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Last Chance for Love?
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Posted 9/18/12
1) It's the last year of highschool. Everyone's going to be parting ways in a few monthes. You'll probably only see max 5 of them again.. And there's this cute person you've liked for years, you could even say you "love". Everyone is sick of your mood swings because this person only talks to you via IM...

and this year, that person just so happens to sit IN YO FACE in a class... You feel like you can't live without this person in your life, but it seems like this person is just genuinely nice, and does not have any special feelings towards you... as about 40 people know you are head over heels...

Maybe that person just doesn't want to call you out and embarrass you, as (s)he probably knows... (but then again those 40 people could happen to be legit secret keepers,lol) But you still can't forget all the nice things that person has experienced with you...

This is your last chance.

What would you do?








**Was just wondering since probably 99% of single high school seniors are thinking about this... well, probably just girls. Well.. Maybe just me... fml.
And ahaa don't answer with that "focus on your studies" "You only live life after highschool, there will be more opportunities and choices" and "friendships are more important" crap~
I don't want to leave without knowing me and him could have been together at some point, as he's a shy guy, but I also don't want to take a chance and hurt my pride.



*****lol, I didn't want this post to be so specific, my bad, but once I start ranting, I can't really stop... I just want legit opinions, and on the way share your experiences, as I know a ton of you guys are experienced Maybe I'll learn a thing or two... I've just gotten too much of the same advice from friends... 1) confess and 2) forget about it

but just saying... I haven't directly told him in my 4 years of liking him... so... I doubt I'll confess...




Lock if duplicate. teehee. Arugh... I'm embarrassed.
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Go for it, if it's what you want, why not?
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Posted 9/18/12

deejayvee wrote:

Go for it, if it's what you want, why not?


Cause he probably doesn't have feelings for me -____________-
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So? The worst he can say is no, and he'll leave, and you can move on. If he does have feelings for you, then maybe you'll see him again, other wise you'll just regret it.
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Posted 9/18/12

deejayvee wrote:

So? The worst he can say is no, and he'll leave, and you can move on. If he does have feelings for you, then maybe you'll see him again, other wise you'll just regret it.


hahaha but the problem is... highschool students are very prone to gossiping... I'll totally die if everyone knows I liked him and he doesn't like me, thus the worse for me isn't a "no" . It's my image, which I know doesn't matter -.- but still...
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Let me get this straight. You're going to give up a chance, on something you might not get a chance at again, because people talk about you?


Who cares, it's your life, you shouldn't let someone else' petty chat steer you away from what it is you want.
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Posted 9/18/12

deejayvee wrote:

Let me get this straight. You're going to give up a chance, on something you might not get a chance at again, because people talk about you?


Who cares, it's your life, you shouldn't let someone else' petty chat steer you away from what it is you want.


haha he's not the type to do anything even if I tried... I don't know what to do after... I don't want to make things awkward
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It's only awkward if you let it be awkward. Just relax and talk as you normally would, I've been rejected a few times, it sucks, but it's better then not trying and letting opportunities pass by.
Posted 9/18/12
If things get awkward darling, then you two aren't meant to be.

That said, I think I should go ask out my crush even while he's treating me like a total stranger and seems to hate me with a passion.

Why? Because like the previous person said, the most he could do was say no. And talk about it to his mates and boast and get his girl frands to gather around and point fingers at me while I'm walking past. Whatever. It'd ruin a reputation, but ... what reputation? I don't think I have one.
And yeah, the next time I meet him, it'd just be awkward.

So, thanks people.

YOU ROCK..

AND GOOD LUCK DARLING! Don't worry, just ask him out. (Y) Keep it hush hush...

If rumours spill, you know it was him doing it and not you as long as you don't go clucking to your friends about it ^^"
And that'd mean he isn't worth your time.

THERE.
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Please, for the love of all that is solid, just do it. Take it from someone who was in the same position as you several years back. There's nothing worse than watching someone you love slip away and disappear. You'll wish with all your bleeding heart that you'd said something when you had the chance. I cannot stress that enough. Love isn't something you can leave to chance and fate, because those two things will screw you over 100 percent of the time. You've got to punch love in the face, beat it into submission, and never give it a chance to catch its breath.
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Oh crap, I have the same problem. XD Haha, he's also a shy type and my friends keep on telling me go for it. And I will advice the same thing to you because your LOVE for him will be a total waste. WHAT IF HE LIKES YOU BACK? Choices have sacrifices. And you have to sacrifice your pride (as a woman) to say what you feel. Rather than forgetting him or keeping this as a secret to yourself forever and regret this for the rest of your life. Remember, for the past 4 years you've been waiting for something and nothing ever happens. So now, it's not the time to wait. Sometimes waiting is not enough. What if your destined together? And the only thing that could make it happen is that when you confess your love to him. Don't think about what would other people says. At least you've given your shot and he was informed of what you feels towards him. But if you're really shy, pm him. Lol
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Posted 9/18/12
like the famous philosopher Nike once said: just do it
who cares if ppl gossip this stuff happens all the time it will be dust in the wind by the end of the week
if it gets awkward then it was not meant to be.. but least you gave it a shot
if you dont confess your "love" you might as well add him to your top 5 facebook ppl who i stalk list...because you gonna keep looking at his picture thinking man i should of told him..for a long time
YOLO!!!
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Haha...Yeah, just YOLO!

Do it, gangsta, thug life, swagg!!!

Leave high school with NO REGRETS!!

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It'll be an experience.
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Posted 9/18/12 , edited 9/18/12
Ah, young love.

Try it if you believe you're brave enough, but remember, those 4 years in highschool are but a fleeting dream; it's what you do post highschool in life that really counts.
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