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If your daughter was pregnant?
Posted 6/16/07
This question was inspired by 14Sai No Haha.

If your fourteen year old daughter became pregnant, would you persuade her to have an abortion, or to give birth to the baby?

My mother said if I were to ever to get raped, she'd support the baby with me and we'd raise the baby together. I would never have an abortion. Even if I couldn't support the baby, then I'd give it up to an open adoption. If it was my child that got pregnant, I'd persuade her to keep the baby, and we'd raise the baby together, just like my mother promised me.

What about you? This is not a topic about whether abortion is right or wrong, it's just a topic with a senario on abortion.

I'm sorry if there is already a topic like this!
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Posted 6/16/07
^ there is one already
Posted 6/16/07
This thread already exists.

Abortion
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=4605

Please check the Thread Index before posting a possible duplicate thread please
Posted 6/16/07
I think this thread is different. I saw that thread, but okay, If you say it's the same. Please lock this.

That thread is about whether having an abortion is immoral. This has nothing to do with whether it is wrong or right.
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Posted 6/16/07
^^ Well she wasn't talking about abortion exactly. It was if you would allow your daughter to have one/how would you react. So I think it's a different kind of question, but we'll see what other mods say ^_^.

My opinion though, is that I'm totally against abortion for many reasons. To answer the question though, I'd probably initially be really upset and disappointed in my daughter, but because I'd never let her have an abortion after I'd calmed down I'd support and help her. Parents who do ridiculous things like kick their daughters out of the house are just making a bad situation worse. If you kick your daughter out, she not only pregnant now, but she has NO idea what she's doing, no where to live, or take care of herself/the baby.

If she wanted to have an abortion. I'd advise against for all the reasons I can think of, and encourage her to realize that with my help, and the rest of our family's help she CAN succeed in life. Do all the things she wanted to do before having a baby, and then when she's got a job after college and such she can support herself and the child on her own.
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Posted 6/16/07
dunt get raped or watever then, carry mace or some shit, or ugh bite their...during ugh censored XD. bwuahaha
Posted 6/16/07
Did the title get changed? 'Cos I swear it wasn't the same when I last posted. I'm not seeing things am I?

To answer the question - basically similar to what Doomy has said. If my daughter became pregnant, especially at 14, I would feel really disappointed and probably blame myself quite a bit.
But yes I would support her after I had got over the initial shock.
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I would kill the guy if he doesn't wanna stick to my lil darling and raise the baby with my daughter, but if hes cool and feels guilty for the mistake, he will get a chance to be family with us...bnut abortion,....many ppl acn't efford a baby in early age cause of mony education or jobs, but biologically its nothing extreme...
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Posted 6/16/07
^^ Ahem, I'm sorry, Claire, but aren't you pregnant with henz_lan's baby yourself? Hahaha.

I would be upset with my daughter and myself as well. I would probably discourage any thoughts of abortion and help her raise the child.
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Posted 6/16/07
well, let's just assume she is 14.

first, i would hunt down the father like an animal. oh i wouldn't kill him, far from it. i'll just make sure he is terrified of me with every fiber of his being. shouldn't be too challenging. until the matter is resolved i'll keep my eyes on him quite closely.

ideally, i'd allow my daughter to decide. either abortion or putting it up for adoption is what i would recommend. one way or another, at that age she would far too young to take care of a child. if she insists on keeping it, then i'd do my best to support her and ensure the father is always involved with this child - at least financially - for the rest of his life.

if it's rape, i'd hunt down the father and kill him. and i mean that literally as it can be taken.
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Posted 6/16/07
Kill her for she shamed the family =p just joking!!!!!!! it's her choice...
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Posted 6/16/07
theres only one option for her. gettin an abortion or ill kick her out .... i hate kids
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Posted 6/16/07

sobit503 wrote:

theres only one option for her. gettin an abortion or ill kick her out .... i hate kids


but you know you are a kid now....
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Posted 6/16/07

mushroomjay wrote:

I'd lol and kick her like King Leonidas. THIS IS SPARTA!





Lmao, I agree. That is totally the easiest, less stressful, and most mature way to go about it..
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Posted 6/16/07
I find the boy, and find out what his commitment is with her.
What I do to him afterwards, is all up to how he answers me.
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