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Post Reply WOMEN AND GIRLS why are you so hard on your self when it comes to the way you view your body?
Posted 10/7/12

marcel20 wrote:


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I don't understand what you guys want girls to be like. It's who they are after all. Would you rather be stuck with a narcissist or a low self-esteemed girl? To me either way, she is still a person with emotions, so it doesn't matter.


A lady who is confident would be preferred. Also a person who is KINDA arrogant can be brought down to earth, while someone with low self-esteem can be uplifted by another, but a narcissist is on a totally different level and probably needs help from a professional to see reality.


Confident, huh? I'd find that difficult that all you would want is a legitimate confident lady. In some ways, there will always be ups and downs where the lady is not confident. Not only is it for women, but for men as well. The rest, I can agree on. But, like I have mentioned, it shouldn't matter how it is because in the end, she is still a person.
Posted 10/7/12

marcel20 wrote:

but a narcissist is on a totally different level and probably needs help from a professional to see reality.


I'd rather seek help from my mirror.
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Posted 10/7/12
I personally am not hard on myself when it comes to looks and whatnot, I could careless what others think of me, the only thing I care about is winning in races. In that aspect I am hard on my body because I excercise everyday, taking minimal time to nurse any injuries I may get.
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Posted 10/7/12 , edited 10/8/12

28509149 wrote:

Confident, huh? I'd find that difficult that all you would want is a legitimate confident lady. In some ways, there will always be ups and downs where the lady is not confident. Not only is it for women, but for men as well. The rest, I can agree on. But, like I have mentioned, it shouldn't matter how it is because in the end, she is still a person.


I agree, there are ups and downs and yes men go through it too...I myself sometimes. It isn't just a woman's thing, men can post about themselves also...there are a few who replied on here it is welcomed.
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Posted 10/8/12


ahh man that is funny.
Posted 10/8/12

marcel20 wrote:


28509149 wrote:

Confident, huh? I'd find that difficult that all you would want is a legitimate confident lady. In some ways, there will always be ups and downs where the lady is not confident. Not only is it for women, but for men as well. The rest, I can agree on. But, like I have mentioned, it shouldn't matter how it is because in the end, she is still a person.


I agree, there are ups and downs and yes men go through it too...I myself sometimes. It isn't just a woman's thing, men can post about themselves also...there are a few who replied on here it is welcomed.


Great to hear.
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Posted 10/10/12
I think it's important to take good care of your body. Definitely not the most important thing, but it matters. I don't mean here girls going to beach in full make-up, getting botox every other month at the age of 30, or starving themselves to look like a cloth-hanger. Healthy body always looks beautiful, the body-type doesn't matter as much, and pleasing people's visual senses puts them in better mood
Aside from the body. I noticed that how I act often unconsciously depends on how I take care of myself that day. If I walk all day in old jeans and t-shirts I tend to just bum my day away on insignificant things. My roommate has that too
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Posted 10/11/12
I don't look awesome for others, I look awesome for myself. I used to not leave the house until I looked 100% awesome, now I can leave the house looking 89% awesome
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Posted 10/12/12

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I don't look awesome for others, I look awesome for myself. I used to not leave the house until I looked 100% awesome, now I can leave the house looking 89% awesome :D


Thats awesome
Posted 10/12/12
when a woman asks you if she looks fat, always say yes. It's the smart-ass answer and she will just ignore you and go back to looking in the mirror. say no and she willl think you are lying to be nice. true story. the mind of a woman is ass backwards.
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Posted 10/25/12

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when a woman asks you if she looks fat, always say yes. It's the smart-ass answer and she will just ignore you and go back to looking in the mirror. say no and she willl think you are lying to be nice. true story. the mind of a woman is ass backwards.


hmmm... I haven't heard that one before, but I think it might not happen like that after the saying shes fat part.
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Posted 10/25/12
women consantly compare themselves to each other, plus with what you see well everywhere its hard not to find something wrong with yourself no matter how miniscule.
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Posted 10/25/12

marcel20 wrote:

As a guy I see women on tv shows, in real life and even on crunchyroll forum post saying how their too tall or short, or hate their legs, thighs, feet, hips and the list goes on and on down to every last deatailed part of their body's. I was dating a girl who was a model, nothing wrong with her at all from where I was looking, but she told me that she is ashamed of her toes and I asked why and she replied "their too fat" and no matter what I said she still thought that her toes were fat and they realy realy weren't .

Ladies no matter how you think you look a guy will find something sexy about you and THATS IS ALL THAT WE NEED to be attracted to you....I know media and magizines hold you to unfair standards of Beauty, but if guys were held to such a thing the magizine company's and media wouldn't make any money due to the fact that we don't realy give a damn what they think so why can't it be that way for you?,even if we tell you your beautiful?? I am in no way trying to beat you down, but I just want you to know that every one of you are beautiful in some way to some guy....and that he will be happy with just you and all of you even your so-called fat toes so believe in YOUR own beauty and back it up with confidence :)



claps* ^ ^b great speech! xD
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