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How to get over someone who hates you?
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Posted 9/23/12
My question is if that person so full of hate why were you around them in the first place?
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Posted 9/23/12
say gooodbye an move on
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What is there to possibly "get over"? If they dislike like me, it's their loss. Got nothing to do with me.
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Easy ...you gather all the courage you can muster and confront them about this issue. And make sure you are extremely blunt so no confusion can arise from what you said. This will either show you they dislike you over something petty or they may ignore you, which isn't worth your time. Or it may possibly open up an issue you were not aware of and you both can work things out.

either way....concentrate on yourself.

Hope this helps

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Usually I consider patience, perseverance, calmness. and being totally humbled by the firestorm of glaring hatred directed at me by the
hater...
If that fails to work, then I simply claw their eyes out, zip up on the rooftop and stuff their body down a chimney....

end of story..
Posted 9/23/12
Kill them with kindness.
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What's the point of thinking dearly about someone who 'hates' you? It's not worth it at all. Though your mind tells you it will be, that's just infatuation screwing with your mind and giving you hope.

Eat some chocolate, roll on the floor, then call your friends to hang out. It'll take some time to forget about the situation.
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I find if hard to care if someone I don't know hates me, if its someone I know and have a relationship with its different and ill make it my best effort to set things straight.
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Posted 9/24/12
Just walk away, end of story.
Posted 9/24/12
That's easy and I've done this many times....
MOVE ON...

In fact he/she doesn't deserve you...
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I've never fallen for anyone who hated me per se... if you've gone that far to make them hate you, you've hit rock bottom man. It's done. Get over them, ignore them, and come back again in a year. Who knows? Things may change.
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Posted 9/24/12
If someone hates you with no explanation, ask them once whats wrong and if you get ignored. Move on.
Posted 9/26/12

-Paul- wrote:

If someone hates you with no explanation, ask them once whats wrong and if you get ignored. Move on.


Correct just ask them
Posted 9/26/12

justinitsu wrote:

Let go of them or convince them other wise.


Him and his friends come to my street at night,
They overheard me writing a finished copy of a song about how stupid he is,
And then they started speaking really loudly at night.

Still going on for a week

But yesterday night, I serenaded him with love songs...
Just to cool things down.

But he is so stubborn and hard to convince.

He goes "she's not hot". "She's not my friend." "She's a bitch"
.......

Poor guy.

I think I should give up.
Posted 9/26/12

LynnTerra wrote:


CandyPopShop wrote:

I was just curious.

Imagine, a situation where you love someone, but they hate you.
And you don't understand why.

Yet it's so hard to get over them quickly... even though they may hurt you a lot and stab you in the back..

What would you do?



Time. Time is about all you have in your favor there.

Through time you will move on and those feelings will lessen, unless you keep them near so they can re-open those wounds over and over. Certainly not recommended but I know many do such.


HE reopens my wound by getting his "friends" to cahoot whenever they see me and start swearing and stuff.
I have fully deleted his messages, blocked him from my contacts...
I'm just waiting for his friends to just gtfo. or for him to man up and actually talk to me one-to-one.
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