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Posted 9/5/12
Does anyone ever feel like no matter what they'll do they will always be lonely? Like I go out, meet people and work - but I spend more time by myself than I want too and I can't really reach out for other people. So emotionally I feel stilted and like a recluse. Still using anime as an escape since I was 12. Life is all a bit confusing to me
Posted 9/5/12
Yeah, at this very moment im at my own apartment thinking that i didint get to share my summer with no-one.

everybody wants to be alone but no-one tolerates isolation.
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Posted 9/5/12
Have you ever TRIED to meet people outside of your room? (Moreso than you already do)
Posted 9/5/12
I like being alone most of the time.
Then I don't have to worry about being judged.
God, years of being bullied are great huh?
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lorddisick wrote:

I like being alone most of the time.
Then I don't have to worry about being judged.
God, years of being bullied are great huh?


Makes you lose some sense in humanity.
Posted 9/5/12
Eh.
Sorta.
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Posted 9/5/12
I like flying solo personally. No depression or any of this moodiness crap... just like my solitude half the time.
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I used to think that way, but I have friends that I 'know' will be lifelong friends. You just have to be confident, reach out to other people and find the one's that you feel the most connection with. The one's that don't put the effort in for you, simply don't for them. You'll know when you find the people who you know will be your close friends, you can emotionally be at ease, talk about anything (particularly deep problems) and smile/laugh all the time.

If you want something, don't be afraid to grab it. Longer you wait, the more you'll be afraid.
Oh, some personal information. I used be a mute when I was young, due to that I didn't have a lot of friends growing up. I became much stronger. Now? I have a whole bunch that I can hang around with. In fact, i'm having a huge meet up with 17 of my friends on Saturday.
We're responsible of course, no drinking, sex and stuff. Lmao
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Posted 9/5/12
Yeah, I pretty much go clubbing all the time. Chat to everyone and always try to meet people - like an example is the gym today. But then, all it ever really is are knowing people as acquaintances - what I mean is, there's no one I'm truly close to emotionally. At the same time, I don't think I can trust people too :/

Lorddisick: that suckkkks...
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No offense, but you're a very sad person, and to me it seems like you're trying to post topics about how bad your life is..
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I mean, not trusting people is a part of growing up... I thought everybody just reached that point lol. Come on.
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Haha no sex/drinking/'stuff' at a party? It isn't a party till someone runs through a glass door ;)

I get where you're coming from dude. Reaching out to people has gotten harder for me recently... Ever since I turned 18 I've been trying to build relationships with people and it's all been getting a bit to much trouble because of past experiences with 'friends' that turned out to be arseholes. I do have some people but due to my ridiculous life I can't help feeling I'll lose them and at the same time I'm pushing them away because I can't reach out to them so i get I have to change that haha :L
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When you realize the world doesn't really care about problems you've had in your life, you stop being sad and you just go out and do things.. Meeting people is one of them, if you're always sad and thinking about how crap things HAVE been, then you'll never be able to move forward and see how good things COULD be..
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Posted 9/5/12
Yeah I've gotten used to it.
Whenever I get invited to go out I usually decline. I always get tired and worn out after talking and socializing with people after about an hour or two. I enjoy alone time.
Posted 9/5/12

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Haha no sex/drinking/'stuff' at a party? It isn't a party till someone runs through a glass door ;)

I get where you're coming from dude. Reaching out to people has gotten harder for me recently... Ever since I turned 18 I've been trying to build relationships with people and it's all been getting a bit to much trouble because of past experiences with 'friends' that turned out to be arseholes. I do have some people but due to my ridiculous life I can't help feeling I'll lose them and at the same time I'm pushing them away because I can't reach out to them so i get I have to change that haha :L


The quote is in my profile but i copy it here.

Friendship… is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything. -Muhammad Ali


Its probably just good that you lose contact with ur friends thats are just assholes and are there only to share your happines but are not there when experience misery.

Its beutiful thing to share experiences of joy with people and its equally beautiful to share ones misery.
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