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How picky are you when it comes to dating?
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Picky for sure, but the degree of pickiness is a matter of perception. These days I'm not just picky, but exclusive. Comes with being the happy wife of a wonderful man. I do remember what dating was like and the philosophy I carried, and it had a lot to do with finding the virtues in a specific individual[s] very special.

Didn't mind going out on dates with eligible folks who would come around, never knew who might be a diamond in the rough- or a rough who just looked like a diamond. Even so, getting me into a committed relationship was an olympic sport for most. The number of folks who successfully wrangled me into a relationship or something relationship-like can be counted on one hand.

Funny thing is that they were all remarkably different from one another. Figured that there was more than one possible ideal out there, you know? Kinda like in dating sims, the archetypes are all desirable in different ways. Of course I only ever fell properly in love with one of 'em, and he went and married me so there you have it.
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Not going to lie I have standards but I wouldn't say I'm unreasonably picky. A guy needs to have...

-Good Hygiene
-A Job
-No babies or baby momma's
-willing to take and pass an STD test
-needs to have at least graduated high school
-someone who is on the same intellectual level as myself with whom can have meaningful conversations with
-wears their pants above their ass crack
-doesn't wear pants as tight as mine
-must respect the fact that my womb is fort knox and realize that the condom isn't optional but mandatory.
-Will not be a yankees fan so help me god
-will not judge my avid love of robot chicken, anime, and hot cheatos.
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crazyfirefly wrote:

Not going to lie I have standards but I wouldn't say I'm unreasonably picky. A guy needs to have...

-Good Hygiene
-A Job
-No babies or baby momma's
-willing to take and pass an STD test
-needs to have at least graduated high school
-someone who is on the same intellectual level as myself with whom can have meaningful conversations with
-wears their pants above their ass crack
-doesn't wear pants as tight as mine
-must respect the fact that my womb is fort knox and realize that the condom isn't optional but mandatory.
-Will not be a yankees fan so help me god
-will not judge my avid love of robot chicken, anime, and hot cheatos.


I fulfill most of those criteria except maybe one.
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Winterfells wrote:


crazyfirefly wrote:

Not going to lie I have standards but I wouldn't say I'm unreasonably picky. A guy needs to have...

-Good Hygiene
-A Job
-No babies or baby momma's
-willing to take and pass an STD test
-needs to have at least graduated high school
-someone who is on the same intellectual level as myself with whom can have meaningful conversations with
-wears their pants above their ass crack
-doesn't wear pants as tight as mine
-must respect the fact that my womb is fort knox and realize that the condom isn't optional but mandatory.
-Will not be a yankees fan so help me god
-will not judge my avid love of robot chicken, anime, and hot cheatos.


I fulfill most of those criteria except maybe one.


Your a yankee fan arn't you?

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crazyfirefly wrote:

Your a yankee fan arn't you?



Haha, no I hate the Yankees. I'm a Mariners fan actually.
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22 / M / Oshkosh, WI
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Posted 10/10/12
I'm not super picky but i do have standards... i don't mind a little chub (i'm not the skinniest myself) but all out fat is just gross. she's got to be cute at least i'm not talking smoking hot but to my tastes. No nagging i can't stand it. common interests always a plus non-judgmental and open minded. not overly religious, it's fine to be christian or w/e but i don't want it wedged into every situation... idc if we are the same religion or not. just the right amount of clingy where i still have freedom but i can tell she wants to be with me. NO BABIES, and being Japanese is a big bonus XD
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I'm not too picky myself... all you have to do is be nice and have a job....
Posted 10/10/12
So many relationship forums and I'm alll......




no.
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personally now days I find dating a waste of time.... it takes time and effort to go out on a date.... all I want to do nowdays is go home after work , watch anime, then sleep
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23 / F / United States
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Posted 10/10/12

Winterfells wrote:


crazyfirefly wrote:

Your a yankee fan arn't you?



Haha, no I hate the Yankees. I'm a Mariners fan actually. :)


LOL that isn't too bad
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23 / M / 68 Highland ave
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picky? haha yea i am kinda picky i only like girls who have great standards and know how to treat their love ones right ,the nagging attitude crap just pisses me off even more but for some reasons i truly digg asian chicks it has been that way from since i was a young lad growing up - gulity face.
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im as picky as a ninja selecting which ninja tools he is going to take into battle with him.
Here is the criteria a girl needs to meet:
Attractive
Smart (I'm not talking Straight A student smart, but smart enough to keep up with me.)
Spontaneous (but not weird spontaneous, like during a Make Out session where she randomly proclaims she wants ice cream)
Creative
Stylish (Not high-fashion, just aware of current trends)
Smells Nice (Japanese Cherry Blossom perfume is to die for)
Proper Hygiene
No STD
No children
No drinking/smoking addiction
DEF no pot
Cultured
Open Minded
into Asian culture


I think you are all forgetting a big one too
INTO ANIME.

^^^ not a requirement but a HUGE plus.
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25 / M / Boston
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The standard I hold for the girls I want to date is the same as I hold for myself. If I wear my seat belt in the car, I expect them too. If I work out, I expect them to. If I pee in the shower, I expect them too.

The lists goes on and on.
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pretty picky myself but not as extreme as some of you haha. heres my idea for the perfect girl in the image i see it:

Attractive
Intelligent - must be able to have a conversation that doesnt involve "like" after every word (god i just want to slap people like that) . just enough to keep me entertained
Athletic
Long Hair - not a fan of short hair
Dresses well
Proper Hygiene
Not clingy
Trustworthy - this is my big one. i have trust issues as it is i def cant date anyone that has a track record of cheating
High Self Esteem - another big one i have. i dont mind girls that are shy but i cant have someone who dont feel confident in themselves
Same morals as myself - treats sex with a respect hard to find in todays society. it shouldnt be something done outside of a relationship imo
Religion is no biggy as long as you dont try to force it on me
and if shes into anime all the better
im easily annoyed with girls who dont shut up as well lol

all in all i dont just want a girlfriend but a friend as well
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27 / M / Gotham City
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Posted 10/10/12

crazyfirefly wrote:

LOL that isn't too bad


It's unfortunate my baseball team has been mired in a franchise slump for over a decade. Going to wait for some brighter days ahead. :)

What team do you root for?
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