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Asked someone out then I find out they are asexual.
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SecondLife wrote:

You're suffering from one-itis


LOL never heard it put that way ^^this i agree..
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My skeptical side would think that she's just saying that to turn you down without bluntly telling you so.

But I suppose there's a chance she has so sexual urges whatsoever.

I guess you'll know when a good-looking guy walks past her and whether she glances back or not.
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Haha yeah
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Asexual means to have little to no interest in sex. She is just shooting you down in a retarded way
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For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head.
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Cool.. You'll get over her soon.. No worries.. She's not worth it
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Anupsis wrote:

For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head.


good luck whichever way this ends
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Kira0309 wrote:


When it comes to homo sapiens, the term "asexual"
(from a- meaning "without" and "sexual" meaning pertaining to sex),
means a person who neither wishes, nor desires anyone (of either gender) in a sexual manner.
It is a rare condition, and is most certainly a real thing that has been studied.
I don't quote wikipedia on anything, so don't worry about that.

Here's a published study regarding the "orientation" of humans who are "asexual."
http://articles.cnn.com/2004-10-14/tech/asexual.study_1_sexuality-new-study-new-scientist?_s=PM:TECH
Here's a foundation dedicated to the archiving of facts and figures as well as education regarding "asexuality."
http://www.asexuality.org/home/
I'm sure that someone else has already posted this, but here' s an "asexual" subculture page dedicated to it:
http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page

I'm sure there's more to be found, but that's what seemed most pertinent to me. [shrugs]
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Rito2Ru wrote:


Anupsis wrote:

For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head.


good luck whichever way this ends


Thanks!
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Posted 10/6/12
As I said before, I wish you the best of luck
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Posted 10/6/12
Good luck and really nice of you and mature to respect her sexual preferences. Glad to hear she was up front about it too, there are asexual people out there who would take advantage of you romantically without reciprocating (fulfilling your sexual needs).
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Wish your happy with you decision and God bless
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Posted 10/6/12
This reminds me of something ....



I'd say give up and try someone else.
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Posted 10/6/12

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"Good lord. That guy got friend-zoned so hard he made it into the news."

I lol'ed. HARD.
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The second pic is true for both men and women. Unless I have suddenly woken up in a universe where women no longer like sex. The Yaoi business is going to take a serious tumble if that's the case so I need to know to get a jump on the market if it's true.



Yeah me too the first time I saw it. Haha Glad I save every interesting pic I come across and that someone found it as funny as I did.
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