Asked someone out then I find out they are asexual.

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Sloth242 6079 cr points Send Message: 21 / M / Abaco, Bahamas Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/5/12 SecondLife wrote: You're suffering from one-itis LOL never heard it put that way ^^this i agree..
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Winterfells 9044 cr points Send Message: 26 / M / Gotham City Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 My skeptical side would think that she's just saying that to turn you down without bluntly telling you so. But I suppose there's a chance she has so sexual urges whatsoever. I guess you'll know when a good-looking guy walks past her and whether she glances back or not.
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Anupsis 22222 cr points Send Message: 25 / M Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Haha yeah
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eos 13644 cr points Send Message: 19 / Places Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Asexual means to have little to no interest in sex. She is just shooting you down in a retarded way
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Anupsis 22222 cr points Send Message: 25 / M Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head.
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Hintkin 7264 cr points Send Message: 19 / F Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Anupsis wrote: For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head. Cool.. You'll get over her soon.. No worries.. She's not worth it
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Rito2Ru 18001 cr points Send Message: 20 / M / With Lucina Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Anupsis wrote: For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head. good luck whichever way this ends
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DeliriumOxide 12366 cr points Send Message: 20 / M / Nestled between E... Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12, edited 10/6/12 Kira0309 wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Anupsis wrote: So like the title says I asked a girl out who then told me she is asexual. It looks like we will end up really good friends. I know this is a bad place to probably ask for advice but I figured why not. I am mainly worried I will not be able to get over my feelings and that I end up not being able to be around her because I cannot handle it. Any advice? Don't you mean homosexual? Asexual means that she can get pregnant without anybody fertilizing her eggs. In other words she reproduces by making clones of herself. Pretty sure that humans cant do that unless you were referring to a non-human female species. When it comes to homo sapiens, the term "asexual" (from a- meaning "without" and "sexual" meaning pertaining to sex), means a person who neither wishes, nor desires anyone (of either gender) in a sexual manner. It is a rare condition, and is most certainly a real thing that has been studied. I don't quote wikipedia on anything, so don't worry about that. Here's a published study regarding the "orientation" of humans who are "asexual." http://articles.cnn.com/2004-10-14/tech/asexual.study_1_sexuality-new-study-new-scientist?_s=PM:TECH Here's a foundation dedicated to the archiving of facts and figures as well as education regarding "asexuality." http://www.asexuality.org/home/ I'm sure that someone else has already posted this, but here' s an "asexual" subculture page dedicated to it: http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page I'm sure there's more to be found, but that's what seemed most pertinent to me. [shrugs]
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Anupsis 22222 cr points Send Message: 25 / M Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Rito2Ru wrote: Anupsis wrote: For anyone who is wondering, I am most likely just gonna try and take a few days away from seeing her and then try and keep our friendship going. Thankfully she is out of town for a few days. I am gonna do my best to get over my feelings for the sake of the friendship. If she ends up coming around eventually then great, but I am not going to expect that in any way. Trying to change her is the wrong thing to do and I am not that type of person. If I just end up with a really good friend then thats fine with me. I have read all the posts and want to thank all of you for your input (even the negative ones). I do not believe she was lying, but if she did than she is not worth it anyway. Wish me luck and thanks again, this at least helped me work it out in my head. Hopefully thanksgiving tomorrow causes some distraction in my head. good luck whichever way this ends Thanks!
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SakiAiza 698 cr points Send Message: 27 / F / Lost Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 As I said before, I wish you the best of luck
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Jsybird2532 8010 cr points Send Message: 21 / F / New York State Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Good luck and really nice of you and mature to respect her sexual preferences. Glad to hear she was up front about it too, there are asexual people out there who would take advantage of you romantically without reciprocating (fulfilling your sexual needs).
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	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12, edited 10/6/12 Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Wish your happy with you decision and God bless
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funnyginsan 54417 cr points Send Message: 27 / M / Irish/German - Am... Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 This reminds me of something .... I'd say give up and try someone else.
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Winterfells 9044 cr points Send Message: 26 / M / Gotham City Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 funnyginsan wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide This reminds me of something .... I'd say give up and try someone else. "Good lord. That guy got friend-zoned so hard he made it into the news." I lol'ed. HARD.
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funnyginsan 54417 cr points Send Message: 27 / M / Irish/German - Am... Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/6/12 Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide kajisawa wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Wish your happy with you decision and God bless The second pic is true for both men and women. Unless I have suddenly woken up in a universe where women no longer like sex. The Yaoi business is going to take a serious tumble if that's the case so I need to know to get a jump on the market if it's true. Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Winterfells wrote: funnyginsan wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide This reminds me of something .... I'd say give up and try someone else. "Good lord. That guy got friend-zoned so hard he made it into the news." I lol'ed. HARD. Yeah me too the first time I saw it. Haha Glad I save every interesting pic I come across and that someone found it as funny as I did.
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