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HideoFTW wrote:

So I'm straight - everyone who knows me properly knows I'm straight (even though I used to be effeminate as fuck!). So there's one rumor in college about me: that I'm a man-whore and get with every girl (mostly when I was drunk...)



hmm.
I'm not sure what college you been to. But every college I go to there may be rumors but no one takes them seriously. guys dont talk about gossip only female do. and i'm pretty sure the female don't really gossip much about guys being a man whore.


so I'm really interested in what college or university you are attending for people to care that much about you being gay and what not.



Ahaha love the comments!

I go to a college in England, and the main problem with these rumours is this: the girls believe it and it screws me over with them! That's why being called a man-whore or gay affects me Worst of all, I meet people for the first time at random in clubs in Windsor, Reading or London, and a few times we have a mutual friend so they ask me random shit they've heard about me :L
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HideoFTW
I go to a college in England, and the main problem with these rumours is this: the girls believe it and it screws me over with them! That's why being called a man-whore or gay affects me


Being denied from scoring because of rumors is tragic. Next time a girl thinks you're gay demand that she have sex with you so that you may prove your hetrosexuality! If a girl thinks you're a manwhore prove her wrong, show her the depths of your devotion and loyalty by bringing her the kidneys of her enemies! Women love romantic stuff like that.
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He could be trying to annoy you by constantly asking you out. You could ignore him and not pay attention to his actions. Or threaten to get authorities involved if he continues to harass you (not sure how it works in England, but you could give it a try).
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I was wondering what college he was going to as well. I have been to 2 colleges and the campus' were so large that there weren't ever any rumors and in all honestly people didn't care what others were doing...you know you pay to go to college to uhm learn not get laid.

Take being hit on by the same gender as a compliment, meaning they thought you were hot enough to take a chance on and it probably took a lot for him to approach you in the first place and was nervous, that or you were the butt of a joke/dare.
Posted 9/25/12

HideoFTW wrote:

So I'm straight - everyone who knows me properly knows I'm straight (even though I used to be effeminate as fuck!). So there's one rumor in college about me: that I'm a man-whore and get with every girl (mostly when I was drunk...)

Then I found out there's another rumor about me: that I came out the closet two years ago and was bullied so I changed! (WTF!)

Now, I have some people that hate me for genuine reasons, and I can see them chatting shit about me... But here's where it got ridiculous...

Start of the new college year, I'm sitting in the canteen eating my subway chatting to a mate I haven't seen in years. This gay-guy who somehow knows my name even though I've never spoken to him says to me - "[my name] I heard you are gay!" Now I'm just like, wtf is this twat on about? But then he makes a pass at me "I like asian guys, I'm just waiting for them to come out the closet". Now, he said this while I was sitting opposite him, and I kinda of stopped eating for a second because I was getting so annoyed. Then he starts saying I'm gay which really started to piss me off: not because he asked me out, but because he was being such an annoying rude cunt about it and said it again-and-again...

Anyway, long-story short, I told this to my gay mate and he laughed. Told it to my straight girl mate, she said I was being homophobic? Now, gay guys have tried it on with my twice before. Once clubbing, once when I was a camp 16 year old. And well - those were cool because the guys weren't being dickheads about it and at the club I got free drinks.

But this fucker kept saying it, again-and-again-and-again and really pissing me off! What makes it worse, even if I was gay, I wouldn't go for a guy that looked like him anyway ha! (No homo!)


It's best to ignore him while you can. If you can't take it anymore tell him this: "Dude, even if I'm gay, I'll never date someone like you. It doesn't matter anyway whether I'm gay or not. All I know is I'm cool and you're just a sore loser who can't get a life. So you better leave me alone."
If you're homophobic (I can see from your story that there is a possibility but I'm not telling that you are homophobic.), you can just say it to his face (probably he'll shut up if he realize that he's immature and loser material) and move on with life. You don't need to be affected with this kind of situation (knowing that you're a straight gal.). Just stay cool if he keeps on saying it and ignore the stupid accusation.
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Bah! Your lucky, I'd take a gay dude hitting on me over the chicks with mustaches and chin beards that usually single me out. With a guy you can just say "dude, I'm not gay" but with the bearded lady you tend to think "man, is this the best I can attract?" or that you might one day actually be drunk enough to go home with her. Either way it makes you really depressed
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Flirt a little for free drinks man.
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if you've tried the polite way and it's not working...
get them away the rude way.
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HideoFTW wrote:

So I'm straight - everyone who knows me properly knows I'm straight (even though I used to be effeminate as fuck!). So there's one rumor in college about me: that I'm a man-whore and get with every girl (mostly when I was drunk...)

Then I found out there's another rumor about me: that I came out the closet two years ago and was bullied so I changed! (WTF!)

Now, I have some people that hate me for genuine reasons, and I can see them chatting shit about me... But here's where it got ridiculous...

Start of the new college year, I'm sitting in the canteen eating my subway chatting to a mate I haven't seen in years. This gay-guy who somehow knows my name even though I've never spoken to him says to me - "[my name] I heard you are gay!" Now I'm just like, wtf is this twat on about? But then he makes a pass at me "I like asian guys, I'm just waiting for them to come out the closet". Now, he said this while I was sitting opposite him, and I kinda of stopped eating for a second because I was getting so annoyed. Then he starts saying I'm gay which really started to piss me off: not because he asked me out, but because he was being such an annoying rude cunt about it and said it again-and-again...

Anyway, long-story short, I told this to my gay mate and he laughed. Told it to my straight girl mate, she said I was being homophobic? Now, gay guys have tried it on with my twice before. Once clubbing, once when I was a camp 16 year old. And well - those were cool because the guys weren't being dickheads about it and at the club I got free drinks.

But this fucker kept saying it, again-and-again-and-again and really pissing me off! What makes it worse, even if I was gay, I wouldn't go for a guy that looked like him anyway ha! (No homo!)


the guy is just an asshole you were in the right you were not being homophobic. End of line he was intruding on your meeting with your friend thats pretty much what its all about as you said.

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If that ever happens to anyone, I would suggest to tell them you are straight (if you are) and then make friends with them. They can help you get the ladies and such. Plus they're pretty fun to talk to!
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lol. twat... forgot about that word
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The lesson, People think you're gay.
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i got asked out by a guy once. i handled it pretty well, as i am straight. it was a little strange, but i'm fine, and i think he is too. he actually wanted more than a relationship, which was the weirdest part
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Posted 10/14/12

Crystabuni wrote:

if you've tried the polite way and it's not working...
get them away the rude way.


I always use the crazy/nut case way. That worked for the most part, but rude can also work....as long as it's not some freaky turn on O.o
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The way i see it you have three options

1.The "jerk/vain" method. Turn to him, flip your hair (if its long enough) and say "Sorry I'm straight, but even if i was gay i am way to good for you.".
2.Two the "crazy" way. Suddenly and rapidly turn around randomly and yell "I know your following me major your nude stealth cant hide you.".
3.Three the "boring" way. Threaten him with a restraining order or other such legal action if he continues his 'harassment'.
4.Four the "counterproductive" way. Ask a large male friend to pretend to be your 'boyfriend' and scare the guy off.
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