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How picky are you when it comes to dating?
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Posted 10/10/12
When it comes to dating how picky are you? what are some things that would make you break up with someone? What annoys you the most when dating? What is some things that someone should not do on a date?


If this topic done already plz lock up
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Not terribly picky, but like everyone I do go by looks a bit.
lack of an ability to talk, or yapping non-stop would make me break-up, or expecting me to yap non-stop.
Mind-games, expecting me to "know" what I did wrong (if anything), and then not communicating with me about it.

Unless youre just on a one-night stand I think sex on a first date is a BAD BAD Idea.
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24 / F / Up in the clouds~
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So picky. My standards are way too high.

Haha haven't had a boyfriend yet
Posted 10/10/12
I'm pretty picky I think. Personality is a huge boon though. Along with common interests. I'd like if she was pretty but I can't really say I care much.
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Past tense, and not picky enough. >_>

If I ever become divorced, a widow, or just a good old-fashioned whore, the list of requirements is sky high.

The first requirement is Choreplay. You clean. I get turned on. Everyone wins.
Posted 10/10/12
I give chances to people who seem like they deserve them. I don't consider myself terribly picky but I do have standards.

Too much clinginess frustrates me a lot, this also ties in to excessive jealousy. I also expect reciprocity. If I do something like, say....accept the fact that you have a religion, I expect you not to force your beliefs on me. If I cooked for a week straight, I expect you to make an effort to help me or otherwise show that you understand that I'm trying.

The thing that bothers me the most is the unpredictability. I hate how people proclaim that there are rules of dating set in stone. THERE AREN'T and it would be delusional to think that a set of rules would apply to everyone. I don't play games when it comes to this. People who play texting games such as the classic I-won't-text-him-unless-he-texts-me thing are retards. If you want to talk to someone and you're not being clingy or overly attached, just TALK TO THEM. It's senseless complaining about how someone is hard to understand when you're weaving around and being all indirect. Be direct = you get more direct responses. Less drama and misinterpretation is quite something.
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^ Agreed
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27 / M / Gotham City
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In some regards I'm quite picky, but in other regards I'm pretty easy-going. I know that doesn't make sense, but that's the type of person I have. Two polar dichotomies lol.

Some of my standards women would find pretty strict, whereas some of my other standards women would be surprised that it's not a big issue with me.

I have some trust and commitment issues, so women who are too clingy, nagging, and pry too much into my personal life and history tend to scare me away. Women who are manipulative and aren't straightforward and clear when they talk annoy me.

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Well...I wouldn't say I was very picky, as I do want to fall in love and enjoy my life with somebody....

But I do prefer Asians....I am guilty
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25 / F / Georgia
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Extremely. My standards are set pretty high and I'm pretty wary and afraid about lowering it to levels I may not approve of or to something that may end up haphazard.
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I'd like to believe I'd give anyone a chance, but that'd be a lie. I have to be able to keep a conversation going with you if we're gonna play tonsil hockey, and that can be harder than it sounds . I'm not huge on looks, but of course I need to find them attractive. I can't date you if I have trouble looking at you. That said, my standards are pretty low. It'd be nice if he/she has a sense of humor, but I guess it's not a must. Ditto for patience.
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24 / F / NY
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EvilBunnyFluff wrote:

Past tense, and not picky enough. >_>

If I ever become divorced, a widow, or just a good old-fashioned whore, the list of requirements is sky high.

The first requirement is Choreplay. You clean. I get turned on. Everyone wins.


LOL!!!! xD I like that!!

And omg a good old-fashioned whore xD Let's hope it doesn't turn to that.
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24 / F / NY
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MewMewcherry01 wrote:
I can't date you if I have trouble looking at you. .


xD agreed

Please - at least i need to be attracted to you.

And I am picky also. It's my life so it's gotta be equally as joyful for me.

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23 / F / Sexual Chocolate
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I tried not being picky and that's gotten my nowhere, so i've decided to raise my standards. Hot/Fun/Independent/Serious chick or bust!
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24 / F / Florida
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I personally don't think I'm very strict, I can accept a lot of flaws in a guy. My friends consider me me extremely picky though, I don't see why.
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