thread is all about "traits". But for everyone reading this thread, I wouldn't get hung up on finding that perfect girl based upon a bunch of stuff on paper. Because sometimes you never know what you really wanted until she somehow winds up with you.
Posted 10/1/12
He'll come when I'm not looking.
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Posted 10/1/12
emma stone....for now
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